I think she’s pushing me out and doesn’t want to involve me

[Jam11722]

False. That outcome is FAR from inevitable.

My wife loves BBC. She's had plenty of playmates that absolutely rocked her world, and didn't develop any kind of feelings for them. None have been any kind of threat to the place I hold in my wife's life.

She's also had one guy who she unexpectedly bonded with very deeply, and they became close enough that she made him her boyfriend. We didn't think polyamory was something we were ever looking for, but it turned out to be much better for us than we expected. We were reminded that people don't have a finite supply of love that they have to divide between those they care about. You can have immense love, even different kinds of love, for more than one person. Parents don't stop loving their firstborn ******* when they have a second one.

My wife and her boyfriend became very close, and it was strange at first to hear her say, "I love you too," when they talked on the phone. Eventually it made me smile every time, because I could see how happy she was, and that's all I've ever wanted for her. Recently he found another woman who might be a good fit for a long term primary life partner, which is something we never wanted to block him from, so he and my wife made the tough decision to break things off, for now at least. She still cares for him very much and letting go has been really hard, but she wants him to have the chance to have the kind of happiness that she and I have been blessed with, that comes from a full-time committed relationship with a loving partner who is all-in with him.

What my wife and her boyfriend had went WAAAYYY beyond "seeing how great sex can be" and her taste for big black cock, yet even through all of that, with all the complicated emotions involved, she's never once become even slightly less loving of me, or any less committed to our marriage. In fact, it's very much the opposite. She tells (and shows) me regularly how much she appreciates the freedom our dynamic gives her, he much she values the trust I place in her, and how grateful she is to have a "strong, secure cucky (her words)" who can let her do this without constantly doubting her, or my place in her life.

I know this lifestyle is not for everyone, but I can say with zero hesitation that it has brought my wife and I closer together and made our already strong marriage even stronger AND our sex life hotter and more satisfying for both of us. This notion that white men have nothing to offer a woman if they don't have giant cocks, or that women are universally weak, emotionally immature, or heartless, just because they enjoyed a good deep dicking, is completely false.

It has not been my experience that it is completely false however I am glad its worked out well for you and your wife

 

[JemmaNye&Herbi]

It has not been my experience that it is completely false however I am glad its worked out well for you and your wife

I'm not saying it's never happened the way you described at all. It might go south for people who aren't in a strong, committed marriage, with open and honest communication, between partners who prioritize each other's well-being. I'm just saying it's definitely not, as you put it, "inevitable," that a woman will stop loving the man she married, just because of some dick. Many women appreciate their husbands even more, for giving them the gifts of complete sexual freedom, and satisfaction beyond their own means.

 

[Jam11722]

I'm not saying it's never happened the way you described at all. It might go south for people who aren't in a strong, committed marriage, with open and honest communication, between partners who prioritize each other's well-being. I'm just saying it's definitely not, as you put it, "inevitable," that a woman will stop loving the man she married, just because of some dick. Many women appreciate their husbands even more, for giving them the gifts of complete sexual freedom, and satisfaction beyond their own means.

Maybe inevitable is not the right word, and maybe you're not from this new generation of women. Most of my experience is with married women who are not in the "life style". They are generally bored with their husbands. Many cases it goes beyond sex, even though bad sex is a major part of it. They are looking for some excitement in their lives and once they see how good sex can be they are not about to give it up. However I do have some experience with about a half dozen in the "life style" and in it least 4 situations after we've had sex 1-2 times and I laid down my requirements to continue they were willing to break some of the ground rules they agreed to with their husbands (e.g., meeting me on the side w/o hubby, no condoms, etc). So, in at least my experience, once they've had a BBC, they are not going back.

 

[robbiewillsuck]

Every woman should have lots of lovers. March 2022 Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.

Next item - hope you will share the details of your past and current sex and your kinky fantasies and how you would play with me. Where are you located? I want to be your sub sissy slut online cuckold till we meet and play.

Hello I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - robbiewillsucku at gmail -- I used to be straight and dom then we got into swinging then I became a switch then a sub then more sub then very sub and I am now a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold and I like it.

 

[Jdingo619]

She tells me she wants a 2sum with 2 guys
Today some guy at work hits her up and she keeps saying he doesn’t want vids but I’m like wtf

finally after 2 hours she admits it’s her and doesn’t feel comfortable me watching but I’ve told her the rules what I’m ok with and she was ok with me watching, and vids and pics but when She said he prob wouldn’t without even knowing then ssid she just won’t told her many guys are into it and we will , I think she just wants to fuck other men and throw me to the sjde what do you think
She says I’d tell him she’d have to them admits it’s her who doesn’t want it

i don’t know any kink where the guy gets no pleasure or not oics or vids or even meeting the damn guy snd then being alone for the first time I think she’s done with me

If the whole premise for you guys entering the lifestyle was spicing things up and fulfilling the fantasy of you enjoying watching her with other men then you should definitely stick to your guns minimally for safety reasons!

A reasonable compromise would be for you to watch at least the first encounter every time! So you can feel comfortable about the guy vetting wise.

Understand that anyone having sex is gonna want privacy so they can feel 100% percent comfortable and free to express their freaky side to the full extent and beyond and it is natural for people only want to do it without an audience! Unless you are absolutely 110% percent certain that your husband or wife can handle your free uninhibited expression anyone will slightly hold back. What holding back translates into is knowing in the back of your mind that regardless having some wonderful sexual experiences that you are not having the absolute best possible experiences because of slightly holding back! This goes for both the women and the bulls in front of an audience.

I believe earning the trust of everyone involved and when I have done so satisfaction the alone is always offered! I have never asked for alone time with anyone's woman. I perform well in front her man, earn the trust, and next thing you know the alone time is the reward!

 

[JemmaNye&Herbi]

Every woman should have lots of lovers.

What about women who prefer monogamy? Or those who like to have a single playmate or boyfriend alongside their primary partners?

That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy.

What about men whose wives aren't turned on by feminization or m2m play?

It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly).

Important to whom? What will happen if she doesn't? What if she prefers to do it on a different schedule? What if she doesn't want to do that at all?

It is all about making her happy.

This is the one part you got right. But if it's all about what makes HER happy, why is it YOUR fantasy that is so important? Are women who don't follow rules made up by horny white men online doing it wrong?

 

[FrankiGoodGurl]

I'm not saying it's never happened the way you described at all. It might go south for people who aren't in a strong, committed marriage, with open and honest communication, between partners who prioritize each other's well-being. I'm just saying it's definitely not, as you put it, "inevitable," that a woman will stop loving the man she married, just because of some dick. Many women appreciate their husbands even more, for giving them the gifts of complete sexual freedom, and satisfaction beyond their own means.

You always hit the nail on the head for anyone who doesn’t speak emoji.

Many say they were in a stable, happy, loving marriage but they might not even themselves realize that there were some big issues they weren’t dealing with. We are very similar in that I also had, have, and plan to continue having one of the worlds greatest love stories with my husband! I am so thoroughly enjoying the freedom he has given me, I get to play alone, which as @Jdingo619 said, allows me to be completely uninhibited, and I know who I’m growing old with … my husband. I really, really like my non-traditional boyfriend too!

It can work if the marriage/relationship really is as strong as one hopes it is.

 

[RandJ1028]

You always hit the nail on the head for anyone who doesn’t speak emoji.

Many say they were in a stable, happy, loving marriage but they might not even themselves realize that there were some big issues they weren’t dealing with. We are very similar in that I also had, have, and plan to continue having one of the worlds greatest love stories with my husband! I am so thoroughly enjoying the freedom he has given me, I get to play alone, which as @Jdingo619 said, allows me to be completely uninhibited, and I know who I’m growing old with … my husband. I really, really like my non-traditional boyfriend too!

It can work if the marriage/relationship really is as strong as one hopes it is.

Such a great comment Franki. I am very supportive of my wife playing and it’s been good for us.

 

[FrankiGoodGurl]

Such a great comment Franki. I am very supportive of my wife playing and it’s been good for us.

Thanks. It’s great to hear that you have this dynamic also!

 

[always9deep]

False. That outcome is FAR from inevitable.

My wife loves BBC. She's had plenty of playmates that absolutely rocked her world, and didn't develop any kind of feelings for them. None have been any kind of threat to the place I hold in my wife's life.

She's also had one guy who she unexpectedly bonded with very deeply, and they became close enough that she made him her boyfriend. We didn't think polyamory was something we were ever looking for, but it turned out to be much better for us than we expected. We were reminded that people don't have a finite supply of love that they have to divide between those they care about. You can have immense love, even different kinds of love, for more than one person. Parents don't stop loving their firstborn ******* when they have a second one.

My wife and her boyfriend became very close, and it was strange at first to hear her say, "I love you too," when they talked on the phone. Eventually it made me smile every time, because I could see how happy she was, and that's all I've ever wanted for her. Recently he found another woman who might be a good fit for a long term primary life partner, which is something we never wanted to block him from, so he and my wife made the tough decision to break things off, for now at least. She still cares for him very much and letting go has been really hard, but she wants him to have the chance to have the kind of happiness that she and I have been blessed with, that comes from a full-time committed relationship with a loving partner who is all-in with him.

What my wife and her boyfriend had went WAAAYYY beyond "seeing how great sex can be" and her taste for big black cock, yet even through all of that, with all the complicated emotions involved, she's never once become even slightly less loving of me, or any less committed to our marriage. In fact, it's very much the opposite. She tells (and shows) me regularly how much she appreciates the freedom our dynamic gives her, he much she values the trust I place in her, and how grateful she is to have a "strong, secure cucky (her words)" who can let her do this without constantly doubting her, or my place in her life.

I know this lifestyle is not for everyone, but I can say with zero hesitation that it has brought my wife and I closer together and made our already strong marriage even stronger AND our sex life hotter and more satisfying for both of us. This notion that white men have nothing to offer a woman if they don't have giant cocks, or that women are universally weak, emotionally immature, or heartless, just because they enjoyed a good deep dicking, is completely false.

Preach! you supported her and understand her well enough to know her trust is ultimately yours was key! Hope you two find the next one!

 

[sluttyissexy]

Fortunately for me my wife calls her time with others ,playtime. And time with me is totally unaffected by this . I have asked her to openly cheat on me lately but only to divulge if she has or not at a later date of her choosing . A new spice to our relationship .

Oh I like this thought. Wicked.

 

[ontcpl]

She only does this if there is more than one and I think she doesn’t want me to see that level

 

[Ben45mwm]

My wife has largely cut me out of her activities. I have been there and seen her with a handful of men, but ultimately she prefers me not to be there. My preference would be to be there everytime, but I have accepted her position. She gets a lot out of these experiences and I dont want to stand in the way of that.

Agree with this position. I am always surprised at how many men get into this lifestyle and then get upset when it doesn't go exactly the way the cuck wants. The wife and her lovers are not sex props for the cuck's entertainment. They are people who have their own desires and needs, and if they are getting into this lifestyle, they are probably a little kinky to begin with. Cucks need to expect that things will go in a different direction than they planned.

If you want a vanilla sex life with a faithful and dutiful wife, cuckolding is not for you. If you want to watch and participate in incredible sexual situations, then cuckolding is for you, but you should be prepared for the fact that it may not work out exactly the way you want.

My wife and I have ebbed and flowed in the 14 years she has been cuckolding me. In the beginning I was there every time, then that became a hassle when she got her first regular, and now there are quite a few men she has fucked that I never even met. It is part of being in the lifestyle.

 

[jmac21]

Agree with this position. I am always surprised at how many men get into this lifestyle and then get upset when it doesn't go exactly the way the cuck wants. The wife and her lovers are not sex props for the cuck's entertainment. They are people who have their own desires and needs, and if they are getting into this lifestyle, they are probably a little kinky to begin with. Cucks need to expect that things will go in a different direction than they planned.

If you want a vanilla sex life with a faithful and dutiful wife, cuckolding is not for you. If you want to watch and participate in incredible sexual situations, then cuckolding is for you, but you should be prepared for the fact that it may not work out exactly the way you want.

My wife and I have ebbed and flowed in the 14 years she has been cuckolding me. In the beginning I was there every time, then that became a hassle when she got her first regular, and now there are quite a few men she has fucked that I never even met. It is part of being in the lifestyle.

A lot of the guys shes with also really just arent into being watched but she still wants to meet them. I am totally ok with that. She enjoys it. The guys enjoy her. I get to hear about it sometimes while she strokes my cock.

 

[Justa_Blackman]

My wife did that to me,so I cuckolded her jealous ass right back with as many broads as I could get my dick into,she got the message!

Good for you @Mypete Thats what I would like to hear. Not these silly men crying’ over their wives that they got them to do this in the first place!

 

[Justa_Blackman]

Usually what this lifestyle is. Way to cheat and it’s dangerous playing with fire. Sounds like she is pushing you out. Next relationship, don’t do this lifestyle.

Good answer @lashnbuns!!!

 

[robbiewillsuck]

I really like her stroking my cock while she shares the details with me of her fucking a big cock earlier in the day. Makes me beg for her to keep fucking other cocks.

 

[Serveaqueen]

Your s/n is "cuckmepls" and you are a member here. Sounds like she is giving you want you asked for, just not in the way YOU thought it would be aka reality vs ur fantasy. It's time to man up and accept the responsibility for what you encourage her to do

Your right it's a double edged sword, after getting spaded my girlfriend left me, it took a few years and a lot of interracial porn and she found her a well hung black man

 

[Cuckmepls12]

She joked about being fucked in the ass when I asked her about her day yesterday she said she didn’t I said ru srs cuz I wanna know it’s hot

she said you can look as it takes a day or 2 for anal for her ass to get normal

thinking about it , when fucking her her ass was a bit like open and she used to say she wants anal around the time she asked me about the guy I’d let her now tbh

 

[Cuckmepls12]

But we are single in a way but dating too idk