For me the most exciting thing would be to witness the seduction of my white wife by a Black man. I would want him to be a gentleman in public, but sexually Alpha and confident in the home. What I would find exciting is that this man should be things, and represent things, that as a white man I cannot. While I am a good lover and pretty well endowed, I would want him to be even better in both ways. I would want to see her surrender the most body shaking orgasms to him. In short I want this man to best me sexually, yet only want us as sexual toys with no desire to destroy the marriage. I want him to make me beg for my own wife . . .
and all the rest of your post. You have it so exact. way to express everything that I, anyway, feel.