Prettykitty
Female
I’m new here and need some advise. I’m getting married in May and my fiancé reeeeeeeeally wants me to fuck a black guy.
Some backstory:
My fiancé Brett and I have been together for two years, engaged for six months of those years. He’s twenty-six, I’m twenty-nine. Cuckoldry has been a long time fantasy of his. Specifically, with a BBC. He has this sense of admiration for black guys because I’m pretty sure he thinks they’re all hung. Anyway, we’ve talked about the possibility of dabbling in the lifestyle but I’m slightly apprehensive.
I tried swinging with my ex husband and it didn’t work out. To be fair, the marriage most likely would’ve ended eventually, but swinging finished us off quickly. We didn’t swing long, but I did really enjoy the excitement of it. I did not enjoy seeing my guy with another girl though. And, my ex was a jerk about the whole thing.
My fiancé knows about my swinging past and wants to eliminate the other female and have me fuck black men. Of course, the idea of having fun with some hunky black guys sounds great to me but I’m a little afraid it’ll change Brett. That history is destined to repeat itself for me. I don’t want to lose him over this, which brings me to my dilemma.
I know he wants this badly and this fetish of his isn’t going away. In fact, I’m starting to feel like not acting on it will also be detrimental to our relationship but he isn’t getting what he needs. So I wonder if I should fulfill his cuckold fantasy before we get married in case things do go sideways, we won’t have to get a divorce? Or do I wait until after we’re hitched and potentially risk another messy divorce for myself?
If I decide to do it before the wedding, I could call it his wedding gift from me to him. What do you think?
Some backstory:
My fiancé Brett and I have been together for two years, engaged for six months of those years. He’s twenty-six, I’m twenty-nine. Cuckoldry has been a long time fantasy of his. Specifically, with a BBC. He has this sense of admiration for black guys because I’m pretty sure he thinks they’re all hung. Anyway, we’ve talked about the possibility of dabbling in the lifestyle but I’m slightly apprehensive.
I tried swinging with my ex husband and it didn’t work out. To be fair, the marriage most likely would’ve ended eventually, but swinging finished us off quickly. We didn’t swing long, but I did really enjoy the excitement of it. I did not enjoy seeing my guy with another girl though. And, my ex was a jerk about the whole thing.
My fiancé knows about my swinging past and wants to eliminate the other female and have me fuck black men. Of course, the idea of having fun with some hunky black guys sounds great to me but I’m a little afraid it’ll change Brett. That history is destined to repeat itself for me. I don’t want to lose him over this, which brings me to my dilemma.
I know he wants this badly and this fetish of his isn’t going away. In fact, I’m starting to feel like not acting on it will also be detrimental to our relationship but he isn’t getting what he needs. So I wonder if I should fulfill his cuckold fantasy before we get married in case things do go sideways, we won’t have to get a divorce? Or do I wait until after we’re hitched and potentially risk another messy divorce for myself?
If I decide to do it before the wedding, I could call it his wedding gift from me to him. What do you think?
