You want to look under women for guys, or if you want couples, then couples for him. I had a meetup with a couple this past weekend that had reached out months ago, but fell off. Was not a nice experience. They both smoked and I don't like that. Today another couple that reached out a while ago hit me up but I can't, busy. So what I'm saying is, you never know when, you just have to be patient. If you put too much into it you will be disappointed. AFF, is the same, hit and miss. But I don't interact with non paying or non verified members on there. Most times fakes won't go thru that process. I've only met one from there and we texted for months. Was a boring session too lol.