Just like swinging this is only for rock solid couples. It is made to enhance not take away from your relationship. I understand from that the little bit of anxiety/ jealousy is part of the thrill/ play. But if there is any real fear that your relationship would not with stand it don't do it. Also a good bull would not encourage those ******* of feelings for a couple of reasons. One part of his fun is not being tied down. Two if he lets feelings beyond friendship or friend love develope he is going to lose his playmate have a bad rep so other husband's would not trust him with their wives.
This is fantastic advice. The question "s it worth the risk" will be different for everyone, because not everyone who tries this is risking their relationship. When my wife and I started dating, we were in college. We had an open relationship while each of us studied abroad for an entire semester. The relationship withstood the complications that can arise from one of us getting more action than the other and we learned how to talk to each other through those times. Then we found the swinging lifestyle, and we were already committed enough to our relationship that it quickly became apparent that nobody was going to come along and in one night undo a solid foundation that took us years to build. From there we explored the BDSM world and things like chastity and femdom play, and we never had a strictly monogamous relationship through any part of our journey together. By the time she decided she wanted to start acting on some of the cuckold fantasies we'd talked about, we knew that our relationship wouldn't be at risk at all. I agree with
@Stlhotwifecpl , you need to have a rock solid, secure, open and honest foundation if you want to explore this kind of lifestyle. You should be able to confidently say that your relationship won't be put at risk, because you've already thoroughly discussed the things you and your partner desire, and are both committed to making sure you're both ok at every step along the way, and only continuing . If you don't already have that, then no, I don't think it's a great idea to try and go from zero to having another man bang your wife. If you do have that, you're not really risking quite so much by trying something together as a couple.
I won't say it's 100% risk free... your sex life may gradually shift, and it can be difficult to imagine a path back to where things were before, so if you decide to try cuckoldry, my advice is to be honest with your wife and yourself about how you're feeling about everything that's happening, every step of the way.
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