It’s not gay to fuck the hubby

It’s ownership. Showing who is boss to the couple.

If the man can’t defend his wife’s honour then he is no use and needs to be shown he is the bottom of the pile.

What better way to show him than taking his ass

It’s not gay. Comments.......

Well, everyone wants to change the definition of things according to their fantasies and desires. You're entitled to be whatever or whoever you feel like being or do whatever you feel like doing, and no-one should be judging you, but tell nobody that a Rolls Royce is not a car.
 
Guys, I am not judging anyone. Everyone should do what pleases him, as long as it is consensual!...

But, there is a negative connotation in this thread when calling it gay. Why don't you call it bi-sexual as in the case of Lesbians? I am merely pointing out the fact, that this discussion is turning away from the original question to a statement about what is acceptable or not in terms of sexuality...
 
I accepted that total absolute submission was the only way to go, and am proud that l submit and serve my wife/mistress and whoever else she chooses to offer me to. So oral, anal servitude and performing whatever else i'm ordered to do is my pleasure...... I simply love stretching my arse cheeks wide apart and being fucked by a black cock... gay or not who cares l love it.... xx
Accepting who and what you are in all ways is the only way to be able to feel satisfied in my opinion. Message me anytime if youd like to discuss this topic of giving ourselves more fully to black bulls if the situation so dictates and the wives are fully on board with it.
 
What better way to show him than taking his ass
It’s not gay. Comments.......
No, its not "gay", but, it damn well is a "gay act". A person who has sex with both genders would be considered a bisexual. If it makes you sleep better at night, or feel better about yourself, then it is what you make yourself think it is, but it most definitely "is what it is" ... a gay act.
 
If you asked me in my twenties if Id ever consider sexual contact of any sort with a Man I would have likely laughed it off as a joke. But I found as I got older I got more curious and actually realized while watching porn that I was not only turned on by the sexy women but also at times by the virile cocks and in shape men I saw, especially black men who were take charge alpha types with natural confidence and putting the women where they wanted them naturally and seeing that look of complete submissive lust that is unmistakeable in a womans eyes when she is primally attracted to a hot black man who knows how to take charge. My curiosity got the best of me one day and I discreetyly drove a few towns over to an adult porn shop that I knew had video booths with glory holes. Well needless to say that was the day I learned to love orally pleasing cock and once I accepted it must be a natural attraction I stopped feeling guilty about it. Fast forward to openly expressing each of our sexual desires my girlfriend and I found we had much in common as far as sexual fantasies and one was attraction to alpha in shape black men. That was a life changing discussion that led to where we are now.
 
The gay or not gay part isn’t the issue. The issue is more of how you prioritize the experience and the fantasy. For us it’s about my wife. Male male play isn’t a part of that. For some coupes if the wife was particularly hot to see such things then great. Depends on what turns you on. But for mfm hotwife fun, in my mind, the wife runs the show. Her fantasies and pleasure are paramount, whatever that means. I’m sure for some couples the husbsnd submission to the bull is super hot to the wife. Just depends I guess.
 
I think at best its bi. I very bi, and our friend is what I would consider straight. He's 55yo, and up until meeting my wife and myself, had never had any sexual contact with another male, and apart from me, doubt he would again. But he loves me sucking his cock in front of my wife, he'll also have me finger his ass at the same time to add to the pleasure for him, but even when I do all this, I still feel its more of a power exchange than anything, although i'm very bi, i've never sensed he has an attraction of any type to males including myself.

He does it to show all in the room, who is the sexually dominant one. We partake in me rimming him reasonably often, so yes he is being anally stimulated, penetrated by another male, but he still holds the power in that act of dominance and submission. It could be a gay act, its definitely a bi act, but he likes solely for his own selfish sexual pleasure and power, not because he's attracted to men.
 
Yes , that's absolutely right. Its NOT gay at all.
It's essential in my opinion. I've takin my current sluts hubbys ass several times. It's important to do it early on to make it very clear who's boss!
The 3rd time we were together she helped restrain him while I took his ass for the first time. On the first thrust deep into his asshole , after being in balls deep & full hilt, he was moaning and almost screaming; it was at that point I told him in no uncertain terms that HE WILL ADDRESS ME AS SIR at all times from then on , he loudly agreed Yes!

You did use lube?
 
Its depends on situation, if husband and bull having sex and enjoying this together, then its gay sex...
If husband submits to situation and accepts punishment, humiliation in any form, its masochizm.
If bull want to humiliate husband and totaly dominate, control the couple, fee thel power, then he is demonstrates whos in charge with agreed violence, this have more sadistic nature.

But not all people are sadists and masochists :)
 
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Its funny how caught up on labels we get as a society. My opinion is its not gay. Gay is when you fall in love with another man and only want men. I have often wondered why Bulls dont establish their roles more by including me (husband) in the play. Showing who's in control in there most humiliating and animalistic way. This can be done without fucking the hubby also. Cleaning up, cleaning him off, oral, ect
 
This is another weird thread but here's my 2 cents. If the black bull demands that you suck and get fucked by his cock, then you could make the argument that your not gay. However, I doubt that happens very often. On this site, it's almost always the husband's begging for some dick.
 
My view on this -

For many many years it has been common in the ******* kingdom (including the human race) for dominant alpha males to use sexual acts to assert their dominance over other males.

It shows greater physical strength and instils some clarity into the other males minds as to who is in charge.

It is also an important fact to note - that the presence of sperm inside the ******* stream of a Male human being...... causes a decrease in the amount of testosterone produced by that Male.

This seems to confirm the fact that alpha males throughout many species have used this technique to ‘calm’ and ‘neuter’ other males and reduce the likelihood of them challenging the alpha when it comes to breeding the females.

So my view is that it is not a sexual act, but instead - it is purely a way of dominating the receiving Male and also confirming this dominant status to the female that is watching.

With regards to myself, as a proud and confident man.....
I would fully comply with this act if i ever found myself in that situation.
If a strong and powerful man felt it necessary to assert his dominance over me by means of performing any sort of sexual act - I would not view this as ‘gay’ or that he was sexually attracted to me.
Instead, I would fully understand the psychological aspect of this and agree that it is purely a confirmation of dominance.

I have never taken part in such an act,
But I must admit that writing this post has given me an erection, which I will now enjoy by masturbating whilst fantasising about this very scenario.

This seems to confirm other people’s comments that - “if you enjoy it, then it doesn’t matter”

Personally, I can imagine that having a man physically dominate me in such a way, and having him release his sperm into me whilst I am submitting to him by not resisting him...... would create an invisible bond between myself and him.

What I mean is, I would never be able to deny that he has ‘owned’ and overpowered me and when sharing a conversation or being in each other’s company in any way...... we would both subconsciously slip into those roles again.

I can use my wife as an example.
My best friend has fucked my wife.
And ever since - when they are in each other’s company , her voice is a little different. Her body language is a little different, she smiles more,
And if I’m talking to her and my friend interrupts - she will give her attention to him and will always look at him whilst she talks to anybody in the room.

It’s quite a subtle but noticeable dominance he has over her.
That deep down they both know she has submitted herself to him in the past and therefore he has this invisible power over her.
It’s hard to explain.
But I can imagine that I would be the same with an alpha Male.

If he had asserted this dominance over me, it would be a way of branding me as his inferior, and it would be a symbol of status.
I would know my place, and so would he

I know many will disagree with this post, but it’s an interesting subject and something which I have never really thought about until reading this thread.

Happy for anyone who agrees with any part of this to message me to discuss more.....
 
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