tracy ... It's understandable why you don't understand cuckolding. Its actually the difference in the way men & women think in terms of sex and relationships. Think of cuckolding as a one-sided aspect of swinging. In swinging relationships (similar to my marriage) both/either of us have sex with other partners. With cuckolding, only one partner, the wife, actually takes additional sex partners while the husband remains monogomous. Men can separate sex from love more easily than women, who usually want some degree of emotional bond (romance) with their sex. Thus, many men are sexually stimulated by seeing their wives being boned by another man, particularly men with larger cocks than their own. Its some deep embedded primal instinct that causes it ... hard to explain, actually. But, here's an example: ever see a female dog (bitch) in heat, surrounded by several male dogs wanting to mount her to mate? If you notice, before each dog mounts the bitch, the dog licks her vagina before mounting her ... to clean away the previous male's ejaculation. This is covered in the book Sperm Wars by Robin Baker ... very interesting book.
Is there a women on "this Planet" who has not at least skimmed over Mr. Greys book? Maybe, but very few. I understand the concept from the womans perspective. And to some degree the mens, but the effect on the relationship good or bad has to be substantial and turning back would seem impossible.
I hope you don't feel I am judging anyone on this site, or any other site. It's fasinating to watch a true amatuer movie where the wife is orally satisfying a group of Black men and is obviously enjoying herself , then you see in a mirror the husband is trying to plug in an extention cord or fix a camera, seemingly not watching his wife doing what she enjoys.
If the men are enjoying themselves great because I know the women are.
You write very well. It;s a pleasure reading your posts. Your response was absent any slang terminology with the exception of "Boned" isn't that a great word? Take care T. good night
Another paperback book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" by John Gray, I'm sure you've heard about, gives a very good psychological comparison of the differences in the way men & women approach problem solving and relationships. About 8-9 years ago my wife was laying on the beach reading that book, and kept laughing and occasionally sharing some things from the book; I ended up reading it, and have to admit, John Gray did an excellent job in identifying the psycho. differences of men & women. You might do a bing or google search for an outline/overview of the book, but I think you would really enjoy reading it. Mac