(...)More concerning, however, is the misconception of what a cuckold is, (...)
Different uses of the word
cuckold are confusing, i agree.
And yet, from common use
within the adult lifestyle community it can be inferred that there is a second broadly accepted meaning that differs from the older dictionary definition (ancient usage). It is no doubt that
cuckolding already has its place within the adult lifestyles, and probably sooner or later will eventually be included in dictionaries.
(...)Hotwife & Slutwife are used interchangeably ... a wife who has sex with other people(...)
ImO that`s a misinterpretation. A
wife who has sex with other people could well be any "unfaithful wife" with no particular correlation of her actions and an
adult lifestyle.
The lifestyle counterpart to the "unfaithful wife" would be the
shared wife; her husband
knows and approves of her being "sexually adventurous" with others which in turn means she is
not being unfaithful.
The concept of a
shared wife is more general and not that specific as that of a
swinging wife,
hotwife or
slutwife. Although all of those three suffice the definition of a
shared wife they are different from each other in some ways (and their meanings cannot be derived by simple word analysis but by
common usage within the adult lifestyle community!)
Unfortunately, common usage does not yield a clean definition as usage within a diverse community cannot be consistent. But some traits that are recurring in use for certain terms can be observed.
It is notable that this discussion is about particular
lifestyle roles, not people! A person can take on one role at one time and a different at another. As an example, an adult who indulges in the
BDSM lifestyle may take on the role of a
Dom in a particular situation or play and that of a
sub at another time. This means that terms like
swinging wife,
hotwife and
slutwife do not per se exclude each other, but yet they do have some different characteristics.
As already mentioned, a
swinger (wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, single person) "swings" within the
swinging community, which is a subculture of the
adult lifestyles with its own rules, "folks and strokes". A
hotwife or
slutwife may well play outside that community, and the
hotwife usually does.
While the
slutwife`s intent is usually that of
quantity, and sexual interaction is an important goal, the
hotwife in contrast seeks for
quality in a man; attracting and seducing men, being flirted with and feeling adorable is often more important than the potential sexual act itself.
In an effort to have sex the
slutwife would dress overly revealing or even cheap. The
hotwife in contrast would dress to seduce - sexy but yet classy.
The
slutwife would willingly "service" strangers, even a bunch of them, while the
hotwife would typically like to know the man or men first, to see if they are "deserving" of her.
^ Just some descriptions that show that the roles of a hotwife and a slutwife can actually be quite different.
^
What do
you think? Do you agree/disagree with my remarks? Thx.