If you have been together for any length of time you should know what his attitudes are. The real question is why do you want to involve him? None of the women I am currently fucking or have fucked in the last few years include their husbands. I am very discrete and expect the same. If there is some question about how he would feel about you having a BBC lover I would just get yourself a bull that meets your needs and enjoy yourself.
I want to try a black cock how do I tell my hubby that is a fantasy of mine that I want to make true
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Talk to him, you may be surprised.
cuckwanabe27
Male
just go out to a club and go home with some blk guys nothing to do with hub or bfs its your own choice if he loves you he will accept it or keep it secret do it behind his back just make sure you get him to eat you out now and then after your lovers have used you lol
Obviously a lot of people, here, don't give a rat's ass about marital commitments, and should restrain from being counselors. The lady asks a serious question and practically everyone says "ah fuck the husband, go fuck who you want to fuck". WRONG ANSWER! Folks, imagine if it was your marriage, and other people were giving your spouse this kind of advice!? Unless Kimberly wishes to risk possible divorce, or at minimum establishing distrust with her husband, cheating should be considered only as a last resort or not at all, based on how committed she is to her marriage. 
Kimberly, I suggest you start out by "talking" and discussing the topic, maybe get into rollplaying some, THEN possibly as a fulfillment of a sexual fantasy. Because you haven't given any background on your marriage, just realize that fulfilling spousal fantasies means you give concessions as well ... but I think, in the long run, you'll be the one that harvests the most reward. Don't, however, try cheating as your first option ... please! No one here gives a crap about your marriage. If you were doused in gasoline and holding a pack of matches, there would be those in this crowd encouraging you to light a match. Its your marriage ... be logical!
Kimberly, I suggest you start out by "talking" and discussing the topic, maybe get into rollplaying some, THEN possibly as a fulfillment of a sexual fantasy. Because you haven't given any background on your marriage, just realize that fulfilling spousal fantasies means you give concessions as well ... but I think, in the long run, you'll be the one that harvests the most reward. Don't, however, try cheating as your first option ... please! No one here gives a crap about your marriage. If you were doused in gasoline and holding a pack of matches, there would be those in this crowd encouraging you to light a match. Its your marriage ... be logical!
teninches4Tracy
Female
Thanks. I just don't quite get the cuckold thing. I believe I'm jaded from my marriage and now I just want what I want.
If you want to stay married talk to him get some IR porn watch it with him tell him how much it turns you on. If you dont care about your it doesnt realy matter but onnes spouse deserves to be lied to and cheated on. . Honesty is the Keystone to a good marriage. If your lieing and cheating its done. If your marriage is done tell him and move on
tracy ... It's understandable why you don't understand cuckolding. Its actually the difference in the way men & women think in terms of sex and relationships. Think of cuckolding as a one-sided aspect of swinging. In swinging relationships (similar to my marriage) both/either of us have sex with other partners. With cuckolding, only one partner, the wife, actually takes additional sex partners while the husband remains monogomous. Men can separate sex from love more easily than women, who usually want some degree of emotional bond (romance) with their sex. Thus, many men are sexually stimulated by seeing their wives being boned by another man, particularly men with larger cocks than their own. Its some deep embedded primal instinct that causes it ... hard to explain, actually. But, here's an example: ever see a female dog (bitch) in heat, surrounded by several male dogs wanting to mount her to mate? If you notice, before each dog mounts the bitch, the dog licks her vagina before mounting her ... to clean away the previous male's ejaculation. This is covered in the book Sperm Wars by Robin Baker ... very interesting book.
Another paperback book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" by John Gray, I'm sure you've heard about, gives a very good psychological comparison of the differences in the way men & women approach problem solving and relationships. About 8-9 years ago my wife was laying on the beach reading that book, and kept laughing and occasionally sharing some things from the book; I ended up reading it, and have to admit, John Gray did an excellent job in identifying the psycho. differences of men & women. You might do a bing or google search for an outline/overview of the book, but I think you would really enjoy reading it. Mac
Would love it if my bitch said she wanted to get fucked by a bbc bull.
Some of the advice given here may verily land you in divorce court. If in your heart of hearts (or desires of desires) this is something you really must pursue, then I'd suggest giving him full disclosure. You married the guy and that should account for something in the honesty department. Explain to him in great detail the how and why of this desire answer any questions he may have, so that he can make a choice rather than have one ****** upon him.
Not about permission. It's about trust.
teninches4Tracy
Female
tracy ... It's understandable why you don't understand cuckolding. Its actually the difference in the way men & women think in terms of sex and relationships. Think of cuckolding as a one-sided aspect of swinging. In swinging relationships (similar to my marriage) both/either of us have sex with other partners. With cuckolding, only one partner, the wife, actually takes additional sex partners while the husband remains monogomous. Men can separate sex from love more easily than women, who usually want some degree of emotional bond (romance) with their sex. Thus, many men are sexually stimulated by seeing their wives being boned by another man, particularly men with larger cocks than their own. Its some deep embedded primal instinct that causes it ... hard to explain, actually. But, here's an example: ever see a female dog (bitch) in heat, surrounded by several male dogs wanting to mount her to mate? If you notice, before each dog mounts the bitch, the dog licks her vagina before mounting her ... to clean away the previous male's ejaculation. This is covered in the book Sperm Wars by Robin Baker ... very interesting book.
Is there a women on "this Planet" who has not at least skimmed over Mr. Greys book? Maybe, but very few. I understand the concept from the womans perspective. And to some degree the mens, but the effect on the relationship good or bad has to be substantial and turning back would seem impossible.
I hope you don't feel I am judging anyone on this site, or any other site. It's fasinating to watch a true amatuer movie where the wife is orally satisfying a group of Black men and is obviously enjoying herself , then you see in a mirror the husband is trying to plug in an extention cord or fix a camera, seemingly not watching his wife doing what she enjoys.
If the men are enjoying themselves great because I know the women are.
You write very well. It;s a pleasure reading your posts. Your response was absent any slang terminology with the exception of "Boned" isn't that a great word? Take care T. good night
Another paperback book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" by John Gray, I'm sure you've heard about, gives a very good psychological comparison of the differences in the way men & women approach problem solving and relationships. About 8-9 years ago my wife was laying on the beach reading that book, and kept laughing and occasionally sharing some things from the book; I ended up reading it, and have to admit, John Gray did an excellent job in identifying the psycho. differences of men & women. You might do a bing or google search for an outline/overview of the book, but I think you would really enjoy reading it. Mac
teninches4Tracy
Female
Sorry Mac. My response is stuffed in the middle of yours.
But your not cheating because he said anything so keep it up .
Well, maybe not ... she's cheating to her commitments of her marriage vows, which a lot more women apply more importance to than most men. Usually the ladies go into a marriage with the intent on living up to their marriage vows. Men, hell we start looking at the "hot" strange pussy as soon as we reach our honeymoon destination. And if we could score some new "hot" pussy while our wives are laying on the beach tanning ... we'd damn well do it in a heart beat. Just the nature of the beast, and why women usually have a difficult time understanding us.
Reminds me of that pic ( I have it some place ) where it is comparing a Male radio to a Female radio ... the male radio has an On/Off switch only, while the female radio has a tune dial, static eliminator, standby switch, and a bunch of other knobs and switches; we males are pretty BASIC creatures, I'll have to admit. If a woman wants to impress a man ... just show up at his door naked and holding a 12 pak of beer. Now THAT impresses US!
.... we males are pretty BASIC creatures, I'll have to admit. If a woman wants to impress a man ... just show up at his door naked and holding a 12 pak of beer. Now THAT impresses US!
Ain't that the truth!
Thrown in a pizza and we might even propose.
Just do a google search on "how to cuckold my boyfriend". Amongst some of the bullshit sites there are also some very informative ones.
I also remember reading somewhere how you can do some innocent probing to see if he is a potential cuckold.
During sex ask him if he ever fantasizes about other, perhaps famous, woman during sex or masturbation.
Regardless of his answer you can suggest you try it once. During sex he thinks of whoever and perhaps even says her name (a few times). I can imagine it feels weird for a woman, asking your boyfriend to think of someone else during sex with you but it will get better for you after this. That's the plan at least..
Afterwards of course comes your time to think of someone else during sex! Doesn't need to be a famous person but it could help feed his imagination if its a famous black (bull) type person. Otherwise just saying a "black" sounding name of a guy during sex should be enough (perhaps a black coworker or a black neighbor). During of course you watch his reaction. If he goes soft and stops fucking chances are very slim of it ever happening and I can't give any advice on how to proceed form there on. However, if he goes into a frenzy and starts humping you like a mad man than you know he is turned on by you having sex with another (black) man.
From there on you can take it step by step and explore further. But at least you know he is not repulsed by the thought of you with another man. Beats the blunt way, going out, fucking and bringing him sloppy seconds! However hot and horny that sounds to many people (including myself).
But no matter what, I think good communication is the best and safest way to go!
Additionally, to help you convince him of this (or anything else for that matter) it helps to keep him perpetually aroused! I know I have said yes to a number of things that I wouldn't have agreed to in a "sober" state.
So the saying goes: "men are blessed with two heads, but only have enough ******* to use one at the time!"
good luck!
I also remember reading somewhere how you can do some innocent probing to see if he is a potential cuckold.
During sex ask him if he ever fantasizes about other, perhaps famous, woman during sex or masturbation.
Regardless of his answer you can suggest you try it once. During sex he thinks of whoever and perhaps even says her name (a few times). I can imagine it feels weird for a woman, asking your boyfriend to think of someone else during sex with you but it will get better for you after this. That's the plan at least..
Afterwards of course comes your time to think of someone else during sex! Doesn't need to be a famous person but it could help feed his imagination if its a famous black (bull) type person. Otherwise just saying a "black" sounding name of a guy during sex should be enough (perhaps a black coworker or a black neighbor). During of course you watch his reaction. If he goes soft and stops fucking chances are very slim of it ever happening and I can't give any advice on how to proceed form there on. However, if he goes into a frenzy and starts humping you like a mad man than you know he is turned on by you having sex with another (black) man.
From there on you can take it step by step and explore further. But at least you know he is not repulsed by the thought of you with another man. Beats the blunt way, going out, fucking and bringing him sloppy seconds! However hot and horny that sounds to many people (including myself).
But no matter what, I think good communication is the best and safest way to go!
Additionally, to help you convince him of this (or anything else for that matter) it helps to keep him perpetually aroused! I know I have said yes to a number of things that I wouldn't have agreed to in a "sober" state.
So the saying goes: "men are blessed with two heads, but only have enough ******* to use one at the time!"
good luck!
LuciousLatina
Female
I think I would lose respect for my husband if he knew and allowed me to fuck other men, plus I love the excitement of sneaking around
You obviously have no respect for your husband. It's even more disrespectful to sneak around behind his back.
That seems to be a common point of view with the women I fuck. None of them involve their husbands. Most of my relationships are LTR. None of the women are in love with me, we are good friends. I provide them with experiences they can't get at home. It has been my impression that at least the majority of the women are happy with their husbands except for the sex. Maybe the lifestyle isn't for everyone but it's what has worked for our group.
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