I've actually discussed with him some, and he knows about this gentleman, but they haven't met. And husband doesn't know about the others and how regular it had become.
I realize that being honest is best, and it is what I should have done all along. The last half year apart was not expected, and things got hectic for husband on deployment and we weren't able to vid chat nearly as much as we had earlier. I feel bad because we have always been completely open about everything. I didn't mean for it to be that way, it just kind of happened.