Is this the moment?

@MarkP: i hope for you this is but a made-up story. Otherwise you are getting closer to your own divorce than you probably think, ImHO. Especially if you go on playing your game with your wife. You may not see it but you are driving her into the arms of another man. Not a stranger but a man she knows and probably been close with before your marriage. If you get her to cheat on you with him it will not be meaningless sex but there will be feelings involved with close certainty. The most important question you'll have to ask and answer yourself is: Do you wish to sacrifice your marriage for a sexual kink fantasy?
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
@MarkP: i hope for you this is but a made-up story. Otherwise you are getting closer to your own divorce than you probably think, ImHO. Especially if you go on playing your game with your wife. You may not see it but you are driving her into the arms of another man. Not a stranger but a man she knows and probably been close with before your marriage. If you get her to cheat on you with him it will not be meaningless sex but there will be feelings involved with close certainty. The most important question you'll have to ask and answer yourself is: Do you wish to sacrifice your marriage for a sexual kink fantasy?
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For the most part, I agree with your well-intended warning to Mark.

Where I differ from you is whether the sex Rodney appears fated to have with Tanya will amount to her cheating on Mark.

In my opinion it won’t, by reason of Mark’s complicity amounting to encouragement of Tanya in reviving her sexual relationship with Rodney.

The consequences of that to Mark’s marriage, as you imply, are reasonably predictable. Mark is more than likely aware that Tanya’s romantic re-involvement with Rodney is unstoppable and will result in her wanting out of the marriage.
 
Communication is big here. Almost seems like its inevitable with Tanya and Rodney because of a past plus he's local now which can complicate a lot of things. If you've talked in the past about sharing her and you know this is what you want and believe she'd be on board then you need to talk to her soon and maybe all three of you can all get on the same page and enjoy the extra company. Communication is huge!
 
Perhaps on the same “page”, but almost certainly not on the same bed, at least on present indications.

To me Rodney sounds too much like a man who takes his sexual pleasures with women with them alone untrammelled by concerns about voyeur husbands getting in on the act. Unless, that is, Rodney is bisexual and sexually attracted to Mark as well as to Tanya, in which case the “page” could (all going well) run into several volumes.
 
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We'd better all combine our forces to write the best script ever for a story based porn movie. :LOL:
TBH everything i said here was simply based on assumptions made from the very thin information Mark had been providing us with from only his point of view. That's obviously not enough to 100% correctly interprete their situation. It was meant as a warning to not overlook possible scenarios or outcome in real life that he may be distracted from seeing by his kink fantasy. ;)
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
We'd better all combine our forces to write the best script ever for a story based porn movie. :LOL:
TBH everything i said here was simply based on assumptions made from the very thin information Mark had been providing us with from only his point of view. That's obviously not enough to 100% correctly interprete their situation. It was meant as a warning to not overlook possible scenarios or outcome in real life that he may be distracted from seeing by his kink fantasy. ;)
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An individual’s life-script(s), including sexual ones, are accurately and comprehensively characterised by the famous Transactional Analysis originator and ex-Freudian psychiatrist Eric Berne, MD, in his popular books “Games People Play” and “Sex in Human Loving”.

If our wishful Mark reads them he will have little difficulty in identifying what Life-Game he and Tanya are playing with and against each other according to the life-scripts that determine the playing-out of their fake sex-lives, and take the steps needed to give those up in favour of healthy and ultimately more satisfying ones.
 
Wife4Black77 said:
I think you should come clean. How much do you love your wife? How would she answer the same question posed about you? If you have a very strong marriage with deep feelings for each other, tell her the truth, “I have a confession to make. Obviously you know my number 1 fantasy is to watch you with another man. And although it’s made for some hot sex in the bedroom, you have said on more than one occasion that you have no interest in doing it in real life. I totally get that, and respect your thoughts on this. I love you so much and I would never want to fuck up our marriage by pressuring you to do anything you didn’t want to do. With that said, just speaking from a pure fantasy perspective, can I just tell you that watching you talk to Rodney got me so freaking hot? Not saying there is anything there, or should be anything there, just saying it made me insanely hot. I know you are just being nice and helping him, because you are a good person by nature, but maybe in the bedroom you can throw me a bone and we can have some dirty talk related to you and Rodney? He’s a good looking, well built dude, he looks like he could make women see God, kidding well sort of. Have you ever thought of him sexually, or any black guys sexually? If not can you lie and tell me you have? Mostly kidding. The cool thing about us playing with this fantasy is that it’s just for us. He doesn’t need to know I go crazy thinking about him taking my sexy little wife and giving her mind blowing orgasms. Maybe one of the scenarios is that you feel so bad for nice guy Rodney, and he’s so upset/down after his divorce, you feel like it’s your Good Samaritan duty by sharing your amazing sexual talents with the poor guy.”

Obviously you know her best and what convo and scenarios might work best. But I just think the “let’s try to trick her into wanting to try something with him” is manipulative and I agree that it might lead to a future where she develops feelings for this guy and leaves you. You being honest up front makes it clear she has the green light if she wants it, but it also anchors you into whatever budding relationship there may be with him. Nothing will get her thinking about Rodney fucking her more than sex talk and role play around it where she knows how bad you would like to see her with him, plus, it would likely mean that she is cumming with images of his cock buried deep inside her. Just my two cents. Honesty is the best policy.

Also, I think your comment to her about relieving his sexual tension was probably pretty awkward and she knew you had an ulterior motive. Who out of the blue talks to his wife about finding a guy a woman to relieve his sexual tension? She’s not his pimp nor wing man. To me that seemed ****** and unnatural, Jmo.
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Love you suggestions, Ty. You are right on honesty is the best policy and I am not trying to trick her into this situation. She has admitted many times in bed how horny she gets with our role play. She also knows that I am totally fine if she comes to me and tells me that she wants Rodney to fuck her. I have tried a few times to do this in a real life but she has always bailed out.

I tried to be specific about guy we know in our role play but she insisted to keep it hypothetical. I will try again but I do fear her getting angry if I mention Rodney

I am not trying to trick her but encourage her. I wish I can do more directly
 
robert_qq said:
Hi Mark, how has the meeting been?
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Good hour and a half long chat with him. He wanted to get some advice but we end up mostly chatting about football ..LOL..the only problem is that he supports the team which I hate the most but that’s OK. I had a feeling which is difficult to explain, sitting in front of the guy who I’d like to fuck my wife

I have tried to be more specific with Tanya about Rodney but has been largely unsuccessful. I may end up taking Wife4Black77’s advice if I think it’s the right time
 
Hour and a half is a decent amount of time to spend with a guy you want to take over things with wife. I can imagine some of the feelings you had sitting there.

Maybe it is time to have a new favorite football team lol.
 
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