very new

#1
Hi, I'm very new at this. I live in SA and grew up with weird morals, so having interracial sex has always just been a fantasy, but I'd like to change that, and I have my bf's full support since he loves watching. I'm just not sure on how to get my mindset in order. How do I prepare without flaking out? Some insight would be appreciated. Thanx
 

falcondfw69

Male
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From
NH, US
#6
Lucy, Make sure for you AND bf, that this is what you really want. Normal guys (and yes, there are black average guys, in spite of what this site promotes. lol) May not give you the experience you want and may just end up causing trouble in your relationship. Sometimes, honestly, it is better to stay with fantasy. I am not trying to discourage you. Or bf. I just want you to make sure you have both thought of all of the possible results. Whatever you 2 decide, I wish yoou both the best of luck and hope, if you decide to really try it, that it is all you hoped for.
 

falcondfw69

Male
Gold Member
From
NH, US
#8
I just want people to make sure. This lifestyle can be demanding and cause very bad things for couples who think they are prepared but do not realize they are not. I think , since you are in South Africa, it could be pretty easy for you. Hire an SA gardener and make advances, but make sure he knows it is ok.
 
#10
Trust me its not easy, we're only 2 people who knows about this and I'll probably be stoned or something if it comes out. We're very careful and I also only go for guys who also has something to lose.
 

falcondfw69

Male
Gold Member
From
NH, US
#11
lol. ok. that does not give a lot of chance. As a guy, there are only a few who are ready to risk everything, even for someone like Christy Brinkley or Kathy Ireland. You have to be willing to risk as much as they are. If you are not willing, do yourself AND THEM a favor, and keep it as a fantasy so no one gets hurt.
 
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