Small Black Dicks

[MisterM]

As a couple into the 'hot wife for BBC' for the last 11 years. I can say that its always been about the BBC.
I stopped counting the number of black guys she has fucked after 30, but I honestly say there were 3 that I would consider a true BBC. A good few others had good sized cocks, and the rest were 6" or smaller.

I just a white guy of Italian heritage, and have always been happy with my size, but I'm a bit bigger than average. But when I see amateur IR porn, a few of the dicks look pretty big, but mostly, they seem pretty comparable in size to mine or others I've seen and been with that are white. But that Blackness renders a certain mystique that distorts perception I think...

 

[wahoosurfer]

My wife has slept with a lot of men both black and white. Her largest was 12” and thick( he is a known porn star). Her second largest was a white guy at just over 11”. She doesn’t care wether they are black or white as long as they can fuck and are on the larger side. Her best sex was with a white guy. Most of the guys we meet with could not be as rough as she wanted. She has actually had more dominant white guys than black. Most of the guys we have been with are good at sex. Me at just under 7”, she said no one has fucked her as hard as i have even when she asked them to give her all they have. She still has no preference black or white even after being with more black men 2 to1. She said there is good and bad black and good and bad white and comes down to the individual she is with. On another note....Ive always thought the hardest position to be in, in the sexual world, was to be a small or average cock black guy as because of the porn world everyone is expecting them to be huge because they are black.

 

[BuddyLuvKy859]

My female friends and now my wife say that black men are terrible at cunnilingus. My wife loves the pounding she takes from her black bull but he is reluctant to lap her cunt.

That is a good point Demalejpo. Growing up from the time I was active, white girls/women didn't want that. They wanted to service us and then get to having sex. So it was something that was not expected. After finding the lifestyle over the last 20+ years, sometimes it is a requirement and sometimes its not (at least from the white women that I have encountered). Not to say its right or wrong, but I believe it comes with your past experiences.

 

[demalejpo]

I agree totally. Very often it’s a cultural thing. My generation was probably the first one where women expected to receive oral sex.

 

[Czechchick]

I've found many more black men on average that just flat won't eat pussy, like before we've even met or on the first meeting say they don't do it. But I've also been out with many more black men so it's not a fair sample size lol

Personally I won't date men who don't eat pussy since that's taking such a huge thing off the table. I find men who eat pussy and love doing it are better lovers overall.

To address the original question, I'm not a size queen, not into race play and don't treat my partners like sex props so I have no interest in all the bbc bullshit. The size of someone's dick isn't even on my list of important things in a partner beyond it not being excessively large or small to the point where sex is impractical and even that is far down the list in terms of importance.

It's a harmful stereotype that makes average black men feel less than and in a lot of cases, especially with younger guys, if they are packing it tends to consume their personality to the point where they come off as one dimensional. As @blackdickwitht said there are also a ton of guys with an average dick but advertising themselves as otherwise, which can cause a lot of disappointment on both sides when they come across a size queen expecting them to whip out a monster. It's just problematic all around for the most part.

Well said.

 

[JoJoKat]

It's an issue with stereotyping and yes the porn industry. Most people looking for IR porn automatically want to see some tiny woman get destroyed by a huge black man. You have to take into account that is not real life and that is not what is always going to happen. If porn were true shouldn't all black men be ripped muscle men as well and all us women weight about 95lbs? There are hung black men and there are hung white men. There are small and normal black men and there are small and normal white men.

I have found black men to be more about enjoying a sexual experience and getting off versus a lot of white men trying to reproduce a love scene or overthink the situation.

 

[frankjudge]

Thank you for your reply. i wonder one thing: After being on the "BBC scene" for eleven years with only three men suiting that category... Did the wife not enjoy having sex with the other Black men you say were more on the medium to smaller side? TY

We enjoyed the thrill, the rudeness of swinging and playing as we do. It wasn't the case of not enjoying the sex with the average men. The bigger ones were more enjoyable and memorable.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

We enjoyed the thrill, the rudeness of swinging and playing as we do. It wasn't the case of not enjoying the sex with the average men. The bigger ones were more enjoyable and memorable.

Thanks for your reply, for sharing your experience and opinion.

i'd assume most wifesharing swingers prefer inviting an average or even smaller dicked Black man to not sharing the wife at all. We know that IRL it may be hard to find a man who fits the "BBC" category. Also that's not every wife's preference. So for the wife having mind-blowing orgasms with a Black man who is less equipped seems to be a good alternative ImO. Every Black man can be a good lover no matter the size of his member. And, let's be honest, not everyone who's hung also knows how to use it well. jm2ct's

 

[DDSoccermom]

I think....there can be too big .

 

[Swallowplease]

As you alluded to, the only way to be bad at oral is to not want to do it. It's really easy to 'trial and error' your way into getting it right if you pay even the smallest amount of attention. Lick, listen, and learn.

Going to the question that OP posted, I wonder how much of any 'skill, not size' effect could be attributed to confirmation bias.

You but the nail on the head " Lick , Listen , Learn "

 

[Swallowplease]

I've found many more black men on average that just flat won't eat pussy, like before we've even met or on the first meeting say they don't do it. But I've also been out with many more black men so it's not a fair sample size lol

Personally I won't date men who don't eat pussy since that's taking such a huge thing off the table. I find men who eat pussy and love doing it are better lovers overall.

To address the original question, I'm not a size queen, not into race play and don't treat my partners like sex props so I have no interest in all the bbc bullshit. The size of someone's dick isn't even on my list of important things in a partner beyond it not being excessively large or small to the point where sex is impractical and even that is far down the list in terms of importance.

It's a harmful stereotype that makes average black men feel less than and in a lot of cases, especially with younger guys, if they are packing it tends to consume their personality to the point where they come off as one dimensional. As @blackdickwitht said there are also a ton of guys with an average dick but advertising themselves as otherwise, which can cause a lot of disappointment on both sides when they come across a size queen expecting them to whip out a monster. It's just problematic all around for the most part.

Interesting response here. You're " Not a size Queen " or " Into race play " those two statements leave me rather curious what brings you to this site that is centered and baited pretty much with Race / Size play as it's landmarks other than that you made some valid points.

 

[Swallowplease]

I see no other Man of color had told you all the eating pussy situation. When it comes to us, the Majority of

Black Men DO EAT PUSSY

The Majority just don't eat Randoms or strangers pussy. Getting a black man to eat your pussy requires him knowing only his dick is used on the woman. The thought of burying our face in some pussy after 3 - 4 other random Niggas that we don't even know isn't apart of the Game for us

Take me for example. I have a pussy eating craving / Fetish so monstrous I'd be ok with eating pussy without being touched when I'm in that werewolf mode. Depends on how long I've been single going without it. But I'd NEVER eat a random woman's pussy not knowing the kind of traffic it gets or it ifs properly waxed and cleaned.

 

[avaadore]

Interesting response here. You're " Not a size Queen " or " Into race play " those two statements leave me rather curious what brings you to this site that is centered and baited pretty much with Race / Size play as it's landmarks other than that you made some valid points.

I'm here because I love black men and have dated mostly black men for the last 16yrs of my life.

Why would that need to have anything to do with race play or dick size?

 

[Swallowplease]

I'm here because I love black men and have dated mostly black men for the last 16yrs of my life.

Why would that need to have anything to do with race play or dick size?

Size and race is just the typical drawl in for the sub culture. Women hear the stories of other women and see the pictures and videos and naturally get curious and want to test the waters.

 

[avaadore]

Size and race is just the typical drawl in for the sub culture. Women hear the stories of other women and see the pictures and videos and naturally get curious and want to test the waters.

I don't really view it as a culture to date interracially, I just date who I'm attracted to and 9/10x that's a black man.

Being that most of the men I've dated and slept with have been black I'm fully aware that the size myth is just that, a myth. I fucking hate the messages I get online from white men telling me I should be interested in them because they're "hung like they're black" as if that's the only reason someone could possibly have for preferring black men.

Race or rather difference in race is obviously a factor, but what I said was I have no interest in race play which is a totally different thing.

 

[HardBlackCandy]

My female friends and now my wife say that black men are terrible at cunnilingus. My wife loves the pounding she takes from her black bull but he is reluctant to lap her cunt.

I have always received high marks in this regard. I love to slurp out a clean, smooth-shaven, good-smelling clam. Whatcha gotta do is lap and slurp and smack your lips like a big greedy doggie Make that pretty white girl feel good and “nut” in your face. I’ll take a nose dive for that butt hole too if it’s clean. Hell, I won’t even go for the pussy in the first place if the booty hole ain’t clean. Too close for comfort.

 

[superdick33]

I have always received high marks in this regard. I love to slurp out a clean, smooth-shaven, good-smelling clam. Whatcha gotta do is lap and slurp and smack your lips like a big greedy doggie Make that pretty white girl feel good and “nut” in your face. I’ll take a nose dive for that butt hole too if it’s clean. Hell, I won’t even go for the pussy in the first place if the booty hole ain’t clean. Too close for comfort.

 

[superdick33]

I've found many more black men on average that just flat won't eat pussy, like before we've even met or on the first meeting say they don't do it. But I've also been out with many more black men so it's not a fair sample size lol

Personally I won't date men who don't eat pussy since that's taking such a huge thing off the table. I find men who eat pussy and love doing it are better lovers overall.

To address the original question, I'm not a size queen, not into race play and don't treat my partners like sex props so I have no interest in all the bbc bullshit. The size of someone's dick isn't even on my list of important things in a partner beyond it not being excessively large or small to the point where sex is impractical and even that is far down the list in terms of importance.

It's a harmful stereotype that makes average black men feel less than and in a lot of cases, especially with younger guys, if they are packing it tends to consume their personality to the point where they come off as one dimensional. As @blackdickwitht said there are also a ton of guys with an average dick but advertising themselves as otherwise, which can cause a lot of disappointment on both sides when they come across a size queen expecting them to whip out a monster. It's just problematic all around for the most part.

Exactly this whole point you are talking about is true. But luckily for me I love eating POON LOL. But to be honest I don’t pay attention to size queens anyways and most of them are not even that attractive.

 

[clittease33]

My female friends and now my wife say that black men are terrible at cunnilingus. My wife loves the pounding she takes from her black bull but he is reluctant to lap her cunt.

Don’t put us all in a box... I love eating white pussy.... and I’m marvelous at it!

 

[whitechickslay]

I love eating pussy