Keep as a kinky fantasy / let her know?

[Jimmyc2]

So I've had the fantasy for a really long time of a girlfriend getting with a black guy, either for fun or in a cuckolding situation. It's been my number 1 fantasy for years and means I basically always look for BBC when watching porn. I actually consider myself straight, as in I wouldn't be interested in seeing guys at all, but something activates my submissive side when I see interracial porn and I imagine myself doing stuff like sucking BBC when directed to by a girl...definitely addicted to looking at it. Seems '******* bi' has become really popular now and while it wasn't my thing before it definitely gets me excited now, mainly from a sub/humiliation angle. What excites me about it most I think is when it makes the woman involved excited, maybe having that power to put a white guy in his place or make him do something kinky or whatever. If she's not into it, it doesn't appeal so much.

Problem is, I'm fairly sure my gf would hate it if I said I was into that idea. Or maybe even the cuck/sharing stuff. She's not prejudiced in any way, loves her gay/bi friends but has made it clear she doesn't want it in a boyfriend. Which is fair I think, all about preference. Even though as I say, I don't really think I'm bi (I guess it's a spectrum / doesn't really matter, I obviously don't judge others for it) and it's more of a sub thing, I can't see how to really even hint at it without her freaking out. Most we've done is watch porn together, some of it was interracial.

So do I just keep it to myself? Can this sort of thing actually stay a fantasy without revealing itself? Any thoughts at all on what to do?

 

[rondipin]

My wife back then thought I was nuts.

She now has embraced the whole lifestyle concept and enjoys it the last 8 years.

Let her know. Just be patient.

 

[Jimmyc2]

My wife back then thought I was nuts.

She now has embraced the whole lifestyle concept and enjoys it the last 8 years.

Let her know. Just be patient.

Any ideal way to let her know?

 

[Jdingo619]

Any ideal way to let her know?

Date night!

.Get her *******/high whatever you're in to.

.Then have sex and while you're fooling around put on interracial porn preferably with women who look as similar to her as possible.

.While you have sex and watch the interracial porn you can say things to her like "imagine a big cock like that inside of you"! Then Gauge her response. If she becomes wetter and more excited then you know you can just come out and ask the question: "Do you think that you could handle a big 9 or 10 in black cock like that"? If she entertains the question and says "yes" then you know truthfully deep down at least she is susceptible to fulfill your fantasy. Just let the porn and the question be a seed planted for the first time.

.The second time ask the question again and if you get the same positive answer then ask her "if she knew it was your ultimate fantasy and would totally turn you on would she take a bbc for you while you watched"?

Don'ts
.Do not ask her sober!!!
Do not ask her outside of sexual activity.
.Do not ask without gauging her response to interracial porn first.

 

[Walter Kovacs]

Take it very slowly, break the fantasy down into stages and allow your gf to get used to the idea. You need to ask her questions about her fantasies and listen to her replies. You need to allow her to open up for you to plant the seeds of your own fantasies

 

[pdiddy19]

Date night!

.Get her *******/high whatever you're in to.

.Then have sex and while you're fooling around put on interracial porn preferably with women who look as similar to her as possible.

.While you have sex and watch the interracial porn you can say things to her like "imagine a big cock like that inside of you"! Then Gauge her response. If she becomes wetter and more excited then you know you can just come out and ask the question: "Do you think that you could handle a big 9 or 10 in black cock like that"? If she entertains the question and says "yes" then you know truthfully deep down at least she is susceptible to fulfill your fantasy. Just let the porn and the question be a seed planted for the first time.

.The second time ask the question again and if you get the same positive answer then ask her "if she knew it was your ultimate fantasy and would totally turn you on would she take a bbc for you while you watched"?

Don'ts
.Do not ask her sober!!!
Do not ask her outside of sexual activity.
.Do not ask without gauging her response to interracial porn first.

Exactly how I freaked my hot slut...got her all coked up, dressed like a slut, had her watch a slideshow of my interracial photos that I had assembled, then put a porn on of Eva Angelina fucking Sean Michaels, and told her it was my favorite because she looks just her, then I watched her pump a 13" life size Mandingo dildo in her pussy with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth while watching hardcore big black cock porn while I talked to her and told her what a filthy white slut she was and asked her if she liked getting that big black dick pumped in her throbbing white pussy and she cummed on that big black mofo 3x and said she had never cum like that before. Now, she tells me she has a big black nigg** dick in her little white pussy every time I fuck her. It gets both of us off...the nastier and filthy the better.

 

[Jimmyc2]

Date night!

.Get her *******/high whatever you're in to.

.Then have sex and while you're fooling around put on interracial porn preferably with women who look as similar to her as possible.

.While you have sex and watch the interracial porn you can say things to her like "imagine a big cock like that inside of you"! Then Gauge her response. If she becomes wetter and more excited then you know you can just come out and ask the question: "Do you think that you could handle a big 9 or 10 in black cock like that"? If she entertains the question and says "yes" then you know truthfully deep down at least she is susceptible to fulfill your fantasy. Just let the porn and the question be a seed planted for the first time.

.The second time ask the question again and if you get the same positive answer then ask her "if she knew it was your ultimate fantasy and would totally turn you on would she take a bbc for you while you watched"?

Don'ts
.Do not ask her sober!!!
Do not ask her outside of sexual activity.
.Do not ask without gauging her response to interracial porn first.

Thanks! Totally agree it's a heat of the moment kinda thing, not something you'd just talk about sober. Hopefully we can find a moment to get into the fantasy and enjoy interracial more, I know she likes some black guys but wouldn't feel easy with the idea of being with other guys if that makes sense

 

[Jellycapone]

I'm more of a guy who would just enjoy to watch but my fantasy is a bit like this


I deprive her for sex 4 weeks before she meets her bull and the day she meets him shaves her pussy and legs fresh just for him and paint her nails and toes whatever colour he wants and puts her ankle bracelet on .

Then I'd love to watch her suck his dick and deep throat him whilst her panties get wet for his bbc and then I'd love her ride him and cream all over his cock and lose control like she never has before watching her pretty toes curl for that black cock and then I'd love him to lay her flat on her belly and fuck her doggie from behind and cream pie her pussy and watch it run all down her legs

 

[exploring1075]

So I've had the fantasy for a really long time of a girlfriend getting with a black guy, either for fun or in a cuckolding situation. It's been my number 1 fantasy for years and means I basically always look for BBC when watching porn. I actually consider myself straight, as in I wouldn't be interested in seeing guys at all, but something activates my submissive side when I see interracial porn and I imagine myself doing stuff like sucking BBC when directed to by a girl...definitely addicted to looking at it. Seems '******* bi' has become really popular now and while it wasn't my thing before it definitely gets me excited now, mainly from a sub/humiliation angle. What excites me about it most I think is when it makes the woman involved excited, maybe having that power to put a white guy in his place or make him do something kinky or whatever. If she's not into it, it doesn't appeal so much.

Problem is, I'm fairly sure my gf would hate it if I said I was into that idea. Or maybe even the cuck/sharing stuff. She's not prejudiced in any way, loves her gay/bi friends but has made it clear she doesn't want it in a boyfriend. Which is fair I think, all about preference. Even though as I say, I don't really think I'm bi (I guess it's a spectrum / doesn't really matter, I obviously don't judge others for it) and it's more of a sub thing, I can't see how to really even hint at it without her freaking out. Most we've done is watch porn together, some of it was interracial.

So do I just keep it to myself? Can this sort of thing actually stay a fantasy without revealing itself? Any thoughts at all on what to do?

She would like it but will say no for a while in my experience