Serious question - Female perspective greatly needed

[HaroldKilmer]

I figure if I explain the reason I'm asking this question I might get more answers. My girlfriend and I were planning on having a couple children of our own before we got into the BBC cuckold fantasy. She gets really into it, and she loves the cuckold angle (as much as I do). We are still planning on having ******* of our own, but she has a major fantasy involving black breeding that stresses me out. I admit that it's really hot. I'm just worried that if we end up having white sons, then she'll think less of them because of the whole "black dominance" fantasy.

I'm genuinely curious how much truth there is to the black only cuckold fantasy, espescially concering mothers who have white children, and I would love to hear personal perspective from white mothers, as well as any and all female perspectives on the subject. For starters, if we do end up having a white male baby before becoming a bbc hotwife/cuckoldress, how will her opinions of him change? Will her aspirations for his future changed? Will she think less of him as a male? I worry that as he grows she'll just think of him as the loser that she fantasizes about me as.

 

[KeriTheSlut]

I don’t have ******* and don’t plan on it but I’m sure that she would not love her own baby less because of his skin. This is definitely a conversation you need to have with her before it happens

 

[loverbbcinva]

I figure if I explain the reason I'm asking this question I might get more answers. My girlfriend and I were planning on having a couple children of our own before we got into the BBC cuckold fantasy. She gets really into it, and she loves the cuckold angle (as much as I do). We are still planning on having ******* of our own, but she has a major fantasy involving black breeding that stresses me out. I admit that it's really hot. I'm just worried that if we end up having white sons, then she'll think less of them because of the whole "black dominance" fantasy.

I'm genuinely curious how much truth there is to the black only cuckold fantasy, espescially concering mothers who have white children, and I would love to hear personal perspective from white mothers, as well as any and all female perspectives on the subject. For starters, if we do end up having a white male baby before becoming a bbc hotwife/cuckoldress, how will her opinions of him change? Will her aspirations for his future changed? Will she think less of him as a male? I worry that as he grows she'll just think of him as the loser that she fantasizes about me as.

If she thinks of you as a loser, time reevaluate your relationship now before children.

 

[MacNfries]

I worry that as he grows she'll just think of him as the loser that she fantasizes about me as.

If she feels that way about you now ... children should be the last thing you guys need to discuss. You really do need to have some serious talks as to why she sees you as a loser, or why YOU think she sees you as a loser. Maybe this is your own opinion of how she sees you ... which would be good to discuss that with her as well. Maybe you've brainwashed yourself with so much interracial porn that you've convinced yourself you don't compare with black males.
I assume you had intentions on getting married before having ki.ds, right?

 

[Sabra]

If she’s any kind of nurturing mom then she will love all of her ******* the same regardless of skin colour. If you even feel this may be the case then I would highly reconsider ever having ******* with this woman.

 

[HaroldKilmer]

I really appreciate all the input so far, I just don't even know how to approach the subject. I suppose I could be looking too deep into this "fantasy". She just gets so turned on with "black breeding" and "black superiority" side of it. she goes so far as to say that I have "worthless white seed" while she's working on me, and I have to admit It turns me on hearing her saying it in the moment (obviously her intention); but afterwards, I do feel kind of low about, and I can't help but wonder if she really believes it, especially now that I really think I do want some ******* of our own

 

[Sabra]

I really appreciate all the input so far, I just don't even know how to approach the subject. I suppose I could be looking too deep into this "fantasy". She just gets so turned on with "black breeding" and "black superiority" side of it. she goes so far as to say that I have "worthless white seed" while she's working on me, and I have to admit It turns me on hearing her saying it in the moment (obviously her intention); but afterwards, I do feel kind of low about, and I can't help but wonder if she really believes it, especially now that I really think I do want some ******* of our own

you seriously need to talk to her about how this makes you feel.

 

[michael87]

I figure if I explain the reason I'm asking this question I might get more answers. My girlfriend and I were planning on having a couple children of our own before we got into the BBC cuckold fantasy. She gets really into it, and she loves the cuckold angle (as much as I do). We are still planning on having ******* of our own, but she has a major fantasy involving black breeding that stresses me out. I admit that it's really hot. I'm just worried that if we end up having white sons, then she'll think less of them because of the whole "black dominance" fantasy.

I'm genuinely curious how much truth there is to the black only cuckold fantasy, espescially concering mothers who have white children, and I would love to hear personal perspective from white mothers, as well as any and all female perspectives on the subject. For starters, if we do end up having a white male baby before becoming a bbc hotwife/cuckoldress, how will her opinions of him change? Will her aspirations for his future changed? Will she think less of him as a male? I worry that as he grows she'll just think of him as the loser that she fantasizes about me as.

PHEW!!! You've really got your knickers in a twist haven't you.

The giveaway part of your wildly circumventive post is undoubtedly that

".....she (your wife) has a major fantasy involving black breeding that stresses me out. I admit that it's really hot."

Well I never!!! And join the club here.

The plain and relatively painless solution to your agonising is already at hand, and it's this:

Man-up straightaway and very encouragingly indulge your wife's all too obvious desire to be bred by a knock-out beautiful and virile black stud, and get off yourself by watching the physical fulfillment of your obviously super-hot but agonising fantasy about it right there beside your wife and her black lover barebacking her on your marriage bed.

Believe me, your present puffery about your wanting to ******* a white baby and what he or she might think about your questionable masculinity when it grows up, will be simply blown away by your orgiastic excitement at watching a potent young black impregnating your BBC-craving hotwife with you lying and frantically masturbating right there beside them.

From much first hand experience (related in my many posts here) I can assure you that if you practically apply my above-suggested solution, even once, your resulting cerebral and physical sexual ******* will far outweigh the hopefully only temporary agony you will suffer from watching your wife being right-royally fucked and sexually fulfilled and exspurtly impregnated by the stud of her dreams.

And, even better, you will be hooked.

 

[loverbbcinva]

PHEW!!! You've really got your knickers in a twist haven't you.

The giveaway part of your wildly circumventive post is undoubtedly that

".....she (your wife) has a major fantasy involving black breeding that stresses me out. I admit that it's really hot."

Well I never!!! And join the club here.

The plain and relatively painless solution to your agonising is already at hand, and it's this:

Man-up straightaway and very encouragingly indulge your wife's all too obvious desire to be bred by a knock-out beautiful and virile black stud, and get off yourself by watching the physical fulfillment of your obviously super-hot but agonising fantasy about it right there beside your wife and her black lover barebacking her on your marriage bed.

Believe me, your present puffery about your wanting to ******* a white baby and what he or she might think about your questionable masculinity when it grows up, will be simply blown away by your orgiastic excitement at watching a potent young black impregnating your BBC-craving hotwife with you lying and frantically masturbating right there beside them.

That is the most idiotic conclusion I have ever seen.

 

[michael87]

LOL!!!

It wasn't a conclusion, it was merely a potentially helpful suggestion---that, by the way, one ought not to be knocking if one hasn't tried it.

 

[michael87]

LOL!!!

It wasn't a conclusion, it was merely a potentially helpful suggestion---that, by the way, one ought not to be knocking if one hasn't tried it.

So glad you agree, Loverbbcinva.

 

[loverbbcinva]

So glad you agree, Loverbbcinva.

Who say I haven't tried it?

 

[michael87]

Who say I haven't tried it?

Not me, obviously. But thank you anyhow for your female perspective.

 

[HaroldKilmer]

Thanks again to everyone for all the input. I kind of tried to bring it up with her, but I think she got the wrong idea (things started getting sexual, and we started watching IR hypnos on my computer. I don't know how to bring up the topic seriously to her without her thinking that I'm just building on our fantasy.

Another thing that concerns me is if we do end up having children, I worry about how it would effect any boys we might have should they find out eventually that there mom treats me like a cuck and "worships" black guys. I can't imagine how that could effect his self-worth as a white male. On top of that, I don't know if my wife is serious when she says that "all white boys should be cucks. During our role play last night, she joked about my concerns, saying that I'm afraid our ******* would end up"growing up to be cuck like his dad". I worry that our children could become depressed and think that all women feel the way there mom does, and live with doubts that any women could ever respect them just because of their race. I don't know how I could possibly approach this subject as a ******* if the need should arise.

Have any of you white wives and mothers ever worried, or even worse, had to deal with this kind of situation in your lives? Had did you approach it?

 

[michael87]

Thanks again to everyone for all the input. I kind of tried to bring it up with her, but I think she got the wrong idea (things started getting sexual, and we started watching IR hypnos on my computer. I don't know how to bring up the topic seriously to her without her thinking that I'm just building on our fantasy.

Another thing that concerns me is if we do end up having children, I worry about how it would effect any boys we might have should they find out eventually that there mom treats me like a cuck and "worships" black guys. I can't imagine how that could effect his self-worth as a white male. On top of that, I don't know if my wife is serious when she says that "all white boys should be cucks. During our role play last night, she joked about my concerns, saying that I'm afraid our ******* would end up"growing up to be cuck like his dad". I worry that our children could become depressed and think that all women feel the way there mom does, and live with doubts that any women could ever respect them just because of their race. I don't know how I could possibly approach this subject as a ******* if the need should arise.

Have any of you white wives and mothers ever worried, or even worse, had to deal with this kind of situation in your lives? Had did you approach it?

Well Harold, neither I nor my wife (now my ex) have ever agonized over that one. Not for a single second.

Rather, even before I abdicated my husbandship to my beautiful young bisexual black best buddy and long-term lover, I was my wife's total hero for my straight-upness about hotly wanting her to be black-bred by him and my not theorizing or agonizing about what his children by her might or might not some day think of me as the 100% masculine enthusiastic cuckold and part-time baby-minder that I'm now very publicly known to be.

I guess it's just a case of different strokes for different folks, especially for long-cucked husbands like me who have given up their vain social posturings to boldly come out and get off hugely on expressing their homosexual side, in my case including in my frequent threesoming with my ex and my deliciously versatile buddy in their marital bed.

Finally, addressing your fears about your children finding out that your wife (with your tacit approval) worships black guys, it may help you to know that my ex began very openly worshipping the incredibly beautiful body of my black buddy from the moment he first stripped off for her beside our marriage bed, and even more eagerly when she got to exploring his body in greater detail in the throes of the full-on lovemaking that she initiated with him only a few minutes later.

Their three children (the oldest being 5) are very used to and perfectly comfortable with my ex's openly adoring the body of my buddy when he's fully clothed, and equally when he's wearing daks only and her loving hands are roving over every exposed part of his body.

Sure that's very erotic for me, in ways that it is visibly not for their children. They have come to see and understand it as a simple albeit very direct and natural expression of her wifely admiration of her handsome and physically very attractive young husband.

Is my ego ever threatened by that? Very obviously not.

 

[MacNfries]

but afterwards, I do feel kind of low about, and I can't help but wonder if she really believes it

If this "feeling of lowness" appears AFTER you've masturbated a couple times, that's common. Same as feeling a bit guilty of masturbation when you were just a kid and didn't really understand what ejaculations were.
And you can expect these kinds of feelings when you witness her getting serviced a a well hung man as well. The adrenaline rush you'll experience is very intense, with mixed emotional overtones of envy, anger, excitement, etc etc ... a real "power pill". Some men get off on this RUSH and others not so well, as it is really an intensive experience.
If you're planning a family, and you want your kid's DNA of you and your wife, you might wish to hold off on this experience. I imagine, in reality, its done as much damage to marriages as it has done good. I've experienced it on the negative side and its like the world is crashing down:

I met my wife through my college roommate. He'd dated her a couple years and I use to hear the two fucking sometimes until dawn. Then he dump her to date another girl and my "future wife" came to me crying. We ended up becoming a couple, got married shortly after college, and tried to go straight. About a year after, my wife ran into my roommate (her X) at the mall, called me on my cell to let me talk to him ... I invited him over for dinner that night, and he and I did a 3-some with my wife. And again, they fucked until the early morning, getting reacquainted with an old love affair.​

I went into the dumps over that ... thinking I had reignited romance between them. It took me well over a month before both my wife & my X-roommate convinced me that there was no romance reigniting. In fact, he and his wife were expecting a baby a few months down the road. But for a while I was really in depression over what I thought I had reignited. ​

So, this stuff is serious and the brain can wreck havoc with imaginary situations that don't exist. By the way, we've been together over 22 years now.
Mac

 

[Pralasm]

Reliving the post, how have you been?, did you manage to talk to your wife? because this is very delicate, yourself say that you get excited about the fact that a black man impregnates your wife...
....I think you have to talk to your wife and make it clear that your doubt is about her feelings towards your baby, and not about her having a baby with a black man, so you can talk to her without putting out the flame of the her fetish and not frustrate her while you can have a nice chat with her!....After all, reality is not fantasy... but I say that your situation is exciting... and my opinion, particularly mine, if she says she wouldn't like a white ******* but she loves me and I love her, I would have a Vasectomy , some are reversible, if in the future she wants, she can have, if she doesn't want, she won't have accidents, but remembering, my opinion!...and of course, already knowing that a baby is a baby and I would give love and affection like a real dad, whether mine or not!

 

[pipedealer]

I figure if I explain the reason I'm asking this question I might get more answers. My girlfriend and I were planning on having a couple children of our own before we got into the BBC cuckold fantasy. She gets really into it, and she loves the cuckold angle (as much as I do). We are still planning on having ******* of our own, but she has a major fantasy involving black breeding that stresses me out. I admit that it's really hot. I'm just worried that if we end up having white sons, then she'll think less of them because of the whole "black dominance" fantasy.

I'm genuinely curious how much truth there is to the black only cuckold fantasy, espescially concering mothers who have white children, and I would love to hear personal perspective from white mothers, as well as any and all female perspectives on the subject. For starters, if we do end up having a white male baby before becoming a bbc hotwife/cuckoldress, how will her opinions of him change? Will her aspirations for his future changed? Will she think less of him as a male? I worry that as he grows she'll just think of him as the loser that she fantasizes about me as.

This is fucked up