Is it bad?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by kendra23, Dec 29, 2015.

  1. kendra23

    kendra23 Active Member

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    I was wondering if it was bad if I get off being sexually talked down to? I love it when guys talk down to me and degrade me in the bedroom for some reason. I never tell anyone because when I do it scares them off. Your thoughts...
     
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  2. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    I believe this kind of question really needs to be answered by a qualified psychiatrist, Kendra. Obviously, it appears on the surface that you have low self-esteem, but it could be more serious, and, why you have it and to what degree can only be answered by a qualified doctor. Hopefully, you'll get an answer, and avoid a life long suppression of your true self.
    Please get your answer from a true professional. Mental abuse can be very serious.
    Mac
     
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  3. Publicinvader

    Publicinvader Active Member

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    Well if it sexually thrills you, great! Anything to make the fun better is always great to a extent. Now if you like it on the whole in your social life and what not, then that's mentally not healthy. It could lead to people using you and just plain insulting to your being as a woman.

    As the above said, it might be best to talk to a professional and see where you stand. Hope you get the answers you need :)
     
  4. kendra23

    kendra23 Active Member

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    It is just sexually
     
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  5. Publicinvader

    Publicinvader Active Member

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    Well if you know that and know when to not enjoy someone being disrespectful to you, then I say enjoy it. Some of the women I was FWB with enjoyed the bad talking and tying up. But I still respect them out of the bedroom.
     
  6. cltblackdick

    cltblackdick Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Not bad at all. It intensifies the sex.
     
  7. MisterPussyPleaser

    MisterPussyPleaser Well-Known Member Real Person

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    With the right kind of guy, I could see this being a thrill.
     
  8. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Me thinks you want to be a psychologist! I don't think people post here looking for clinical assessments but rather kindred spirits! ;)
     
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  9. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    I believe in giving sincere answers to sincere questions. You should answer the questions your way and not worry how I answer the questions. If it annoys you, there's a special button you can hit ...
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  10. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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