Should you go into a relationship as a cuck?

[BruceJenner76]

Question... Ok backstory... In 12 years of dating,had 2 of my GF's cheat with black men (like steady on the side cheating). After last breakup, after getting over the burn, I started to embrace the idea, and accept it (I am not hung at all). I know I am a cuck, have come to that conclusion after quite some time. Knowing that, should I just wear this on my sleeve and look at dating from the perspective of ... I am a cuck, you like that... maybe we can date. Just get it right out in the open, sort of like maybe someone who is a bisexual would?

 

[cucksub4blk]

If it's your desire to live the cuckold lifestyle, you should be honest and up front about it and find a woman who desires the same thing.

 

[cuck4suck]

Sure then you can find the relationship you are seeking.

 

[tj loser boy]

I think it would be the ultimate cuckhold experience to date and then maybe go on to marry a woman that has never and will probably never let you actually have sex with. Well not vaginal sex any way. I love sex. But that can be masterbation hand jobs, oral and well the list goes on and on depending on your imagination ! But she could have her loyal cuck and have great sex with all the hung Alfa men she wants

 

[cucksub4blk]

In 12 years of dating,had 2 of my GF's cheat with black men (like steady on the side cheating).

Just out of curiosity, before breaking up with those cheating gf's, did you offer being a cuckold as an option? If so, how was it received?

 

[BruceJenner76]

Just out of curiosity, before breaking up with those cheating gf's, did you offer being a cuckold as an option? If so, how was it received?

No. I only knew after the break up. Would not have agreed at the time. Wasnt until after, I thought about it, turned me on. I hated that it did. Tried to bury that for awhile. But ultimately could not any longer.

 

[BruceJenner76]

So far looks like most people think yes.

 

[slinky1]

I told my current wife on our very first date. (Yes, she had to google the term to believe me that there are men who allow their partner to fuck others while the husband stays monogamous, as she couldn't believe any man would want that) I went on plenty of first dates, and if I felt there was an attraction, I brought it up, only my current wife was interested in it further. She then disclosed that as a 16yo, she had a steady boyfriend who her parents approved of, but he lived the other side of town and couldn't catch up a lot, and a boy she'd fuck on the side without any of them knowing. She told me she fucked the one on the side one Saturday night, then on the Sunday afternoon visited her boyfriend. He ate her pussy that afternoon before fucking her and she remembers how much she loved the slutiness of it all and that he was clueless he was potentially licking another males cum. Once she told me that, I made sure there was a second date and we've been together for 12 years

 

[cucksub4blk]

I told my current wife on our very first date. (Yes, she had to google the term to believe me that there are men who allow their partner to fuck others while the husband stays monogamous, as she couldn't believe any man would want that) I went on plenty of first dates, and if I felt there was an attraction, I brought it up, only my current wife was interested in it further. She then disclosed that as a 16yo, she had a steady boyfriend who her parents approved of, but he lived the other side of town and couldn't catch up a lot, and a boy she'd fuck on the side without any of them knowing. She told me she fucked the one on the side one Saturday night, then on the Sunday afternoon visited her boyfriend. He ate her pussy that afternoon before fucking her and she remembers how much she loved the slutiness of it all and that he was clueless he was potentially licking another males cum. Once she told me that, I made sure there was a second date and we've been together for 12 years

What an encouraging story! Have you been able to keep that flame alive these twelve years?

 

[slinky1]

What an encouraging story! Have you been able to keep that flame alive these twelve years?

Absolutely, in 12 years we've almost never had even an argument. I think the important thing was not moving the goalposts on what I wanted. I told her I was a cuck, that I found most of my 99% of my sexual release from regular masturbation, that I always had been a cuck and I was only interested in a cuckold relationship. 12 years on, it hasn't changed one little bit, I still haven't had any interest in fucking another woman as I promised her at the beginning, I still masturbate quite a lot with her knowledge and approval and I think that has helped a lot. We have a very stable relationship, because we haven't drifted from our original agreement.

 

[cucksub4blk]

Absolutely, in 12 years we've almost never had even an argument. I think the important thing was not moving the goalposts on what I wanted. I told her I was a cuck, that I found most of my 99% of my sexual release from regular masturbation, that I always had been a cuck and I was only interested in a cuckold relationship. 12 years on, it hasn't changed one little bit, I still haven't had any interest in fucking another woman as I promised her at the beginning, I still masturbate quite a lot with her knowledge and approval and I think that has helped a lot. We have a very stable relationship, because we haven't drifted from our original agreement.

They say honesty is the best policy -- it certainly seems true in this case. How has it worked out in terms of actual cuckolding? Has she been active in the lifestyle?

 

[slinky1]

On and off, not as active as we both would like, but we have one friend we've known for nearly 4 years who fucks her. They both get on like a house on fire, and they love the sex they have but its irregular. They might fuck 6 times in a month, then we may not see or hear him for 3 months.

 

[RangerCuck]

My current GF and I started our relationship as a cuckold one. After we started getting serious, she told me she was going to fuck around (I'm 54 and she's 22) and if I didn't like it, we would need to end the relationship at that point or keep it from getting any more serious. As luck would have it, of course, I have long had a fantasy of being cuckolded, so she was quite surprised and elated. We have even discussed the possibility of getting married. We have a contract that spells out how we handle things (including my chastity, punishments, etc.). The contract has a provision that requires us to renew it each year unless we get married, at which time it becomes permanent. So I personally think if cuckoldry is something you're interested in (or resigned to, if that's your outlook), then it is best to build the relationship on that from the get-go.

 

[cucksub4blk]

Thanks for sharing your experiences, slinky1 and RangerCuck. It's refreshing and encouraging to see how a little courage and honesty up front can pay real dividends in the long run.

I wish I had a similarly encouraging story to share, but I don't. When I first met my wife more than 20 years ago, my desires weren't so well-formed: I knew I was submissive, and I had long since developed an addiction to IR porn, but I didn't know anything about the cuckold lifestyle, so we never had an open and honest discussion about it until years later. When it finally happened, she was a bit shocked, even suspicious at first (wondering what my motives could be), and in the end, she simply wasn't interested in pursuing it. I can't blame her: she never signed up for it.

All in all, I'm blessed with a happy marriage, and I'm content with just fantasizing about it. But if you want it for real, take heed and make sure it's made clear up front.

 

[RangerCuck]

When I first met my wife more than 20 years ago, my desires weren't so well-formed: I knew I was submissive, and I had long since developed an addiction to IR porn, but I didn't know anything about the cuckold lifestyle, so we never had an open and honest discussion about it until years later. When it finally happened, she was a bit shocked, even suspicious at first (wondering what my motives could be), and in the end, she simply wasn't interested in pursuing it. I can't blame her: she never signed up for it.

All in all, I'm blessed with a happy marriage, and I'm content with just fantasizing about it. But if you want it for real, take heed and make sure it's made clear up front.

Yeah, it helps that mine is a very recent relationship informed by the now prevalent and common fantasy in porn of cuckolding. With my late wife of 28 years, cuckolding would never have flown. So in my, it's really just the luck of the situation I was in.

 

[Pet619]

short answer...yes

 

[slinky1]

Thanks for sharing your experiences, slinky1 and RangerCuck. It's refreshing and encouraging to see how a little courage and honesty up front can pay real dividends in the long run.

I wish I had a similarly encouraging story to share, but I don't. When I first met my wife more than 20 years ago, my desires weren't so well-formed: I knew I was submissive, and I had long since developed an addiction to IR porn, but I didn't know anything about the cuckold lifestyle, so we never had an open and honest discussion about it until years later. When it finally happened, she was a bit shocked, even suspicious at first (wondering what my motives could be), and in the end, she simply wasn't interested in pursuing it. I can't blame her: she never signed up for it.

All in all, I'm blessed with a happy marriage, and I'm content with just fantasizing about it. But if you want it for real, take heed and make sure it's made clear up front.

Just run with what you have, and if it becomes a cuckold relationship, even better. I've known so many wannabe cucks that destroyed their marriages because the couldn't let go of the fantasy and needed it to become reality. I'd even be happy these days if I was looking with a wife who doesn't feel the desire to fuck me but is just happy to share the love of cuck/ IR porn with me and letting me jerk off to as much of it as I desire, which in a way is what I have know.