very new

[LuciousLucy]

Hi, I'm very new at this. I live in SA and grew up with weird morals, so having interracial sex has always just been a fantasy, but I'd like to change that, and I have my bf's full support since he loves watching. I'm just not sure on how to get my mindset in order. How do I prepare without flaking out? Some insight would be appreciated. Thanx

 

[xpatblack]

happy to help

 

[BigBlackBoy69]

if your stuck iam here to help you out! goodluck

 

[Mike&Marsha]

white couple here north and south New Jersey here - she mostly dated black guys- but I'm white go figure lol

 

[LuciousLucy]

SA... South Africa, like I posted before, I need help with getting my mindset right, I'm afraid of meeting someone and when the time for 'play' comes I freak out. I've been masturbating a LOT with interracial porn, and I even fantasize that my bf is a black guy, which he could have been with the monster in his pants... Any suggestions?

 

[falcondfw69]

Lucy, Make sure for you AND bf, that this is what you really want. Normal guys (and yes, there are black average guys, in spite of what this site promotes. lol) May not give you the experience you want and may just end up causing trouble in your relationship. Sometimes, honestly, it is better to stay with fantasy. I am not trying to discourage you. Or bf. I just want you to make sure you have both thought of all of the possible results. Whatever you 2 decide, I wish yoou both the best of luck and hope, if you decide to really try it, that it is all you hoped for.

 

[LuciousLucy]

Thank you very much falcon, we have thought about it, gone over it a thousand times, this is what we want. Thanks again

 

[falcondfw69]

I just want people to make sure. This lifestyle can be demanding and cause very bad things for couples who think they are prepared but do not realize they are not. I think , since you are in South Africa, it could be pretty easy for you. Hire an SA gardener and make advances, but make sure he knows it is ok.

 

[Nick]

Welcome, hope this all works out for you, and that you enjoy it all very much,

 

[LuciousLucy]

Trust me its not easy, we're only 2 people who knows about this and I'll probably be stoned or something if it comes out. We're very careful and I also only go for guys who also has something to lose.

 

[falcondfw69]

lol. ok. that does not give a lot of chance. As a guy, there are only a few who are ready to risk everything, even for someone like Christy Brinkley or Kathy Ireland. You have to be willing to risk as much as they are. If you are not willing, do yourself AND THEM a favor, and keep it as a fantasy so no one gets hurt.

 

[Not a Myth]

I think oh need to consider taking a trip abroad to a place more receptive to black men & white women...

 

[JustinCase]

Welcome!
Cape Town here btw...
hope thins go well fr you

 

[brazilian2410]

Hi there I am also in Johannesburg , I would love to help you out
0781740788

 

[angie666]

black dudes are gross stick with ur white bf and you'll be much happier.

 

[creamlicker]

2B7D057D. Had the same problem. Inv me and we can give you some pointers.