The VIP rooms at the lifestyle clubs have always been a favorite. The cover charge to enter the clubs can be the same price as a cheap motel and granted the amenities are limited but you can't beat the convenience. Motels and hotels are our preference, I can have all the fun I want and don't have to worry about cleaning up and laundering the sheets when we're done. We keep out home life separated from our social activities to avoid complications and as another member pointed out safety reasons. That being said I have succumbed to primal desirers and have brought a stranger into our home when my husband was out of town. I never said I was perfect.