Need advice

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Small dick John, Mar 3, 2013.

  1. Small dick John

    Small dick John New Member

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    I have a 3 inch dick for real and have lost every woman to cheating. I have a reputation now in my condo comp,ex for having a small dick. As a result, all the black guys with game who live there, make it a competition to see who can fuck my girlfriend first. Also, the women I eat know this and date me with this in mind. I would like to learn how tote game, like the black dudes that live near me.
     
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  2. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    Why waste time trying to do the impossible? :confused:

    Why not just find a nice slut that loves black dick, your tongue and whose company you enjoy as well?
    That way you get a fun lady to enjoy being with and not have all the stress and worry about pleasing her with your ... umm ... "short coming". She gets to enjoy black dick and your oral attention, the neighbors can chill and just take turns satisfying your lady for you and, if you are a good boy, she will return the favor and lick that little problem of yours. :D
     
  3. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    small dick john, What I think I'm understanding from you is that you don't like sharing your women with the black men, but then, here you are at a website that encourages just that. So you obviously enjoy, to some extent, other men screwing your women. Also, since you ARE at a size disadvantage in the male anatomy department, you need to be able to get the most out of what you have to offer. Trust me, however, there's a lot more to sexual pleasure than just from the size of a man's cock. I'm around 5"inches long, myself.

    So, I might toss out a few suggestions that will help you keep your women you choose to be intimate with:
    1. Choose less sexually experienced women that won't immediately be turned off with your anatomy the minute they see it. Many sexually liberated women have gotten to the point where they are convinced SIZE is the answer to their sexual pleasure; that's absolutely false. They desire size because the men they go out with rarely make ANY efforts toward sexual foreplay, and its their way of subsidizing for the man's lack of consideration to her pleasures.
    2. Learn about a woman's erogenous zones; this is where you can excel over most other guys IF you will take the time & effort to apply stimulations to all a woman's erogenous zones besides just her breasts & vagina. The number one complaint for most women with men is the man's lack of foreplay & buildup to actual intercourse. (see attachment)
    3. Consider penis attachments. Although your penis is small, it still is within the range of reaching a woman's g-spot. Once you quit giving her oral, clit stimulation, this is where your penis must pick up and continue stimulating her. A penis attachment will rub those already stimulated spots when you have actual intercourse. (see attachment)
    4. Women desire a confident man in bed. You need to boost your confidence by being able to excite and pleasure her when you make love to her.
    Don't write yourself OFF as unable to please a woman. There are ways to LEVEL the playing field if you so desire. Or, you can feel sorry for yourself and allow these other men to continue making you a cuckold wimp! It's really YOUR choice! Best of luck! ... Mac ;)

    http://ezinearticles.com/?Erogenous...t-the-Landscape-of-the-Female-Body&id=1758851

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  4. Small dick John

    Small dick John New Member

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    I really appreciate the advice, thanks very much. I didn't used to like sites like this but was drawn to them by my constant failure. They did turn into a turn-on at some point, not sure when exactly. I'm trying to get my confidence level up but it's not that easy for me. I'm in a bit of a conundrum with women, because I'm dawn to women with more experience. The same women who end up going for guys with bigger cocks. You've given me some stuff to think about though, thanks again.
     
  5. Small dick John

    Small dick John New Member

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    That's kind of defacto what has been happening up until now. I'd rather meet a woman who's into me though. We can enjoy porn together but would like to keep it one on one.
     
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  6. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    Understandable, but sometimes being dealt a good hand is better than waiting for a royal flush.
    Meaning if you meet a really nice woman who is into you for who you are and you both enjoy each other, if the only thing is that she needs more than you can give her sexually, maybe you should consider carefully if that is reason enough to try to find another. Especially if the sex is still good for both of you, but she just needs a bit more.
    Sometimes just finding someone who is perfect for us in more important things than sex, is really what we need to appreciate.

    However, if you really need to be with someone one to one, you need to get out of your current living space and move where you are not known and don't get friendly with the new neighbors beyond hi and bye.

    Should you get fortunate and hook up with a nice lady, you will be happy to know that most women who are in love do not desire to fuck other men. Just look at all the "wannabe" cuckolds on this site who wish their wives would want to fuck other men.

    Best of luck!
     
  7. sissystaci

    sissystaci Guest

    you can't compete sexually but you can excel in other ways with your relationships.
     
  8. Small dick John

    Small dick John New Member

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    Part of me thinks your first comment is correct. I guess I wouldn't be surfing cuckold sites if it didn't do something for me on a certain level. I have thought about encouraging girlfriends possibly to get their fill elsewhere. Being pissed off and then dumped hasn't worked very well for me up until now. One of the guys who cheated with a girlfriend of mine once said to me that my lot in life has been cast with my dick size. He said I might as well find a way to enjoy it and make it work as best as possible.
     
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  9. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    Well, at this point, you have nothing to lose either way.
    The best you can do is leave your options open and let your heart decide, should you meet a lady you truly enjoy and let her desires and needs make the decision for you.

    You might want to try having some threesomes, if you haven't already. This way you are still involved in what's happening even though she is enjoying another man's dick. You can give her head, be her "back door man" in a DP, add some manual stimulation and just basically be an addition to what just a 'one on one' would be for her with another man. Find out what really makes her flip sexually and do that for her while she is getting a bigger dick that fills her.

    In other words, you become the "something more" that she can enjoy and that increases her pleasure over just having sex with a man. :)