It's not you, it's just this site, and I think it also has to do with the current pandemic. I have the same issue - I want to fuck BBC as well, but it's really hard to find guys who meets my requirements here. There are definitely some, but most of them are abroad (US, UK, etc.) and currently that means it's not an option. And you look awesome - I'd be happy to share a BBC with you when I find one!
I have more luck on SDC currently, and on apps like Feeld and Tinder. But still, should any guy here read this: if you're 23 cm+ (that's roughly 9.5 inches), take care of your body, based in NL or willing to travel here, and you're able to have a good conversation as well ("hi baby wanna fuck" or just sending a dick pic is NOT a good conversation..
) - Hit me up!
(And no I am not trying to hijack the OP's thread - just providing an alternative on the other side of the world..
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