Wondering if there is already an established thread here, if so point me in the direction. However thinking it may be fun to put up some mainstream type movies that would "encourage" some of the wives toward riding the rail. For example; there was an episode of "nip and tuck" in whcih a DR took his grlfriend to a mandingo party, where she was exposed for the first time to the possibility, until he chickened out. competition too big? She wanted to stay..he wanted to split.