We are a 34 y/o couple. She has only been with me. I told her several years ago that I wanted to watch her with a black man. She said that she wasn't interested, but we watch IR porn all the time. She got drunk the other night and told me that she wants to fuck a black man, but she tells me she doesn't because she thinks i will never look at her the same way. I ensured her that I would never do that to her. Any advice on what I should say next? I brought it up yesterday when she was sober and she said "i would love to do that for you, but I just can't promise you".