No, because being sexually attracted to black men was not even in her conceptional universe. She was born in 1957, me in 1955 and we were married in 1975. Both grew up in the Southern Appalachians where "mixing of the races" was TABOO, culturally, and in religious thinking. We were living in coastal NC (Career reasons) from the time we were married. Thomas was a co-worker who was black. We both developed a strong friendship with him, simply because we had a lot of common interests and just hit it off very well. Thomas being "black" had nothing to do with it at all, he was just a guy we thought very highly of. Thomas was older then us (about 6 years or so if my memory is correct) and he had grown up in the coastal NC area. It was well over a year into the friendship (15 or 16 months probably) before she started developing sexual feelings toward Thomas. Thomas, growing up in a similar Southern environment to us, was every bit aware of, and affected by, the Southern TABOO as we were. It was an interesting learning curve that made a life-altering experience for all of us. Cell phones did not exist, and here was no internet, and no B2W to help guide us along. In 1978, when Thomas and Sarah became lovers for the first time, home video cassette players / recorders were just becoming widely available (anyone remember the "Betamax / VHS" video dominance war?), and the video rental houses were just starting to appear. (Anyone remember the "Adult" section in the video rental places?). My first hint of "wife sharing' or "interracial" came from seeing some HUSTLER magazines that some of my co workers showed me. I remember one HUSTLER had a story about a guy bringing home a black guy that screwed his wife, and the cartoon-like artwork at the top of the story page showing her legs wrapped around the big black guy as he screwed her. Sarah was a strong Baptist (I was more Agnostic, but respected her beliefs and often attended services with her because I liked a lot of the people there), so I can't imagine that I ever brought home a HUSTLER to show her, but it is possible I did, and that may have planted the seed! I wish I could remember! how it started! ANYWAY, the "Black" thing really didn't hit her UNTIL the first time Thomas had her on our living room sofa, and then the thought she was a married white woman taking a black man just made her hotter than hell! So hot that when Thomas was ready to cum, Sarah grabbed his butt and pulled him close to cum inside her. Thomas was so turned on himself that he just kept cumming and cumming and damn near emptied his balls inside Sarah that first time! It's a scene STILL fresh in my mind, even though it has been more than 40 years ago.