GrandTorino
Male
I've noticed that there's a significant portion of women in the interracial lifestyle (BM/WW) who're fat. So much that it's become a stereotype now, which is used a lot by jealous /racist people who're opposed to the lifestyle. Most of the online interracial kink community does have a significant number of people who give substance to the stereotype. Popular comedians like Chris Rock have talked about this phenomenon in their stand-up routines too. Saying stuff like "Black men don't mind dating fat white women because that's just more white to love".
This is of course a touchy issue for many, but I find it interesting. Usually, the reasoning by the racist/jealous types is that an overweight white woman prefers black men because she's been rejected by white men in the past because of her weight and therefore resorts to black men because they don't have such hang-ups.
On the other hand, many in the lifestyle claim that big white women prefer black men because of the dick size, because "white men can't handle their curves", because "the size of their ass is made for BBC"........you get the picture.
There are socioeconomic factors that come in play too. Fat white women being generally being more well off than the average black man can be portrayed as taking advantage of men, who might be considered out of their league, on account of the economical and social inequality that exists between them. Which is exemplified by the sex tourism to poorer Caribbean and African countries. Similarly, the notion that white women are the most preferred sexual and romantic partners because of the media and how it has promoted fair skinned women for decades. Which is unfair to women of color.
All in all, this phenomenon forms a somewhat negative substrate for interracial relationships between fat white women and black men.
I'm curious what others in the lifestyle think about this.
This is of course a touchy issue for many, but I find it interesting. Usually, the reasoning by the racist/jealous types is that an overweight white woman prefers black men because she's been rejected by white men in the past because of her weight and therefore resorts to black men because they don't have such hang-ups.
On the other hand, many in the lifestyle claim that big white women prefer black men because of the dick size, because "white men can't handle their curves", because "the size of their ass is made for BBC"........you get the picture.
There are socioeconomic factors that come in play too. Fat white women being generally being more well off than the average black man can be portrayed as taking advantage of men, who might be considered out of their league, on account of the economical and social inequality that exists between them. Which is exemplified by the sex tourism to poorer Caribbean and African countries. Similarly, the notion that white women are the most preferred sexual and romantic partners because of the media and how it has promoted fair skinned women for decades. Which is unfair to women of color.
All in all, this phenomenon forms a somewhat negative substrate for interracial relationships between fat white women and black men.
I'm curious what others in the lifestyle think about this.