A few months back I ordered a new Doc Johnson UR3 10 inch vac-u-lock dildo and harness. So, after a long time without using dildos, I was excited to try the new toy. One night about 3-4 weeks earlier I asked if we could play with the pussy and she consented. I got up and blindfolded her and got the harness and dildo put on. It is a little embarrassing to wear a strap-on dildo, but it sure is fun. She was laying on her back with me lying to her left on my left side. Her right leg was elevated giving me perfect access to her hole with my 10 bbc.
In this position I had full access to her chest and pussy with both hands as I could stroke the 10" cock into her. When we first started I just rubbed the head up and down her pussy, teasing and stimulating her clit and hole. I keep this up until she admits with her nonverbal or verbal communication that she wants me to penetrate her. We had a great time, I was able to stroke her clit and slowly feed more and more of that cock into her. As I am doing this, I start telling her how good it look. How amazing her little pussy looks sucking on that big cock. Does that pussy feel good. Do you love how I'm treating that pussy. Do you like my big cock. She tends to get excited at these phrases.
A first for us was having her bend over doggie style and take the dildo. In the past, it was always with her on her back, blind folded, with me sitting between her legs working the dildo with one or both hands. That was it. Now with the strapon, I can roll her around just like in normal sex. So, I had her get up on her knees, without protest, and inserted the bbc. So, for the first time, she could actually ride the cock on her own. I know that doesn't sound like much, but for me to see my wife rock her pussy back and forth on the 10 inch cock was amazing. To see how she likes to take bbc, not how I do it. It was a new thrill.
Since that time we have used the strapon two more times with good success. She did deny its use a couple of times. I believe she really likes it, but does not want to like it too much. Therefore she doesn't want to use it to frequently. At least that's my theory.
My wife's conservative values are what keeps her from enjoying herself as much as she could. I feel she feels guilty as in her heart she feels it is ultimately immoral. Even though she physically enjoys it.