Menopause advice

Hey B2W community, I am reaching out for feedback. My amazing and wonderful wife went through early menopause. Previously our sex life was truly wonderful and fulfilling. We just started dipping our toes into the lifestyle and the change hit profoundly. It's almost embarrassing to write but it's been three years since we have had sex at this point. I love her deeply and she fills every space in my heart. The thought of ending us over this has never once crossed my mind. Still, the difficulty of being with someone I am still incredibly attracted to and still find ridiculously sexy is heartbreaking. This sounds obnoxiously selfish. I am just simply at a loss as to accept, this is how it is always going to be.
 
You need to talk to her about how you feel. Don't talk at her but let her know how you feel. Also don't accuse her of neglecting you. My guess is she doesn't realize that she hasn't been as active sexually. I realize that seems weird. But when a woman is going through menopause her life kind of goes on hold so to speak. There is so much going on with her body that it puts sex on the back burner. When you talk to her about this be frank and understanding. I know a lot of women who have gone through menopause then once they get back into having sex they are insatiable. I hope you are able to open up and share with her how you are feeling.
 
Get off a porn site for such delicate advice and see your family doctor and her gynocologist. Seek professional help with real solutions and actions. There are a myriad of things you can do in this situation to rectify and re energize your sex life but asking for assistance on a porn site is not one of them. See your doctors and that may include a therapist as well specializing in this situation. You’re not alone and professional help is the answer.
 
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