Doubleteam
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Hi
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Unfortunately, wife said that she only wants my cock
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Ok, the positives from this are 1) she loves you and wants to be faithful to you (Yay!) and 2) she likes to watch IR porn with you and you have an open discussion about sex with black guys and fantasize about it (not all males have that in their relationship with there partners). For now you are not going to get her to change her mind about that and you are right you shouldn't push her or she will probably feel you don't love her or think she is not enough for you. She may come around to the idea over more time. Do you have a black dildo? If not tell her how much you want to see her ride a BBC and buy her one for a birthday or valentine's present. Alternatively, if she fantasizes about fucking BBC when you are having sex, you could buy a black strap on to use on her. This may help change her mind.
Those black dildos are responsible for a lot of conversions I think!
Doubleteam
Couple
Thank you for the responses. Great advice!
Doubleteam
Couple
That's not a nice thing to say. I respect her and she is my world. Being honest with her and wanting to explore more things sexually together with my wife doesn't mean I love her any less.
I don't think that just because the op has fantasies of his wife taking on bbc means he loves her any less. Many upon many on here moan about their sex lives getting boring after years of marriage. Maybe he just has this fantasy to share his queen and spice up the bed room, and the marriage. Many upon many in here have also said engaging in this lifestyle has made the marriage better than ever.
With that though, the op should also feel quite the lucky chap for having a wife that is devoted to him like she seems to be.
OP > your wife can like the fantasy. She likes her comfort zone. Status quo. She doesn't have to 'stretch' it beyond that.
I think that the fact that my husband wants me to be sexually fulfilled indicates at he loves me very much. And, even though I have sex with other men, there is no one whom I love more than my husband.
Sam&Kay
Couple
I agree, it has nothing to do with love. Husbands and wives can be very different when it comes to sexual exploration. Ultimately, you have to respect and honor your partners wishes, if they differ from your own. Now, whether that creates a rift in your relationship, and how you manage it, is a separate issue. If you have total trust, and very clear communication, perhaps you can entice her to gradually experiment with different ideas (obviously, she knows it's big turn on for you). However, if she continues to resist, you might just have to accept its not in the cards.
Good on you for actually communicating with your S.O.!!
Sounds like she wants to keep things in the realm of fantasy and there is nothing wrong with that at all.
While her boundaries don’t allow for a 100% realization of your fantasies, she is certainly in a place where you both have (from your description anyway) a great sex life that encompasses a good portion and a lot of fun.
Enjoy!
Sounds like she wants to keep things in the realm of fantasy and there is nothing wrong with that at all.
While her boundaries don’t allow for a 100% realization of your fantasies, she is certainly in a place where you both have (from your description anyway) a great sex life that encompasses a good portion and a lot of fun.
Enjoy!
I apologize.
