@DanishDelight ... So you are also saying that black men are not better in sex than white men ?
LOL... at the risk of causing an uproar on this particular site... yes
I have had great, earth shattering, amazing sex with white guys and pointless, bad, dull (as in "note so self: never fuck this guy again and remember to pick up detergent and milk on the way home") sex with black guys -
and vice versa. The guy I dated just before I got together with my ex was a Danish guy that had NO boyfriend potential whatsoever, but I kept seeing him for quite some time (and possibly longer than I should have) because he simply had such a great cock
So why am I here, I can hear you wonder? Aren't you being hypochritical when you at the same time are frequenting a site for interracial sex encounters (or the fantasy of)?.. Maybe.
As stated earlier, for me this is not a fetisch, but more of an inclination. I find myself attracted to black men because a) I think black is beautiful
- I think muscles look better when they ripple under black skin and I even think a little extra weight looks better that way; and b) over the years I find I am personally and culturally more in tune with especially black American or black British men. This doesn't mean I am one of those whyte grls who wants to be black or talk ghetto. But I find it really hard to date/meet Danish/Scandinavian men, as they are either quite passive or so full of themselves its painful to watch. Often they need to get staggering ******* in order to make a move, but who wants to get picked up by some guy who can hardly stand and who might any minute present you with what he had for dinner 3 hours before?
But please note: I think this has fuck all to do with race and everything to do with culture (favorite example: I once hooked up with this really dishy black guy in Copenhagen, turned out he had grown up on the Faroe Islands and the whole thing was a complete disaster ..lol). So when I date black men, I don't see it so much as dating outside my race, but rather dating outside my culture
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Now, so much of this site is simply just about sex and about play and role play all based around the color difference and the different power games that can be played along those lines. I love playing like that
. But DSoul asked a question about love and in a relationship, regardless of color, I want friendship, respect, equality...
and mindblowingly great sex (I said it: I'm a greedy bitch)
One last thing: Sana, I think in my exasperation I might have come down a little harsh on you. That's not on. I appologize for any snide remarks I may have made at the cost of you. As you state in another post elsewhere you are here to learn and that's cool.