Question for Cucks/Husbands.. if she’s allowed to play, are you?

I am allowed to play as well, although my cock is so insignificant that most women aren’t very excited by it. When I get to play with other women it is primarily me providing them oral sex and getting nothing in return, which I do find very exciting.
 
Even tho i can play with other women anytime I want....I really am only interested in playing with Robin....she is the only woman I have ever found who can fill any and all of my sexual needs and desires. Outside of her I am only interested in black women so the opportunity for me to play with another woman on happens when we are with a black couple where they both play.
 
I see lots of posts on here from husbands saying that their wife is bbc only, or has a bbc boyfriend/lover. I’m just curious how many of you are allowed to find other women to be with if she’s allowed to be playing with other guys??
No way. She is too jealous and when we first started the hotwife/cuckold sexual lifestyle, she made it perfectly clear that if I was doing this to try and be with other women, then it is over. I must be faithful to her and she can be with whomever she wants. Otherwise it is "swinging" not cuckold
 
I think I am with the majority here and that is no, and I am very happy with that .
As people have already said, it is what works for you as a couple !
I love being a cuckold so have not much interest in other women apart from appreciating the view and chatting .. am not dead after all .

It does make it tricky , as someone else has pointed out , socialising with other couples .. we have only ever met 1 couple who was happy for him to play and shan and I just had a nice chat and a glass of wine ...
 
I have no wish to play at all. I get all my pleasure from seeing/knowing that she is having fun. I know she could not accept me playing with other women.
 
We started out as swingers, too. My husband had other women, but not as many as I had other men. Gradually, he went down to one woman every year or two. Since August, he has been caged. Right now, we do not know whether he will ever again have another woman, let alone me.
My vote is for absolute denial.
 
We started out as swingers, too. My husband had other women, but not as many as I had other men. Gradually, he went down to one woman every year or two. Since August, he has been caged. Right now, we do not know whether he will ever again have another woman, let alone me.
Just wondering what caused him to move from swinger to cuck? I don't mind watching my wife, but it has never been a big turn on for me. Sharing her just makes her horny beyond belief. It's all just a game to keep the sex between us hot.
 
We started out as swingers, too. My husband had other women, but not as many as I had other men. Gradually, he went down to one woman every year or two. Since August, he has been caged. Right now, we do not know whether he will ever again have another woman, let alone me.
Do you enjoy punishing him, tormenting him, want him to watch helpless
As you are ravaged by a huge black man...orgasming loudly. In PLEASURE
 
.... how many of you are allowed to find other women to be with...

Not me.

My wife made it very clear that while she would dip her toe into this lifestyle and fuck other Bulls, I am not allowed to fuck other women.

And just to be clear, I am very happy with her setting this rule. I could not imagine fucking anyone else, and we both get so much pleasure from her fucking BBC Bulls while I am made to watch.

That being said, it’s so important to have rules and constantly check in with your partner to see if those rules are still relevant or if they need updating.

For example, we have a rule where we always play together, and I’m involved and present in some form (even if it’s being made to wait in the bathroom of the hotel room with a cock cage on while the Bull has his way with her on the bed).

Every couple will have different rules and that’s perfectly okay, whatever you both (and the Bull) are comfortable with.
 
No way. She is too jealous and when we first started the hotwife/cuckold sexual lifestyle, she made it perfectly clear that if I was doing this to try and be with other women, then it is over. I must be faithful to her and she can be with whomever she wants. Otherwise it is "swinging" not cuckold
Im the same and agree with it
 
I think I am with the majority here and that is no, and I am very happy with that .
As people have already said, it is what works for you as a couple !
I love being a cuckold so have not much interest in other women apart from appreciating the view and chatting .. am not dead after all .

It does make it tricky , as someone else has pointed out , socialising with other couples .. we have only ever met 1 couple who was happy for him to play and shan and I just had a nice chat and a glass of wine ...
Yeah, its extremely hard to find couples who don't want a four way swap. We have found 99.9% of the other women want to be fucked as well, but as soon as you mention we are a cuckold couple, they run the other way or never hear a word from them again. I totally understand why women don't want to fuck cuckolds, I've been one for 30 years, my own wife rarely fucks me, so I get it, but trying to find a couple/s where the other wife doesn't want a big cock for herself as well has made it very hard for us over the years. I honestly, would dread the having to fuck another woman, trying to please her in front of others, and her look of boredom or displeasure on what is supposed to be a fun night for all, wouldn't be fun for me.
 
I've only let my gfs fuck guys when I'm in the room although I have been cheated on a couple times so idk what that means, chicks I ever been with that are into getting fucked by other guys love bringing chicks in the bedroom though and it's a mutual thing ,fucking your gfs best friend in the ass while she goes down on your girls pussy and you and your girl are staring into each other's eyes as her best friend services both of you, God I miss that
 
As a white cuck wannabe I would have no interest in having sex with other women other than my partner, none whatsoever.

A large part of my own sexual pleasure would be derived vicariously from my partner's joy of interracial sex. I would want to be supportive of her and our interracial lifestyle and I would have no motivation to see other women.

I think this is a very individual thing and I'm sure there's a great deal of variation between men.
 
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