I have never been fucked by any of my wife's lovers. She is the only one who has pegged me with a strap-on. However, I have been made to orally service several of her lovers and I can say it is very degrading and I do not enjoy it. To make matters worse, the first time they made me suck cock in front of her, she just had a big grin on her face and called me a wimp and that she lost all respect for me as a man.
It’s not gay to fuck the hubby
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And if I’m following what you are saying; it gels with what I have said. Most yanks don’t take or make decisions cos they want to. They do things cos someone has instructed them overtly or covertly and they want to comply for fear of being excluded. I can see a BBC bull being urged by his female love to fuck her man simply for a power exchange and the BBC would do it after properly brainwashed. They don’t wanna seem “uncool” so they do anything to get along. That doesn’t sound like medical community’s decision sounds more like the individual’s. I choose where my dick goes and I turn down any hole when I don’t wanna fuck....too many times. So again I want to get into this psychology cos I have talked to both male and female pornstars about this and I have my own theory regarding it. I am just curious as to what goes on in the mind/brain when these choices are being made, especially when they might not even be part of the BBC bulls’ regular sexual pathology.
What I say the dynamic of yours relationship? Sounds like she’s a Domme and you might be serving her.
I guess I am serving both of them, but yeah, ever since I have been cuckolded, she has become a lot more bossy.
starts with the mom especially she was raising a bitch ass kid.
Ok, ok. Just one more twist to make things complicated: Is it gay if the wife / gf / woman pegs the man? I mean is the wife gay? I'm very interested in your opinions, esp. what black guys think about this.
It Is a power thing somewhat leaning on sexual sadism. sexual orientation has imo little to do with it unless it might be a D/S relationship. It is a power thing. The sheer idea of degrading a masculine archetype right in front of other males. It is a signal that the BULL has been conquered...like they do in Spain. I see female DOMMEs who work for me do this to dudes all the time and we laugh about it. Difference is these dudes identify as just that...submissives. But for a BBC to think his role is just to be doing things because they need these clowns are instructing him, that sounds like a D/S relationship. You are not the one in control. You do things cos you do not have any control..your role is to respond. Again we laugh at these things during smoke sessions.
Or in front of other females...
So does a male interested couples have the right to know what the couple's history is? Why would you presume that someone would not require a couple to provide up to date test results? My presumption as well as my question point to the single participant having the SAME questions and concerns; if a woman or her husband use the term 'slut', I personally at a minimum give credence to the possibility of their health as well as health practices. Frequently a husband's conversation of the wife's sexuality is NOT a perfect match to what she expresses or one perceives.
Nothing I said was directed specifically at anyone.....
Stop.
I am me, and I define myself for myself, just like each and every one of you. I define only one person's sexuality, and that is my own. I do not and will not even attempt to define anyone else's....if I'm not fucking you, it definitely is none of my business and a waste of my positive energy to even care. A lot of people are taking issue with, arguing about what someone else does. Fuck them, or don't; but if you're outside why do you care, and why do you care so passionately? Gay is a label....just like bi, bitch, n*gg*r, cr*cker, jew, christian, whatever. None of them totally define an individual, and too many people disrespect others and themselves tossing them out to be condescending.
Can someone truly say they are not gay without at a minimum considering the possibility of being gay?
I am me, and I define myself for myself, just like each and every one of you. I define only one person's sexuality, and that is my own. I do not and will not even attempt to define anyone else's....if I'm not fucking you, it definitely is none of my business and a waste of my positive energy to even care. A lot of people are taking issue with, arguing about what someone else does. Fuck them, or don't; but if you're outside why do you care, and why do you care so passionately? Gay is a label....just like bi, bitch, n*gg*r, cr*cker, jew, christian, whatever. None of them totally define an individual, and too many people disrespect others and themselves tossing them out to be condescending.
Can someone truly say they are not gay without at a minimum considering the possibility of being gay?
Maxfield0316
Couple
Ignoring your ass. This is my last reply to you.
You call my wife a slut we call you a fuck boy or stunt cock. Simple as that, not everyone gets off on deragotry word use. Straight up, you're a third party coming into a marriage, if you don't respect us, we just swipe left and move on. Like we just did by hitting the ignore button on your profile. Bye, Felicia.
Well said. Pesonally i am not concerned what lables people want to use for me.
The orginal intent of this thead, is I belive, to point out that for many in this lifestyle the underlying motivation is not attraction to men, but the expresion or power or submiision. This activity is the ultimate expression or that power or submiision.
Those who don't look below the surface foce on the "gay: act and not the motivation. I think this is essentially true for bulls who are enjoying both the power of fucking a married woman and seeing her husband submit to them
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Intelligence and well articlated opinion are very sexy. Charlston getaway.
Maxfield0316
Couple
For us, it's not consensual. I won't have sex with any man, period. It's gay and if you aren't comfortable admitting you're bisexual or gay, we don't want you in our love life, period. I'm married to my woman, not you. I'm her Dominant, not you. She wears my collar and will never wear anyone elses. I'm not a sissy and I'm not touching another man. No rimming, no fluffing, no gay ass buttsex, no chastity, no denial, there will be zero contact between me and you. We're happily married, you're just a nice to have luxury. We don't need you. If you're trying to have sex with me, my wifes not putting out for you. That's the bottom line. She is not turned on by gay sex at all. If you say you're straight but you're not we will revoke consent and toss you to the curb. Our lifestyle, our rules, don't agree then you don't play with us. My wife doesn't like being disrespected, you call her a slut or whore, she'll call you a fuck boy, stunt cock, or something else to remind you she doesn't need you. Its not a matter of you asserting dominance, its full blown gay. You let another man suck your cock, you are just as gay as the one sucking it. You fuck a mans ass, you're just as gay as the one you're fucking. It's gay. I've been a Dominant much of my life and I've never once looked at another guy and said I'd fuck him to assert that dominance. Gay sex doesn't turn everyone on. Everyone has preferences. Its not about labels, its about setting boundaries and making sure those hard limits are respected.
I got nothing against the bisexual and gay men on this website. I respect those who can admit their sexuality. But saying your straight/hetero when your not, that's going to get us to pass on you. We are a couple that will revoke consent and throw you out of our lives. We are not interested in gay sex. You want it theres plenty of guys out there willing to do it. Find one and stay away from me and my wife. We're not interested.
I got nothing against the bisexual and gay men on this website. I respect those who can admit their sexuality. But saying your straight/hetero when your not, that's going to get us to pass on you. We are a couple that will revoke consent and throw you out of our lives. We are not interested in gay sex. You want it theres plenty of guys out there willing to do it. Find one and stay away from me and my wife. We're not interested.
Alphadaddy
Male
Lol. Yes to all points.
It is not gay, u are not a diver when you go on vacation and try some dive in the sea for fun. A gay only likes man as a couple for love and stay together all the time. A cuckold is a cuckold not a gay, a cuckold do those things, suck dick, and sometimes likes to get fucked by the bull, but he is a cuckold not a gay.
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