My wife enjoys YOUNG men and since we are financially able, we frequently pay for hotel rooms and when they travel together, for all expenses! It is, after all, for her pleasure and it has worked well for us! For the last 7 years, I have happily paid for a New Years trip to Vegas for Nellie and a BF. We are hoping both that she has a new BF by then and that Vegas will remain open and fun! No one is taking advantage of us as it is mutually beneficial!