Thank you.Congratulations on your bravery and courage in coming out, it must have been an extremely difficult decision. I'm pleased that you have shared your experience with us here, and highlighted reasons why you possibly find interracial sex so alluring and arousing.
It's remarkable how successful it has turned out for you, your wife and your black friend. Sometimes courage, honesty and openness does pay off - congratulations!
Actually the decision was not difficult at all, but made very gladly and in a truly loving spirit, and very liberating romantically and erotically in its consequences.
Since then, my buddy (my ex-wife's new husband) and I have taken no care at all to socially or publicly conceal our homosexual relationship which is obviously freely versatile.
Because he and I are so naturally masculine and straight-acting and not at all effeminate in our behaviour towards each other in public at any time, the erotically intense relationship between we men and my ex-wife is not at all discernible by applying conventional parametrics.
That said, the skin-colour and other physical features of my wife's three children by my buddy very clearly indicate their paternity, including to my long-term friends none of whom know of my homosexual relationship with him since he was 17.
I leave the rest of the puzzle to my friends' no doubt wild imaginings, knowing that they can never even touch upon let alone be convinced of the breathtaking and timeless beauties of our intensely romantic and erotic three-way relationship.