Is my Girlfriend Obsessed with BBC?

[Shavedguysa]

...And she specifically said her ex had a big penis "For a white guy". She always throws something like that in there.

Any updates?

It seems like the best thing to do is let her know how hot you think it is and that you fantasize about sharing her with a black guy with a big cock. See if she would ever consider doing something like that for you. Be open and supportive whatever her answer and let her know it is about her pleaseure.

 

[LittleSimon]

It seems like my girlfriend has a BBC fetish and is too shy/uncomfortable to admit it.

Me and my girlfriend (37 F) have been dating for about 5 years now. We're monogamous, have a good sex life, and haven't really ventured out at all. I'm white/male of average length/girth. The two most adventurous things she has done sexually is have a threesome with her ex-husband and another girl. And she visited a swingers club with her ex-husband but didn't partake. She said she "just watched" and that it was kind of a shock to her.

Ever since I've known her, she says thing that make me wonder if she secretly has an attraction/curiosity for BBC. Here's a list:

-When we first started dating, she randomly told me a story about her guy-friend, aka Jim. It went something like this. "My friend Jim keeps texting me weird questions about black guys. I think he has an obsession with their dicks or something. I guess he saw his girlfriend fucking two black guys and he said their dicks were huge.... like REALLY huge. Way bigger than a white guy's dick. But he liked it and now its all he ever thinks about. He texts me to ask me if I've tried BBC yet, and I'm like 'No!' He just goes on and on about black dicks and I think he wants to set me up with one or something--of course I would NEVER do that because I don't get it. But I think that's what he does. He films black guys with big dicks fucking white girls and sells the videos. He arranges everything." To which I just said, "Oh wow that's wild." (I had only know her a few months at this time).

-Her friends at work are all white girls dating black guys and they're always telling her to try BBC. They tell her it's bigger, better, all that stuff. And I recently found out that one of her work-friends frequently texts her BBC GIFs. My girlfriend says her friend sends her the GIFs b/c she "...likes to see my shocked reaction to the GIFs." and that she "...Doesn't think they're hot--more funny than anything."

-Her tastes in porn are unknown to me. I just know that she watches it sometimes.

-She makes lots of BBC jokes. Here's a few examples:
Joke #1: She said "I have a dildo." I said "Oh, do you?" and she said "Yeah. A big black one." (She said that, and then kind of watch my confused laugh before she said she was kidding. It's just a regular vibrator...)

Joke #2: One time i got some sexy underwear that had a separate pocket for my penis. I showed them to her and she said, "Do they make them with different size pouches? Like an extra large one for black guys?" She then elaborated on the fact that many black guys wouldn't be able to fit their dick in such a pocket...

Joke #3: I was playing a PC RPG game, building my character, and there just so happened to me an option to pick a big dick or a small dick for my character. I told my girlfriend this and she said, "Does it have to be a white dick? I think that since it's a big dick it should have to be black."

Joke #4: We'll get done having sex and she'll say something like "See, this is why I tell Jim I don't need a black guy."

I asked her recently why she's so obsessed with making BBC jokes. She said she liked to see my reaction to the jokes, and that she thought that I thought they were funny (they kind of are but they make me more curious than anything). So I told her that if she makes the jokes all the time, she must be thinking about it a lot. I said, "Do you watch BBC porn?" and she said. "I mean... I've seen the videos with black guys when I'm scrolling but that's not usually what I choose to watch." So I asked her why it was always (apparently) on her mind. She said, "Probably because my friends at work are always talking to me about it and trying to get me to go black. They're always trying to convert me." She then showed me the text messages they send her with the BBC GIFs. She also got a little embarrassed and said "You must think im some kind of freak." But that was never my intention, and i apologized and assured her that I was only curious and would never judge her for such things.

-Her friend from work texted her a photo of a VERY well-endowed mixed guy one time. At one point, my gf showed it to me (for like the third time) and said, "I don't think I would let anyone stick that thing in me. It's too big." Later on, when we were watching T.V., I saw her staring at the big dick pic again. I thought, "Clearly, she's fascinated with it." She just kept looking at it from time to time.

-She follows a female pornstar on Twitter that makes either lesbian videos, or interracial BBC videos. She says that's her favorite pornstar.

-On a few occasions, the topic of her friend Jim has come back up. He might send her a text one afternoon and she'll tell me about it like, "Oh! Jim sent me another text this afternoon... asking me if I've tried big black cock yet. And I'm like 'No and I'm not planning on it'. He says the sex with black men is soooo much better and I'd love it. I think Jim must wish he was a black guy with a big dick."

-One time I saw pics on her phone of a ripped, oiled-up black guy that she had recently viewed.

-One time we were talking about big dicks in porn. I said there are lots of white guys with big dicks in porn too. Her response was, "Yeah but they're not as big as black guys dicks. Black dicks can get huuuuuge."

-One time she made a very odd comment in which she asked me what my reaction would be if a "big dicked black guy" and her got sexually involved. I don't remember exactly how it went because we were both *******. But she quickly laughed and said she was just kidding. I think she assumed she had taken one of her jokes too far at that point.

-She says Black men seem "more sexual" but that she's "only attracted to the really hot ones."

-She says she has never been with a black man simply because she's never dated one.

-She'll often say that size doesn't matter, and that she's more about "the emotion" during sex

I guess the next step is just tell her I watch interracial porn sometimes. I've not been completely honest with her about ALL of the types of porn I like to watch. So, I guess it starts there. It's just interesting to me that she brings up the topic of BBC as often as she does, and it makes me wonder what's really going on with her whole fascination with BBC.

If anyone would like to share their opinions or similar experiences, I'd like to hear them! It's a very curious situation to me.

What dreams are made of!

 

[latino]

My wife always reminds me before our stud starts, babe its just sex , no more than that , sex

 

[mizio]

It seems like my girlfriend has a BBC fetish and is too shy/uncomfortable to admit it.

Me and my girlfriend (37 F) have been dating for about 5 years now. We're monogamous, have a good sex life, and haven't really ventured out at all. I'm white/male of average length/girth. The two most adventurous things she has done sexually is have a threesome with her ex-husband and another girl. And she visited a swingers club with her ex-husband but didn't partake. She said she "just watched" and that it was kind of a shock to her.

Ever since I've known her, she says thing that make me wonder if she secretly has an attraction/curiosity for BBC. Here's a list:

-When we first started dating, she randomly told me a story about her guy-friend, aka Jim. It went something like this. "My friend Jim keeps texting me weird questions about black guys. I think he has an obsession with their dicks or something. I guess he saw his girlfriend fucking two black guys and he said their dicks were huge.... like REALLY huge. Way bigger than a white guy's dick. But he liked it and now its all he ever thinks about. He texts me to ask me if I've tried BBC yet, and I'm like 'No!' He just goes on and on about black dicks and I think he wants to set me up with one or something--of course I would NEVER do that because I don't get it. But I think that's what he does. He films black guys with big dicks fucking white girls and sells the videos. He arranges everything." To which I just said, "Oh wow that's wild." (I had only know her a few months at this time).

-Her friends at work are all white girls dating black guys and they're always telling her to try BBC. They tell her it's bigger, better, all that stuff. And I recently found out that one of her work-friends frequently texts her BBC GIFs. My girlfriend says her friend sends her the GIFs b/c she "...likes to see my shocked reaction to the GIFs." and that she "...Doesn't think they're hot--more funny than anything."

-Her tastes in porn are unknown to me. I just know that she watches it sometimes.

-She makes lots of BBC jokes. Here's a few examples:
Joke #1: She said "I have a dildo." I said "Oh, do you?" and she said "Yeah. A big black one." (She said that, and then kind of watch my confused laugh before she said she was kidding. It's just a regular vibrator...)

Joke #2: One time i got some sexy underwear that had a separate pocket for my penis. I showed them to her and she said, "Do they make them with different size pouches? Like an extra large one for black guys?" She then elaborated on the fact that many black guys wouldn't be able to fit their dick in such a pocket...

Joke #3: I was playing a PC RPG game, building my character, and there just so happened to me an option to pick a big dick or a small dick for my character. I told my girlfriend this and she said, "Does it have to be a white dick? I think that since it's a big dick it should have to be black."

Joke #4: We'll get done having sex and she'll say something like "See, this is why I tell Jim I don't need a black guy."

I asked her recently why she's so obsessed with making BBC jokes. She said she liked to see my reaction to the jokes, and that she thought that I thought they were funny (they kind of are but they make me more curious than anything). So I told her that if she makes the jokes all the time, she must be thinking about it a lot. I said, "Do you watch BBC porn?" and she said. "I mean... I've seen the videos with black guys when I'm scrolling but that's not usually what I choose to watch." So I asked her why it was always (apparently) on her mind. She said, "Probably because my friends at work are always talking to me about it and trying to get me to go black. They're always trying to convert me." She then showed me the text messages they send her with the BBC GIFs. She also got a little embarrassed and said "You must think im some kind of freak." But that was never my intention, and i apologized and assured her that I was only curious and would never judge her for such things.

-Her friend from work texted her a photo of a VERY well-endowed mixed guy one time. At one point, my gf showed it to me (for like the third time) and said, "I don't think I would let anyone stick that thing in me. It's too big." Later on, when we were watching T.V., I saw her staring at the big dick pic again. I thought, "Clearly, she's fascinated with it." She just kept looking at it from time to time.

-She follows a female pornstar on Twitter that makes either lesbian videos, or interracial BBC videos. She says that's her favorite pornstar.

-On a few occasions, the topic of her friend Jim has come back up. He might send her a text one afternoon and she'll tell me about it like, "Oh! Jim sent me another text this afternoon... asking me if I've tried big black cock yet. And I'm like 'No and I'm not planning on it'. He says the sex with black men is soooo much better and I'd love it. I think Jim must wish he was a black guy with a big dick."

-One time I saw pics on her phone of a ripped, oiled-up black guy that she had recently viewed.

-One time we were talking about big dicks in porn. I said there are lots of white guys with big dicks in porn too. Her response was, "Yeah but they're not as big as black guys dicks. Black dicks can get huuuuuge."

-One time she made a very odd comment in which she asked me what my reaction would be if a "big dicked black guy" and her got sexually involved. I don't remember exactly how it went because we were both *******. But she quickly laughed and said she was just kidding. I think she assumed she had taken one of her jokes too far at that point.

-She says Black men seem "more sexual" but that she's "only attracted to the really hot ones."

-She says she has never been with a black man simply because she's never dated one.

-She'll often say that size doesn't matter, and that she's more about "the emotion" during sex

I guess the next step is just tell her I watch interracial porn sometimes. I've not been completely honest with her about ALL of the types of porn I like to watch. So, I guess it starts there. It's just interesting to me that she brings up the topic of BBC as often as she does, and it makes me wonder what's really going on with her whole fascination with BBC.

If anyone would like to share their opinions or similar experiences, I'd like to hear them! It's a very curious situation to me.

I think she is fantasizing about BBC...it's quite clear that she thinks of BBC all time..she is addicted to BBC like all white hotties but she doesn't admit it ..help her make her live out her fantasy with a black man..it will the best pleasure in your life..good luck

 

[Cpl4BlkMenWI]

We would be very interested in any progress updates. Thank you.

 

[alwaysafriend]

Welcome to the club.
First let me say that my wife is a very shy quite submissive reserved type girl. Is not into dirty talk being called names or anything like that. She was a virgin until she was 24 and has been raised in a religious household.
Been together over 22 years every time we saw a interracial couple she was always saying that’s gross or sick or something to that effect. Mostly because of her upbringing correction totally because of it. I myself never really put much thought into it as it didn’t bother me who someone dated I was raised differently. I had no desire or fantasy about it at all.
Fast forward 20 years and she meets someone a female at work who she becomes great friends with. They go out together, shopping together and she was going over to her house to cookouts and spent the night a few times.
Later after I meet the couple found out he was black. The past six months there has been commits and jokes about bbc. I am trying to keep this short so going to just get to the point.
About a month ago she said she had a dream and it was sexual, I asked was I good and she said it wasn’t with you, I dreamed I was having sex with a black guy. I was curious myself so watched some IR porn and was a turn on but I didn’t say anything.
After looking some stuff up about inquiring into your wife’s fantasies I finally build up the courage to say something.
I was out of town last Friday night and we were on the phone talking about sex and I told her I had a fantasy but was afraid to say something, she asked what it was. I then proceeded to explain that I had no idea where it was coming from if it was her friend or her dream but that I had a dream about her being with a black guy. She said really and…… I then said it was really hot and exciting.
She then asked so what’s the fantasy and I told her I was afraid to tell her and she said just say it. After some chat about the dream she finally asked me if I wanted to see her do it with a black guy. I said absolutely I think it is such a turn on.
We chatted a little she was not offended but did say she could never do that. I asked just out of curiosity has she ever thought about it or had fantasies about it and she said yes a little, but I wouldn’t want to let my family down. I explained to her that it’s all about her. I am in not in anyway unhappy with our relationship., but do find this extremely exciting. We got off the phone and went to bed.
When I got home Saturday evening we were going out to dinner and as soon I as got home I called her and said I was outside. She got in the car and immediately kissed me very passionately for a minute or so and said let’s go. We didn’t talk at dinner about it but after dinner we went and got coffee and spoke a little about it. I asked if she was mad or upset and she said no. She then told me she had just watched some IR porn and it wasn’t a big deal that I said that. I asked was that last night after we got off the phone and she said no. So I asked if she if she had watch IR in the last 3 months she said yes.
We went home and I said I looked up something and wanted to know if you would watch it with me. I told her it was a IR video and she said yes. I did explain to her that the girl looks very much like her to me and looked her straight in the eyes and said I want you to understand that when I watch this this girl reminds me of you and that when I watch this I am thinking of you.

As soon as I turn it on the first thing she said was oh wow she does look like me!

We then started making out she moved my hands somewhere ( something she never does let’s me make the moves) and she was extremely wet and excited.
Unfortunately due to my job phone rang had to head out of town and didn’t go further.
She will always send me a good morning I love you text in the morning no big deal, however Sunday morning it was Good Morning I LOVE YOU in all caps.
I strolled back to look and none were ever all caps. Told her I loved her too and she said she really enjoyed last night. I asked what part she said All of it.




She normally texts me shortly after I finish work, but Sunday didn’t until it was late. Normal text Monday morning and again didn’t text til late that night.
When I talked to her on Tuesday she said I was waiting on you to text me. Correct me if I m wrong but I think she was waiting on me so we could continue the conversation or for me too take control.
Tuesday thru Saturday had family around for Thanksgiving.
We went out last night and the conversation ended up there as I slowly took it there, we talked and again and the I could never do that came up.
I know I have told her my desire but I understand woman are different, they may say one thing and mean another or mean what they say. I am trying to see if she wants to do this or is just humoring me.
Obviously she could see herself in the video by the commit she does look like me, so I tried a different approach.
I figured that if she was interested I would get answers if not she would shut me down.
So I asked if we were to do this what type of guy would you prefer?

She asked
Are we still talking about the hypothetical scenario?
I said yes

Her Answer: Suit tie business type
Hair shave head or facial hair?
Answer: Doesn’t matter
Body type?
Answer: Muscular taller than me
Does his package matter bigger smaller than me?
Answer: Doesn’t matter
If we were to do this who would pick the guy out?
Answer: We would together
Who would be in control?
Answer: Me (as in her) so I can decide what we do unless you want to be in control.
Wondering why give the answers if not intereste, but looked at it like well least I know what type of guy it would be
I have told her how much she means to me and how much I love her and that I am supportive of anything or decision she would make, however not sure if she would tell me or want me to take control and make it happen.
I guess my question is she interested, curious, , or undecided or ready to go to the next level?

 

[john1984]

It seems like my girlfriend has a BBC fetish and is too shy/uncomfortable to admit it.

Me and my girlfriend (37 F) have been dating for about 5 years now. We're monogamous, have a good sex life, and haven't really ventured out at all. I'm white/male of average length/girth. The two most adventurous things she has done sexually is have a threesome with her ex-husband and another girl. And she visited a swingers club with her ex-husband but didn't partake. She said she "just watched" and that it was kind of a shock to her.

Ever since I've known her, she says thing that make me wonder if she secretly has an attraction/curiosity for BBC. Here's a list:

-When we first started dating, she randomly told me a story about her guy-friend, aka Jim. It went something like this. "My friend Jim keeps texting me weird questions about black guys. I think he has an obsession with their dicks or something. I guess he saw his girlfriend fucking two black guys and he said their dicks were huge.... like REALLY huge. Way bigger than a white guy's dick. But he liked it and now its all he ever thinks about. He texts me to ask me if I've tried BBC yet, and I'm like 'No!' He just goes on and on about black dicks and I think he wants to set me up with one or something--of course I would NEVER do that because I don't get it. But I think that's what he does. He films black guys with big dicks fucking white girls and sells the videos. He arranges everything." To which I just said, "Oh wow that's wild." (I had only know her a few months at this time).

-Her friends at work are all white girls dating black guys and they're always telling her to try BBC. They tell her it's bigger, better, all that stuff. And I recently found out that one of her work-friends frequently texts her BBC GIFs. My girlfriend says her friend sends her the GIFs b/c she "...likes to see my shocked reaction to the GIFs." and that she "...Doesn't think they're hot--more funny than anything."

-Her tastes in porn are unknown to me. I just know that she watches it sometimes.

-She makes lots of BBC jokes. Here's a few examples:
Joke #1: She said "I have a dildo." I said "Oh, do you?" and she said "Yeah. A big black one." (She said that, and then kind of watch my confused laugh before she said she was kidding. It's just a regular vibrator...)

Joke #2: One time i got some sexy underwear that had a separate pocket for my penis. I showed them to her and she said, "Do they make them with different size pouches? Like an extra large one for black guys?" She then elaborated on the fact that many black guys wouldn't be able to fit their dick in such a pocket...

Joke #3: I was playing a PC RPG game, building my character, and there just so happened to me an option to pick a big dick or a small dick for my character. I told my girlfriend this and she said, "Does it have to be a white dick? I think that since it's a big dick it should have to be black."

Joke #4: We'll get done having sex and she'll say something like "See, this is why I tell Jim I don't need a black guy."

I asked her recently why she's so obsessed with making BBC jokes. She said she liked to see my reaction to the jokes, and that she thought that I thought they were funny (they kind of are but they make me more curious than anything). So I told her that if she makes the jokes all the time, she must be thinking about it a lot. I said, "Do you watch BBC porn?" and she said. "I mean... I've seen the videos with black guys when I'm scrolling but that's not usually what I choose to watch." So I asked her why it was always (apparently) on her mind. She said, "Probably because my friends at work are always talking to me about it and trying to get me to go black. They're always trying to convert me." She then showed me the text messages they send her with the BBC GIFs. She also got a little embarrassed and said "You must think im some kind of freak." But that was never my intention, and i apologized and assured her that I was only curious and would never judge her for such things.

-Her friend from work texted her a photo of a VERY well-endowed mixed guy one time. At one point, my gf showed it to me (for like the third time) and said, "I don't think I would let anyone stick that thing in me. It's too big." Later on, when we were watching T.V., I saw her staring at the big dick pic again. I thought, "Clearly, she's fascinated with it." She just kept looking at it from time to time.

-She follows a female pornstar on Twitter that makes either lesbian videos, or interracial BBC videos. She says that's her favorite pornstar.

-On a few occasions, the topic of her friend Jim has come back up. He might send her a text one afternoon and she'll tell me about it like, "Oh! Jim sent me another text this afternoon... asking me if I've tried big black cock yet. And I'm like 'No and I'm not planning on it'. He says the sex with black men is soooo much better and I'd love it. I think Jim must wish he was a black guy with a big dick."

-One time I saw pics on her phone of a ripped, oiled-up black guy that she had recently viewed.

-One time we were talking about big dicks in porn. I said there are lots of white guys with big dicks in porn too. Her response was, "Yeah but they're not as big as black guys dicks. Black dicks can get huuuuuge."

-One time she made a very odd comment in which she asked me what my reaction would be if a "big dicked black guy" and her got sexually involved. I don't remember exactly how it went because we were both *******. But she quickly laughed and said she was just kidding. I think she assumed she had taken one of her jokes too far at that point.

-She says Black men seem "more sexual" but that she's "only attracted to the really hot ones."

-She says she has never been with a black man simply because she's never dated one.

-She'll often say that size doesn't matter, and that she's more about "the emotion" during sex

I guess the next step is just tell her I watch interracial porn sometimes. I've not been completely honest with her about ALL of the types of porn I like to watch. So, I guess it starts there. It's just interesting to me that she brings up the topic of BBC as often as she does, and it makes me wonder what's really going on with her whole fascination with BBC.

If anyone would like to share their opinions or similar experiences, I'd like to hear them! It's a very curious situation to me.

She is prepared to be blacked. You can tell.her directly. Maybe she will be socked but for sure she will accept. Take a dildo.and make her cumming on it. Tell her she need a real one and see what she is answering. If she didn't say anything let the situation in that way 1 week. Put you phone to.an ir scene and let it to see her as well. Do it intentionally.
If she want a bbc she will give you some sign.

 

[latino]

I don’t know if it’s obsessed but my wife does thing to our stud she dosent with me like moan hard or say its deep or eat my cum she swollow his and fuck anal with me and she takes all his dick in the ass

 

[alwaysafriend]

First off, NEVER apologize or feel like you need to cut these stories about GF/Wife going from not interested, to maybe interested to definitely, and finally to getting her mind blown by sex with a well hung black guy. I hung on every word. Hot as F!

Comments:
She is DEFINITELY interested. No two ways about it. I would be having to “rub one out” several times a day if my wife was that forward about liking this stuff. She does like it and has intense orgasms with respect to my fantasy but I have to pull it out of her. Damn Catholic upbringing with a hefty side of guilt and shame!

Anyway, I don’t fully understand how you can’t sexually hook up with your GF over a few days. Schedules and proximity can’t be that bad right?

Not sure if she has a toy yet (vibrator, dildo etc) but get her a black dildo bigger than your cock but not too huge. Can’t stress it enough, it should be bigger than you. Go big or go home. You want to ramp up the eroticism, the “something new, different” etc angle. She already talks and jokes about BBC, right? Trust me, she would love bigger. What woman (unless she already has a well endowed husband etc) wouldn’t? Like most every woman in a committed relationship with someone they love, when she tells you size doesn’t matter or she doesn’t need/want bigger, she is just trying to reassure you. And let me tell you brother, a bigger cock ramps up a very powerful drive for many men who want this for their wives…

SPERM COMPETITION. Look it up. That was a game changer for me. To the point that if you asked me if I wanted a bigger cock than what I have now (which is definitely on the small side of average) I would say “no thanks.” Because this fantasy coupled with penis envy is insanely hot!

Tell her that fantasies are super fun, and you just want to play with her. Now you will need to work on your sex talk game. So easy to get women over the top if you can anticipate what will turn her on and give that to her. What I say to my wife are things like:

“Oh baby this well hung black guy has been wanting to fuck your tight little pussy for so long. He’s been dreaming and jerking off thinking about squeezing his big thick cock into you.” Or “you know a pretty white girl like yourself shouldn’t want a big black cock inside of her, but you can’t help it can you? You know how amazing it will feel to have him deeper and filling you up more than me or any other white guy has before.” Those things or something similar usually give my wife very vocal orgasms that she apologizes for afterwards.

Note: you can’t just use the dildo, her clit needs to be stimulated too either manually by you or with a vibrator. Most women can’t cum through vaginal penetration alone.

Reassure her that one of things that concerns you, is that yes this sex fantasy makes you so freaking turned on, but you love her and you don’t want to lose her. Tell her that if you both can treat it like what it is, just a hot sex add on that spices up your life, but you both remain committed to your relationship and your love for one another, then this can be amazing. But if she feels she maybe can’t handle that then you should just stick to the fantasy.

You can tell her that you did a lot of reading on this site, and this fantasy and lifestyle has a huge following. Tell her that what people do to ensure an extra romantic relationship with the other guy doesn’t form are:
1) Always play together. No date nights or overnights/weekends alone with the other guy.
2) You both have veto power, meaning that either one of you can stop the relationship if you feel it’s not healthy or putting your relationship at risk.
3) Maybe play with 2-3 different guys instead of just having one relationship with one guy.

Be sure to give updates. Good luck! Very exciting development.

 

[alwaysafriend]

To be honest I missed a big flag earlier this year.
She is a big fan of 50 shades of grey. When we had went to Priscilla McCalls, it’s a lingerie and adult toy store here in Fayetteville we had looked at dildos before. When I joked about the blacks ones it was always a big NO. That’s been years ago.
This year when we went there was a 50 shades toy that she was interested in.
I later bought it for her but didn’t think she would use it because it was black. However when I showed it to her there was no hesitation at all.
We used it and she really enjoyed it.
When you said that her clit needs to be stimulated too it does that.
She did have a really great experience with this and made commit about size and we have used it some over the course of the year. When I say I missed a flag it’s because when we first used it afterwards when I asked if she enjoyed it she said ”Yes very much so,and it’s black. Again I m sorry but really never thought this would be something that she was interested in. So wast really looking for signs. If you would have told me it would be something I was interested in 2 years ago I would have so no myself.

 

[Specialk69]

My girlfriend loved this video ! She would love to have his bbc dildo and loves. The shaved cock.

 

[cuckSUCKStoo86]

It seems like my girlfriend has a BBC fetish and is too shy/uncomfortable to admit it.

Me and my girlfriend (37 F) have been dating for about 5 years now. We're monogamous, have a good sex life, and haven't really ventured out at all. I'm white/male of average length/girth. The two most adventurous things she has done sexually is have a threesome with her ex-husband and another girl. And she visited a swingers club with her ex-husband but didn't partake. She said she "just watched" and that it was kind of a shock to her.

Ever since I've known her, she says thing that make me wonder if she secretly has an attraction/curiosity for BBC. Here's a list:

-When we first started dating, she randomly told me a story about her guy-friend, aka Jim. It went something like this. "My friend Jim keeps texting me weird questions about black guys. I think he has an obsession with their dicks or something. I guess he saw his girlfriend fucking two black guys and he said their dicks were huge.... like REALLY huge. Way bigger than a white guy's dick. But he liked it and now its all he ever thinks about. He texts me to ask me if I've tried BBC yet, and I'm like 'No!' He just goes on and on about black dicks and I think he wants to set me up with one or something--of course I would NEVER do that because I don't get it. But I think that's what he does. He films black guys with big dicks fucking white girls and sells the videos. He arranges everything." To which I just said, "Oh wow that's wild." (I had only know her a few months at this time).

-Her friends at work are all white girls dating black guys and they're always telling her to try BBC. They tell her it's bigger, better, all that stuff. And I recently found out that one of her work-friends frequently texts her BBC GIFs. My girlfriend says her friend sends her the GIFs b/c she "...likes to see my shocked reaction to the GIFs." and that she "...Doesn't think they're hot--more funny than anything."

-Her tastes in porn are unknown to me. I just know that she watches it sometimes.

-She makes lots of BBC jokes. Here's a few examples:
Joke #1: She said "I have a dildo." I said "Oh, do you?" and she said "Yeah. A big black one." (She said that, and then kind of watch my confused laugh before she said she was kidding. It's just a regular vibrator...)

Joke #2: One time i got some sexy underwear that had a separate pocket for my penis. I showed them to her and she said, "Do they make them with different size pouches? Like an extra large one for black guys?" She then elaborated on the fact that many black guys wouldn't be able to fit their dick in such a pocket...

Joke #3: I was playing a PC RPG game, building my character, and there just so happened to me an option to pick a big dick or a small dick for my character. I told my girlfriend this and she said, "Does it have to be a white dick? I think that since it's a big dick it should have to be black."

Joke #4: We'll get done having sex and she'll say something like "See, this is why I tell Jim I don't need a black guy."

I asked her recently why she's so obsessed with making BBC jokes. She said she liked to see my reaction to the jokes, and that she thought that I thought they were funny (they kind of are but they make me more curious than anything). So I told her that if she makes the jokes all the time, she must be thinking about it a lot. I said, "Do you watch BBC porn?" and she said. "I mean... I've seen the videos with black guys when I'm scrolling but that's not usually what I choose to watch." So I asked her why it was always (apparently) on her mind. She said, "Probably because my friends at work are always talking to me about it and trying to get me to go black. They're always trying to convert me." She then showed me the text messages they send her with the BBC GIFs. She also got a little embarrassed and said "You must think im some kind of freak." But that was never my intention, and i apologized and assured her that I was only curious and would never judge her for such things.

-Her friend from work texted her a photo of a VERY well-endowed mixed guy one time. At one point, my gf showed it to me (for like the third time) and said, "I don't think I would let anyone stick that thing in me. It's too big." Later on, when we were watching T.V., I saw her staring at the big dick pic again. I thought, "Clearly, she's fascinated with it." She just kept looking at it from time to time.

-She follows a female pornstar on Twitter that makes either lesbian videos, or interracial BBC videos. She says that's her favorite pornstar.

-On a few occasions, the topic of her friend Jim has come back up. He might send her a text one afternoon and she'll tell me about it like, "Oh! Jim sent me another text this afternoon... asking me if I've tried big black cock yet. And I'm like 'No and I'm not planning on it'. He says the sex with black men is soooo much better and I'd love it. I think Jim must wish he was a black guy with a big dick."

-One time I saw pics on her phone of a ripped, oiled-up black guy that she had recently viewed.

-One time we were talking about big dicks in porn. I said there are lots of white guys with big dicks in porn too. Her response was, "Yeah but they're not as big as black guys dicks. Black dicks can get huuuuuge."

-One time she made a very odd comment in which she asked me what my reaction would be if a "big dicked black guy" and her got sexually involved. I don't remember exactly how it went because we were both *******. But she quickly laughed and said she was just kidding. I think she assumed she had taken one of her jokes too far at that point.

-She says Black men seem "more sexual" but that she's "only attracted to the really hot ones."

-She says she has never been with a black man simply because she's never dated one.

-She'll often say that size doesn't matter, and that she's more about "the emotion" during sex

I guess the next step is just tell her I watch interracial porn sometimes. I've not been completely honest with her about ALL of the types of porn I like to watch. So, I guess it starts there. It's just interesting to me that she brings up the topic of BBC as often as she does, and it makes me wonder what's really going on with her whole fascination with BBC.

If anyone would like to share their opinions or similar experiences, I'd like to hear them! It's a very curious situation to me.

 

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It seems like my girlfriend has a BBC fetish and is too shy/uncomfortable to admit it.

Me and my girlfriend (37 F) have been dating for about 5 years now. We're monogamous, have a good sex life, and haven't really ventured out at all. I'm white/male of average length/girth. The two most adventurous things she has done sexually is have a threesome with her ex-husband and another girl. And she visited a swingers club with her ex-husband but didn't partake. She said she "just watched" and that it was kind of a shock to her.

Ever since I've known her, she says thing that make me wonder if she secretly has an attraction/curiosity for BBC. Here's a list:

-When we first started dating, she randomly told me a story about her guy-friend, aka Jim. It went something like this. "My friend Jim keeps texting me weird questions about black guys. I think he has an obsession with their dicks or something. I guess he saw his girlfriend fucking two black guys and he said their dicks were huge.... like REALLY huge. Way bigger than a white guy's dick. But he liked it and now its all he ever thinks about. He texts me to ask me if I've tried BBC yet, and I'm like 'No!' He just goes on and on about black dicks and I think he wants to set me up with one or something--of course I would NEVER do that because I don't get it. But I think that's what he does. He films black guys with big dicks fucking white girls and sells the videos. He arranges everything." To which I just said, "Oh wow that's wild." (I had only know her a few months at this time).

-Her friends at work are all white girls dating black guys and they're always telling her to try BBC. They tell her it's bigger, better, all that stuff. And I recently found out that one of her work-friends frequently texts her BBC GIFs. My girlfriend says her friend sends her the GIFs b/c she "...likes to see my shocked reaction to the GIFs." and that she "...Doesn't think they're hot--more funny than anything."

-Her tastes in porn are unknown to me. I just know that she watches it sometimes.

-She makes lots of BBC jokes. Here's a few examples:
Joke #1: She said "I have a dildo." I said "Oh, do you?" and she said "Yeah. A big black one." (She said that, and then kind of watch my confused laugh before she said she was kidding. It's just a regular vibrator...)

Joke #2: One time i got some sexy underwear that had a separate pocket for my penis. I showed them to her and she said, "Do they make them with different size pouches? Like an extra large one for black guys?" She then elaborated on the fact that many black guys wouldn't be able to fit their dick in such a pocket...

Joke #3: I was playing a PC RPG game, building my character, and there just so happened to me an option to pick a big dick or a small dick for my character. I told my girlfriend this and she said, "Does it have to be a white dick? I think that since it's a big dick it should have to be black."

Joke #4: We'll get done having sex and she'll say something like "See, this is why I tell Jim I don't need a black guy."

I asked her recently why she's so obsessed with making BBC jokes. She said she liked to see my reaction to the jokes, and that she thought that I thought they were funny (they kind of are but they make me more curious than anything). So I told her that if she makes the jokes all the time, she must be thinking about it a lot. I said, "Do you watch BBC porn?" and she said. "I mean... I've seen the videos with black guys when I'm scrolling but that's not usually what I choose to watch." So I asked her why it was always (apparently) on her mind. She said, "Probably because my friends at work are always talking to me about it and trying to get me to go black. They're always trying to convert me." She then showed me the text messages they send her with the BBC GIFs. She also got a little embarrassed and said "You must think im some kind of freak." But that was never my intention, and i apologized and assured her that I was only curious and would never judge her for such things.

-Her friend from work texted her a photo of a VERY well-endowed mixed guy one time. At one point, my gf showed it to me (for like the third time) and said, "I don't think I would let anyone stick that thing in me. It's too big." Later on, when we were watching T.V., I saw her staring at the big dick pic again. I thought, "Clearly, she's fascinated with it." She just kept looking at it from time to time.

-She follows a female pornstar on Twitter that makes either lesbian videos, or interracial BBC videos. She says that's her favorite pornstar.

-On a few occasions, the topic of her friend Jim has come back up. He might send her a text one afternoon and she'll tell me about it like, "Oh! Jim sent me another text this afternoon... asking me if I've tried big black cock yet. And I'm like 'No and I'm not planning on it'. He says the sex with black men is soooo much better and I'd love it. I think Jim must wish he was a black guy with a big dick."

-One time I saw pics on her phone of a ripped, oiled-up black guy that she had recently viewed.

-One time we were talking about big dicks in porn. I said there are lots of white guys with big dicks in porn too. Her response was, "Yeah but they're not as big as black guys dicks. Black dicks can get huuuuuge."

-One time she made a very odd comment in which she asked me what my reaction would be if a "big dicked black guy" and her got sexually involved. I don't remember exactly how it went because we were both *******. But she quickly laughed and said she was just kidding. I think she assumed she had taken one of her jokes too far at that point.

-She says Black men seem "more sexual" but that she's "only attracted to the really hot ones."

-She says she has never been with a black man simply because she's never dated one.

-She'll often say that size doesn't matter, and that she's more about "the emotion" during sex

I guess the next step is just tell her I watch interracial porn sometimes. I've not been completely honest with her about ALL of the types of porn I like to watch. So, I guess it starts there. It's just interesting to me that she brings up the topic of BBC as often as she does, and it makes me wonder what's really going on with her whole fascination with BBC.

If anyone would like to share their opinions or similar experiences, I'd like to hear them! It's a very curious situation to me.

Obsessed maybe….. interested and turned on by the idea of……. I don’t know what she could do to make it more apparent. She’s literally most likely going absolutely crazy inside waiting to hear you say the the words, even just indicate you’re some what interested or turned on by the idea….. much less would like to try it!!!!! She’s praying for the day and dying inside to see a spark in your eye when it’s mentioned and for you to agree!!!!!! GUARANTEED buddy. Gf and I both dropped lots of some hints e