Why to men allow their wives to cuckold?

My wife could never keep her knees together! She started wanting strange cock before we even married! First she fucked all my friends, usually in threesomes with me then she started fucking her coworkers, especially the black African ones!
Hello and thank you for your honest response to this topic.

My wife presented me with an ultimatum “Let her date (fuck) others or we be finished”. At the time I’d just de flowered her, we’d become engaged, she was just 17 and myself 18. I was overwhelmed but not with rage but with sexual arousal. I readily gave my approval and she went on that first date the following day. He was a married work colleague aged 57! My then fiancé went on to fuck most the guys in her office probably there were 15 or 16 and our live for each other continued to grow. I didn’t realise it at that time but I was already a cuckold although we also swung with many other couples and solo dates.

It’s a wonderful and fulfilling lifestyle and we’re now in our 70’s. Life’s for living and everyone needs to live it to the fullest. Oh and incidentally just around 3 years ago I discovered the pleasures of finally accepting my own bi sexuality.
 
It so happened that the black guy who was fucking me wanted to fuck my girlfriend, whom I loved. I could not refuse him. When he fucked her in my presence, I felt such strong emotions that I have not felt during any sex, neither with women nor with men. Since then, I realized that I can no longer live without these emotions, so I was looking for a ******* who would agree to this and become my wife. And I was very very lucky, I met her in the most unexpected place: in a public men's room, where she was being fucked by three men.
WOW !!!!!!! You are very luck to have met your wife in a public men's room where you saw her being fucked by three men, absolutely Amazing.
Did you marry her because when you saw her being fucked by three men in a public men's room, you knew she was the filthy slut you were searching for to be your wife?
 
With us it was Hayley who decided on BBC only, we started as her being pleasured by both of us, but it became apparent over the first couple of meets that I could not provide the pleasure she was receiving, it turned me on watching her be able to feel safe enough in our relationship to be able to relax enough to push her sexual boundaries and share them with me.
 
WOW !!!!!!! You are very luck to have met your wife in a public men's room where you saw her being fucked by three men, absolutely Amazing.
Did you marry her because when you saw her being fucked by three men in a public men's room, you knew she was the filthy slut you were searching for to be your wife?
Exactly. I was in the booth and enjoyed how she was fucked. When the boys left, I left the booth and looked at her with such admiration that she asked "what, do you want it too?". She turned back and bent down for me to fuck her, and I got on my knees and started to lick the cum that ran down her thighs, then her pussy. She said "I like you". At that moment I realized that it was my wife
 
With us it was Hayley who decided on BBC only, we started as her being pleasured by both of us, but it became apparent over the first couple of meets that I could not provide the pleasure she was receiving, it turned me on watching her be able to feel safe enough in our relationship to be able to relax enough to push her sexual boundaries and share them with me.
 
We started out swapping with friends in our area, We we’re about 29/30,ish at the time ( circa 1975/76 )
We found that some of the couples we became involved with,had problems,after with their relationships ( Usually the Husbands !!! ), not once was it the Wife.
We have, never had a problem with us having sex with other people, Me other Woman And Her other Men,
As our trust in each other developed, neither of us were jealous types, So we both felt free to have sex with other people, either together or singles.
If we had been out with someone else the discussion between us about either of our night out on our own ,always led to some really good sex anyway, I guess the sense of competition against another man /woman always made both of us try harder anyway.
Now I was never considered tiny ,and was blessed with a reasonable sized cock anyway,
and according to my wife,an enjoyable size.
We started going to swingers clubs, which in our day were in their infancy circa 1977/78.
We found that We enjoyed these immensely, and My Wife became a really popular Woman with both Men and other Woman.
We often found other swingers that were holding parties always gave us an invite.
It was when my Wife was around 48 years old and Me 51, that we were invited to to a swingers party in Tottenham Nr London, But with a difference.
It was a BBC only party.
We discussed it between us as we had only done white on white swinging before.
My Wife who done the arranging, Turned to me while on the phone and said.
” How would you like to see Me. Fuck some Black Guys “
She said She only had to look at my face , to know what my answer would be.
So we made an arrangement to meet 3/4 other couples in a pub, before going on to the venue.
The Woman Who was arranging It ,was there with Her husband when we got to the pub, none of the other couples were there yet.
She said to my Wife you are going to enjoy yourself tonight, She was so right.!!!.
Now I must say my Wife was one very fit lady, who for Her age was superbly fit, through swimming gym running etc, on top of that was one of life,s beautiful woman.
So eventually We went to the flat, where the party was being held.
There we’re a large crowd of Black/Coloured guys there all naked, my Wife whispered to me, “ Christ I thought you were big , but there are some huge guys here “
So My wife immediately was made to feel welcome, and asked what She liked, She immediately said “ Just fill me up with cock “.
Now my Wife had had tattoos done some years earlier, along with a pierced clitoris.
She had it done when we were younger, and was among one of the first to have it done in our scene.
So when the guys at Tottenham undressed Her and saw the tatoos and piercing ,they all wanted to fuck Her.
She was at this event a very popular lady, and was well used during the time We were there ( About 6 Hrs ) , Most of the guys and there were a lot fucked Her, and watching Her take some really huge cocks in all Her openings, I found amazing to see Her take it all, some times giving me a grin while She was fucked.
But the thing about this night that Has stuck in my mind, was as She lay on a mattress, and had many guys during the evening,
Was the amount of cum that had run out of Her from Her arse and Pusey.
There was a massive cum stain underneath Her, And this was all different viscosities some watered , some thick.
Now as another couple of guys started fucking Her one of the guys whom had just pulled out of Her bent down with me too watch and ran His finger round the wet patch that wa about 18ins or so in diameter, looked at me and said “ Fuck Man You are one lucky guy, You have got to bring Her back, She is so fucking Hot “
I felt so proud and also turned on by what She had done that evening.
On the way home I asked Her if She was OK.
She replied that She was sore but had Had a great time,and She didn’t want White on White swinging anymore.
We went back to Tottenham a few times but on our own, and there were less guys.
My wife was now confirmed black cock only, apart from me.
So as for Me I found that as I got older my interest in other Woman waned and I found that my Wife’s adventures more exciting.
I was never into touching or being sexually involved with other men.
But did like sometimes being inside Her and feeling another well endowed man enter Her as well, quite a turn on.
But that’s as far as it went.
We are now well into our seventies and well and truly retired.
But boy do I wish I could turn the clock back 👌👍
 
Exactly. I was in the booth and enjoyed how she was fucked. When the boys left, I left the booth and looked at her with such admiration that she asked "what, do you want it too?". She turned back and bent down for me to fuck her, and I got on my knees and started to lick the cum that ran down her thighs, then her pussy. She said "I like you". At that moment I realized that it was my wife
A perfect match, a perfect filthy wife for a filthy cuckold husband that Loves and Needs a filthy cock loving wife.
 
If we talk at relationships, then let's not dissemble - many husbands and wives had relationships in non-marriage. The reasons for this may be different. All of us have probably read numerous studies that many people in a marriage real feel the dirty desire to hot sex with someone else other not their partner. If we talkabout cuckold relationships, then this has become for many couples the best solution to such problems as the dirty betrayal of one of the partners.

Real historical aspect of cuckold wives​

Man is always trying to adjust things for himself or adjust to certain events. This happened with cuckold wives. All the men like to talk themselves:

how did they start thinking about it?

how to talk about it with wives;

where to get bbc?

If we talk about cuckold wives, in the past such things were condemned by society like dirty things. David J. Ley, Ph.D., clinical psychologist, in his book «Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who LoveThem», says: «Historically, men whose wives cuckolded them were publicly humiliated, and their wives were often severely punished. It is only in the past decade or so that this fantasy has catapulted itself into the public consciousness, largely due to an intersection of female sexual liberation and the ability of the Internet to allow men with these fantasies to find each other and learn they are not alone».

Any cheating was considered like real dirty event, studies on the topic of cuckold wives and their husbandshave simply not been conducted. And if we talk about cuckolding, then what could they think about interracial sex? Interracial cuckold wives and their hot white husbands have already become a separate category on porn. And the interracial cuckold lifestyle became popular.

Why do white husbands let their be a cuckold?​

We can talk about real reasons why white husbands free allow their hot wives to cuckold them.

1. Husbands fantasize dirty about their hot woman with other often. In an interracial cuckold specifically with bbc. The initiators of these, in most, are men. But there are also hot white wives who are free enough to talkabout this. All people like variety. And filthy wanting to have sex with a bbc instead of a husband doesn't necessarily mean that cuckold wives are unhappy. It might be curious, or they want to try something dirty. Husbands free allows them to do this.

2. Husbands constantly want something new. It's not always enough for them to share their hot cuckold wives. Men always want more from woman. Watching cuckold wives have hot interracial sex with bbc is fun in itself. They like to make a movie white cuckold wives, thereby showing other men how free his hot wife is, and talk about how it is. Men like to watch porn. And interracial cuckolding free shows it like real live porn. And the fact that their white cuckold wives with some kind of bbc are involved in it is beyond all dirtyimagination.

3. Husbands allow their cuckold wives free choose. This real turns them on even more. Husbands allow their white cuckold wives free choice bbc, thus he has a sense of pride. The fact that she enjoys being married to him. It doesn't matter that the pleasure of interracial sex with bbc not with husbands. They gave pleasure to cuckold wives. This goes for the cuckold and hotwife aspect as well. Because if husbands like to enjoy and humiliate themselves.

These are the general points on why men like this trend of interracial cuckold wives. Of course, each couple may have a few real additions to this topic.
Why is it-the very things we have been jealous. afraid of-turns us on the most. Fight and flight-where it comes at the cusp the line on the cusp of both-to make something amazing out of it. I mean-is not that what life is all about? You take your fear, I will take mine-we will walk through with both and look? They AREN'T THERE-YET THERE ARE ANSWERS THERE FOR ALL TO BE wiser,hopefully right? Pardon caps lock.Do I make sense?
 
Why is it-the very things we have been jealous. afraid of-turns us on the most. Fight and flight-where it comes at the cusp the line on the cusp of both-to make something amazing out of it. I mean-is not that what life is all about? You take your fear, I will take mine-we will walk through with both and look? They AREN'T THERE-YET THERE ARE ANSWERS THERE FOR ALL TO BE wiser,hopefully right? Pardon the caps luck. Do you understand what I am saying? It is our deepest-uglies when surfaced-after going through over and over and over and through that fire-has got to bring out a thing of gold from that glowing furnace-or it is in vain. For nothing.
 
I would say this.!!!
As a long time swinger couples, but both of Us retired from the lifestyle, as now just too old.
However having had a lot of experience over the years We were both active.
The probably most ( For Me was the realisation that my Wife was a Submissive Exihibitionist)
She never seemed to say No to any experience.
And there were more than a few.
There were two thing that called a halt to our sexual playing.
The biggest fear for Her was Our Grandchildren becoming an age where they might have found what we were up to.
I was made to get rid of any of the images and videos taken when We were in the lifestyle, and She became paranoid about this.
The other thing was Her long time black boyfriend moved away and it became impractical to keep up the lifestyle.
So at the age of I think 62/63, She decided not to carry on in the lifestyle,and I agreed with Her wishes.
So now well into our 70,s .
We did have some wild times to look back No though.😜😜😜👌
 
I have always been attracted to cheating women. Almost from the time I started dating. I have been married twice and both wives cheated on me. I am still married to my second wife now for over twenty years. I can guess why I am so accepting of women in my life cheating on me, but honestly I don't really care what the reason or reasons may be. As I aged I freely accepted my place as a cuckold and have learned to enjoy it very much. It brings an intensity of sexual pleasure nothing else ever has.
I have experienced the same thing. Before marriage I had several girlfriends who cheated on me. After marriage my wife made me/helped me accept the fact that I was born to be a cuckold. I think there are some of us who are just naturally cuckolds. We are good husbands, typically good Fathers even of children born to other men and we are lacking sexual prowess. When we accept this and even embrace it we are much happier! Good for you to embrace it!
 
You are a bit confused. Cuckolding has nothing to do specifically to bbc. Just some prefer the idea of taboo. Generally speaking it’s having a more dominant and hung male giving your wife the pleasure you think you can’t give. Plenty of white men have large and even huge cocks , big ball sacs that ejaculate huge loads just a bit more frequent for blacks. There is a line when cuckolding becomes simply a gay man in denial that he is gay. When you want to suck the dick ******* the cum never fuck your wife etc your not a cuck just a gay in denial.
 
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