People often forget, or haven't come to the realization yet, that married women and their cuckold husbands come to this lifestyle for many reasons. Rarely to we come to it to replace the same type of relationship we have at home with our husbands.
We are most often, to one degree or another, looking for an entirely different and unique relationship dynamic. Most often, I believe, we are looking for more dominant, sexier men who can take control and handle it all very well. The better ones handle it better than the lesser ones, truth be told.
Once you begin to become involved with a man, even if your husband is most often present, that man is going to have desires and requirements you may not share. He is going to want things. You may provide these simply because you feel it is the least you can do, or you may provide them because he makes it plain that he expects you to please him. And, you want to please him.
The further the relationship with this dominant man progresses and the more he becomes used to whatever arrangement you, your husband and your lover have either negotiated - or more often have evolved into - the more likely your lover will begin to ASSERT himself or even insist on certain services from you. Most often, if you have allowed things to progress this far, you either don't want to damage the relationship or you don't want to upset the status quo - which comes with all the discretion you have enjoyed thus far. Everything in life is a negotiation - particularly in a bedroom with a man that is not your husband. Compromise is not uncommon, and often necessary to maintain boundaries. And, these compromises very often require you moving, adjusting or eliminating certain boundaries to please a man that clearly has power in your life. If he has you, and he knows he has you, and he enjoys having you, he will keep coming back for more. And, he will honor his commitments. Or, at least most of them.
Do not go looking for powerful, dominant men and then expect them not to be powerful and dominate.
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