There ya go,,,you guy‘s got your heads on straight, you don’t make 51 years without dedication,,,even if one or both of you screw up on occasion, it’s not enough to destroy what’s important,,,other people have one screw up and they have a divorce lawyer on speed dial. My hub‘s never fucked up with me, but he did incessantly with his ex wives,,,unfortunately I can’t say the same, I’ve slipped up when I got too ******* (that’s why I quit drinking), And there’s been times when a guy I wanted to do became available just under the particular circumstances that existed,,,and my hub wasn’t around, so I rationalized he’d understand,,,it wouldn’t have been bad if he was there, but he wasn’t and I broke the rules. But after initially getting upset (mostly over the rules than anything else), he’d admit there were extenuating circumstances and we’d move on,,,but again, it was just a fuck, no betrayal of emotions or love.