Just Sex... No Love?

Dsoul

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#1
When most people talk about Interracial meetings, I get the feeling it's all only about sex and nothing more. No in-depth feeling, nothing. A 'Wham-Bam! Thank you, ma'am!' type of fling.

Is it always like this for you all?
 

cucky

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Morocco
#2
When most people talk about Interracial meetings, I get the feeling it's all only about sex and nothing more. No in-depth feeling, nothing. A 'Wham-Bam! Thank you, ma'am!' type of fling.

Is it always like this for you all?
inn the lifestyle maybe the first objective for our wives its sex , and the love its for us to love our wives , and also not impossible for a wife to fall in love with her black ​​lover
 

MWC4BLK

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#3
My wife really cared for one of her black studs but he was killed on an auto accident, she also worked with him. I wasn't aware of this affair for sometime until afterwards. Anyway, for her it is usually for the sex but has fell in love once before. When it becomes more than sex and you are married then its time to call it off.
 

blackmeat

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IL, US
#7
When most people talk about Interracial meetings, I get the feeling it's all only about sex and nothing more. No in-depth feeling, nothing. A 'Wham-Bam! Thank you, ma'am!' type of fling.

Is it always like this for you all?
Yes, until we, both parties, explore more in deprh the "friends with benefits" arrangement, which may suggest a longer term arrangement.
 

Dsoul

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Nigeria
#8
My wife really cared for one of her black studs but he was killed on an auto accident, she also worked with him. I wasn't aware of this affair for sometime until afterwards. Anyway, for her it is usually for the sex but has fell in love once before. When it becomes more than sex and you are married then its time to call it off.
Not talking about the wife being wholsomely in love with the lover... just meant to ask is that is there true feeling between you and her and the lover?
 

DiamondBaby

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#9
When most people talk about Interracial meetings, I get the feeling it's all only about sex and nothing more. No in-depth feeling, nothing. A 'Wham-Bam! Thank you, ma'am!' type of fling. Is it always like this for you all?
Yeah I also noticed this and I don't like what I see, but I think it's getting better slowly but surely. In my opinion it's the media and the whole IR porn fever that makes people think that IR relations between black men and white women are strictly meant to be about sex. I've always dated only black guys and always will, so for me it's definitely sex & love.
 

Dsoul

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Nigeria
#12
Yeah I also noticed this and I don't like what I see, but I think it's getting better slowly but surely. In my opinion it's the media and the whole IR porn fever that makes people think that IR relations between black men and white women are strictly meant to be about sex. I've always dated only black guys and always will, so for me it's definitely sex & love.
That's great ... except a lot of women out there think sex first, love later.
 
#13
Yeah I also noticed this and I don't like what I see, but I think it's getting better slowly but surely. In my opinion it's the media and the whole IR porn fever that makes people think that IR relations between black men and white women are strictly meant to be about sex. I've always dated only black guys and always will, so for me it's definitely sex & love.
I'm with you Diamond.

For me this is not some new fangled fetish. I've dated and had sex with men of a variety of colors (and sizes and shapes ;)), but I simply find my self gravitating towards black men. My last partner through 6 years was black and although the relationship is over now, the love was certainly there - alongside some pretty amazing sex.

The porn industry is.. well, an industry. It's about making a buck and turning out a product as fast as possible. Sex is fast... love is slow :blackheart:
 

willsrvu

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#17
I think that if you are wanting an emotional, romantic relationship with a white woman, you need to find one who is not married.
... or one of the rare ones that has a marriage of convenience to a extremely submissive cuckold who adores her even though to her he is little more than a servant and a meal ticket. :unsure:
 
#18
My husband and I make mad passionate love often....That is for us to enjoy, having sex with anyone else is just erotic and pleasurable ....I really enjoy having a well equiped black man on top of me, and enjoy the contrast of skin color. My husband enjoys watching and joining in to give me pleasure....But to make love is different!
 
#20
Yes It is that simple. For love I have my boyfriend, for sex I fuck black guy. both are best at what they do.
See I'm a greedy bitch: I want both from my black man.
I want him to make sweet and beatiful love to me... AND I want him to fuck my brains out :blackgreedy:

(and for the time being, until I find a man who can do both, I'll settle for the latter ;))