Oh boy...

[canada2]

Long time lurker on these forums. As I'm sure my profile represents!

For the first time ever in 10 years I told my wife what my fantasy is and not like a hint but actually verbalized it.

And..... she said she has the exact same one and was completely thrilled and turned on. And I'm like oh *******. ...

Now I pretty much don't know if that was the worst thing ever or the best!

 

[ghbryans]

Just be careful. There's a huge difference between fantasy and reality.

 

[Vietkill45]

It can go either way. Been there...

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

It mostly depends on how well you can handle the complex emotions that are going to show themselves when your fantasy starts happening

 

[Vietkill45]

It mostly depends on how well you can handle the complex emotions that are going to show themselves when your fantasy starts happening

Very true. However, one also has to consider that there might be forces he can't control. My ex gf, for example, fell in love with her bull and couldn't handle the confusion. In the end, she left me...

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

Very true. However, one also has to consider that there might be forces he can't control. My ex gf, for example, fell in love with her bull and couldn't handle the confusion. In the end, she left me...

That happens sometimes too.
But... Here you are. You're still on this particular site.. that must mean you still like the life even after being burned.

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

Very true. However, one also has to consider that there might be forces he can't control. My ex gf, for example, fell in love with her bull and couldn't handle the confusion. In the end, she left me...

Is she still with that man? I knew one guy who was a cuck to his wife for several years. She left him & moved in with a guy who had been her bull. he didn't fight her, he didn't show anger or resentment to her, he didn't date anyone else for over a year. Then one day his wife called him and cried and they talked for 2 hours and a few days later she moved back in with him and they resumed their marriage.

 

[Vietkill45]

Is she still with that man? I knew one guy who was a cuck to his wife for several years. She left him & moved in with a guy who had been her bull. he didn't fight her, he didn't show anger or resentment to her, he didn't date anyone else for over a year. Then one day his wife called him and cried and they talked for 2 hours and a few days later she moved back in with him and they resumed their marriage.

Yes, she is. He got her pregnant while we were still together. Today, they are a happy family.

 

[Vietkill45]

That happens sometimes too.
But... Here you are. You're still on this particular site.. that must mean you still like the life even after being burned.

Well, you know what they say: Once you go black, you never go back. That applies to cucks as well, I guess

 

[hotknkycpl8081]

Yes, she is. He got her pregnant while we were still together. Today, they are a happy family.

That's too bad for you man. But I hope you can still be happy for her

 

[Vietkill45]

That's too bad for you man. But I hope you can still be happy for her

I was furious at first. At her, at him, and especially at myself.
But people move on, and today, I'm very happy for them.

 

[canada2]

Just be careful. There's a huge difference between fantasy and reality.

Oh for sure!

Anyway nothing discussed after it but figured after being on the site for 6 years and never made a post ( or mention to anyone) I figured I would share, my mind was blown when she was immediately into it and fired up IR porn.