So how have things progressed now? Did you continie you fantasy?
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A few months back I ordered a new Doc Johnson UR3 10 inch vac-u-lock dildo and harness. So, after a long time without using dildos, I was excited to try the new toy. One night about 3-4 weeks earlier I asked if we could play with the pussy and she consented. I got up and blindfolded her and got the harness and dildo put on. It is a little embarrassing to wear a strap-on dildo, but it sure is fun. She was laying on her back with me lying to her left on my left side. Her right leg was elevated giving me perfect access to her hole with my 10 bbc.
In this position I had full access to her chest and pussy with both hands as I could stroke the 10" cock into her. When we first started I just rubbed the head up and down her pussy, teasing and stimulating her clit and hole. I keep this up until she admits with her nonverbal or verbal communication that she wants me to penetrate her. We had a great time, I was able to stroke her clit and slowly feed more and more of that cock into her. As I am doing this, I start telling her how good it look. How amazing her little pussy looks sucking on that big cock. Does that pussy feel good. Do you love how I'm treating that pussy. Do you like my big cock. She tends to get excited at these phrases.
A first for us was having her bend over doggie style and take the dildo. In the past, it was always with her on her back, blind folded, with me sitting between her legs working the dildo with one or both hands. That was it. Now with the strapon, I can roll her around just like in normal sex. So, I had her get up on her knees, without protest, and inserted the bbc. So, for the first time, she could actually ride the cock on her own. I know that doesn't sound like much, but for me to see my wife rock her pussy back and forth on the 10 inch cock was amazing. To see how she likes to take bbc, not how I do it. It was a new thrill.
Since that time we have used the strapon two more times with good success. She did deny its use a couple of times. I believe she really likes it, but does not want to like it too much. Therefore she doesn't want to use it to frequently. At least that's my theory.
My wife's conservative values are what keeps her from enjoying herself as much as she could. I feel she feels guilty as in her heart she feels it is ultimately immoral. Even though she physically enjoys it.
In this position I had full access to her chest and pussy with both hands as I could stroke the 10" cock into her. When we first started I just rubbed the head up and down her pussy, teasing and stimulating her clit and hole. I keep this up until she admits with her nonverbal or verbal communication that she wants me to penetrate her. We had a great time, I was able to stroke her clit and slowly feed more and more of that cock into her. As I am doing this, I start telling her how good it look. How amazing her little pussy looks sucking on that big cock. Does that pussy feel good. Do you love how I'm treating that pussy. Do you like my big cock. She tends to get excited at these phrases.
A first for us was having her bend over doggie style and take the dildo. In the past, it was always with her on her back, blind folded, with me sitting between her legs working the dildo with one or both hands. That was it. Now with the strapon, I can roll her around just like in normal sex. So, I had her get up on her knees, without protest, and inserted the bbc. So, for the first time, she could actually ride the cock on her own. I know that doesn't sound like much, but for me to see my wife rock her pussy back and forth on the 10 inch cock was amazing. To see how she likes to take bbc, not how I do it. It was a new thrill.
Since that time we have used the strapon two more times with good success. She did deny its use a couple of times. I believe she really likes it, but does not want to like it too much. Therefore she doesn't want to use it to frequently. At least that's my theory.
My wife's conservative values are what keeps her from enjoying herself as much as she could. I feel she feels guilty as in her heart she feels it is ultimately immoral. Even though she physically enjoys it.
Debblacked
Couple
You might try taking her on a vacation to Jamaica. The change of scenery plus a place where you will see interracial couples might get her thinking more about being open to the idea. It sounds like your wife is secretly thinking about it. But to get her to progress you have to take her out of the bedroom and in an enviroment where she doesn't know anyone. Take her shopping for clothing that's slightly nore revealing and sexy than what she normally wears. Take her out of town to go dancing. Point out that other men are looking at her. Sit at the bar with her and after a while excuse yourself to go to the bathroom leaving her at the bar. Take your time and watch to see if other men approach her. You have to take her out of the bedroom and get her into situations where she can see that other men find her attractive and point that it to her. Remind her how sexy and desirable she is and how much you live her. Incorporate the men that check her out into your bedroom play talk. See what that does to advance your plans for your wife.
I would tread lightly. Play up the fact you admire her & are proud of the way she looks & her sexuality.
Maybe look for memes that are more sensual & romantic. If you can get her to watch porn, pick one where the cuck is holding the wife's hands & kissing her. Make it more about the secure bond you have & how you worship her & that is why you want to share her. Make it about the connection about you two.
You have to take away the tabooness & "roughness" & make it more sensual & romantic in a way.
You definitely need to make it known that she could try it once & if she hated it then you would never ask for it or anything like it again. But you HAVE to mean it!!!
Go slow. Be patient. Flirt around with it & build up to it.
This is what I would suggest with someone who is more conservative & does not watch porn.
She looks hot! Best of luck but do not let it ruin your marriage! There is nothing better than that.
Maybe look for memes that are more sensual & romantic. If you can get her to watch porn, pick one where the cuck is holding the wife's hands & kissing her. Make it more about the secure bond you have & how you worship her & that is why you want to share her. Make it about the connection about you two.
You have to take away the tabooness & "roughness" & make it more sensual & romantic in a way.
You definitely need to make it known that she could try it once & if she hated it then you would never ask for it or anything like it again. But you HAVE to mean it!!!
Go slow. Be patient. Flirt around with it & build up to it.
This is what I would suggest with someone who is more conservative & does not watch porn.
She looks hot! Best of luck but do not let it ruin your marriage! There is nothing better than that.
Thanks for the update. Sounds like she is enjoying it but dont want to admit it. take her shoping to a mall. Of you guys run into cople of black guys. Tell her you cought them checking her out. She how she reacts.
she sounds like hard work 
now that she seems to be loving the strap on maybe you should introduce some interracial porn when you making out with her with your strap on,nothing aggressive,have something in with kissing & where the women has lots of orgasms,i find lots of the blacked.com videos very erotic see how she reacts to these whilst making love to her with the strap on see how long she takes to cum keep kissing her,you got to make her feel so sexy.it'll take time
now that she seems to be loving the strap on maybe you should introduce some interracial porn when you making out with her with your strap on,nothing aggressive,have something in with kissing & where the women has lots of orgasms,i find lots of the blacked.com videos very erotic see how she reacts to these whilst making love to her with the strap on see how long she takes to cum keep kissing her,you got to make her feel so sexy.it'll take time
All good ideas. I have had fantasies of the like.
she sounds like hard work
now that she seems to be loving the strap on maybe you should introduce some interracial porn when you making out with her with your strap on,nothing aggressive,have something in with kissing & where the women has lots of orgasms,i find lots of the blacked.com videos very erotic see how she reacts to these whilst making love to her with the strap on see how long she takes to cum keep kissing her,you got to make her feel so sexy.it'll take time
I would love that. She just won't go for it. Very conservative, and does not want me to see other women naked. I know it may sound ridiculous to some, but that's how it is.
Great advice. I do wish she would watch porn. I think it would be hot to do her doggie style with the strapon while watching hot homemade porn of a big black cock pounding a whimpering wife.
Debblacked
Couple
I think you're better off backing of the porn Women have a bad habit of comparing themselves to other women. The porn which turns you on could be turning her off. I think the best way to get her started is with toys, sexy lingerie and dresses. Make her feel sexy and she'll be willing to act sexy. Take her out and show her a good time. Take her dancing. Let her know how sexy she is. If she feels confident and sexy you'll rap the benefits. She may never go black but she'll probably be more open to acting out fantasies.
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