I am very interested in hotwifes response to the simple question do you want something long-term with one Bull or Some short term with several bulls or just a one time thing with one bull. Ive been in the lifestyle for awhile and im always interested in what makes couples tink and how they got involved in the lifestyle. This is just another question that has come up so tell me your thoughts on this #chimein
Long term vs short term
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Any specific reason why? And is it difficult to find a bull that you click with?
NEOhioCurious
Couple
Long term with one. There is a lot of time and energy involved in finding one. Don't want that process to become the lifestyle. Find one and enjoy. Over and over.
I agree with you completely on time and energy to find one. For men it seems almost impossible
Long term is best. Spending time to get to know and trust your lover builds passion.
NEOhioCurious
Couple
It's impossible for bulls? From where I sit, it ain't easy for couples/hotwives either. LOL
Long term 100% if the Bull is right & open with it!!! Want a real relationship with him, not just a “hook-up”. We’d even be open to a partial “live in” status with the right one!
I struggle to get the butterflies beyond meeting 4, nothing better than a newbie
Stlcouple0701
Couple
Long term
Me too . Looking for a hot wife for weekly fun.
You know that is something else I've wondered but i know they are different challenges but half of the time i can sent out hundreds of emails but most don't even respond. What issues do couples have
Biggest issue is finding someone REAL!!!
That’s not just out for a one night stand or are creeping around behind their girlfriends of wife’s back...
Plus finding one that wants to be with us & not just hide it away behind closed doors...
That’s not just out for a one night stand or are creeping around behind their girlfriends of wife’s back...
Plus finding one that wants to be with us & not just hide it away behind closed doors...
I definitely have the same issue with finding people who are REAL. While I understand some people are very hesitant to deal with someone who is "creeping" a lot of times those are the safest guys because you know they are clean and will be respectful
NEOhioCurious
Couple
Don't always get response. When you do its often just someone looking for quickie. Can we meet tonight?
No. We just found you. Want to get to know you a little better first. Build up a level of trust. Comfort. Big steps being taken. Risks involved. Situation needs to be right for all involved.
No. We just found you. Want to get to know you a little better first. Build up a level of trust. Comfort. Big steps being taken. Risks involved. Situation needs to be right for all involved.
And would add "and always with Black Men"
I totally agree and im not even going to consider someone who is saying "are you available tonight" that is not my style and im not interested. I can understand your view
We certainly prefer to find one guy, perhaps two but pref one, who are looking for that equally elusive regular hotwife for fun,as that works well for sexual familiarity and understanding to occur and also allows the situation to develop. However you can’t just jump in Looking for that and have to be open to one off/short term meets & to be open minded and expect to be disappointed and not look too hard too early.
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