Hi folks I had an interesting experience this weekend I thought I would share. I went to a Swingers/lifestyle meet and greet this weekend. Now this is an organized on going event that is stated to be open to all interested couples, single men and single women. I have known about this event for some time but thought I would check it out , since I would be in the area anyway. I get there and this meet and greet takes place at a bar/ restaurant type place ,it is on the small side but clean and cozy. The crowd seems friendly as I order a drink and say hello to a few of the other guest. There were quite a few hot females there dressed in their sexy best and the guys were dressed nice but casual, as was I, Of course there were a few more couples than singles. Now as I mingled around the bar I noticed that there was some type of separation going on, the bar seemed to be divided into sections, there was an area where all of the white couples and singles seem to gather, then there was another area where it was all hispanic couples and latina women, then there was a section where white women with black men were hanging out. Now I'm not one to assume anything, so I walked around the bar several times to see if what I was observing was correct, it seemed everyone was comfortable, and no one was making waves, but I did notice everyone seem to be staying in there designated areas and hanging with their own crowd, so maybe it was just an understood thing ?? Now being the assertive black bull I am, I decided to go ahead and break ranks, so I meet this nice friendly white couple visiting from out of town with sexy big boobed hot wife, so they invite me to join them at the bar and we strike up a good conversation, I can see they are showing definite interest. The hostess of the meet and greet comes over and interupts our conversation and starts chatting up the couple, pulling them aside, whispering to them, so soon I get the picture that the hostess is definitely cock blocking me. After a few moments I decide to mingle else where, so as I make my way over to the pool tables I see a tall leggy blonde give me a big smile, so I go over introduce myself and she tells me her name, we strike up a conversation and no more than 2 minutes into our conversation her husband/boyfriend or who ever comes over and introduces herself, now I can see the look of fear and terror on this guys face, and you could feel the trepidation coming off of him, he immediately tells his girl to come over by him so he can give her a pool lesson. I find the whole encounter quite comical, So I hang out for a while and mingle around the bar a little more still observing how everyone is staying and mingling in their designated areas according to race. After a while I decide to just leave, but it was a reminder that not everyone is into the interracial lifestyle these days and that even within the open minded people of the lifestyle prejudice still exists. Anyone here ever have a similar experience???