I think my wife is on the verge of becoming a hotwife. Need advice!

About 9 years ago my wife and I had been dating for about a year. We had been drinking one night when she asked me about some of my kinks and in turn I asked her the same. To my surprise she dropped a bomb on me that she would love to fuck a man with a huge cock in a mfm threesome. I had never thought of it. After a short time it intruiged me which in turn resulted in 8 years of subtle hints to see how serious she was about it.
It started with some IR porn and then escalated to using a big dildo, then a realistic big dildo and then finally a big curved black dildo. Now she has quite the collection. Her two favorites and most requested are a 10 inch Carmel colored one and the curved black one that is slightly smaller but still dwarfs me. We play with them often and it was apparent from the first time how much more she gets off on those then she does with me.
Well Sunday night something else happen't. We took a shower together and she started talking about people who are sexual freaks. I just gave her the I'm listening look and she started talking about Cuckoldry. I asked her what that was and she went into an elaborate description and even mentioned watching a movie about it. I asked what movie that was and she couldn't tell me and instead just said she couldn't remember. So I asked her for details at which point she got down and started licking my cock while telling me about it.
It wasn't very long and she had me so hard and then looked up at me and said I think you like hearing about this. I played along and one thing led to another and we had an incredible night of sex. Playing with her toys and taking turns with me and her dildos. Then she took the large Carmel colored dildo and stuck it to the wall and started fucking it doggystyle while sucking my cock and continuing with the dirty talk telling me how great that big cock felt. I asked her if she was enjoying herself and all she could say was you have no idea. So I asked what I could do to make this even better and she said the only thing that could be better would be a real cock like that. I asked her if she was being for real and she just giggled and kept sucking me off. More like edging she clearly didn't want me to get off.
The next morning we we're getting ready for work and she asked me if I had fun last night. I told her of course and then returned the question and she smiled ear to ear and said what do you think? I told her I think you loved it and she just grinned. So my question is what do I do now? Keep playing with the toys or should I set her up on a date next time we go out of town. I think with a few shots of tequila she would be game for anything with the right guy, but what if Im wrong and it pisses her off. This is my wife in the pic. Joselyn her best friend of the last two years is all about black guys and she tells her all time how her boyfriend thinks my wife is made for black cock. Joselyn and her have gone out a few time and since they've been hanging out my wife notices and even points out black men more than ever. So I'm wondering if shes ready and wanting this now? I just don't want to be wrong.
 

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I think it could be a mistake to take such a drastic step as making a date. Continue on the path you are until SHE is the one that brings up making it real. Or if you think she is afraid to bring it up, then I would tell her you'd been thinking about her with a big cock and it really turns you on. If she wants to make it happen from there, she will. I just say give her an opening without pushing her
 
It's funny you say that because last Feb we went to the Casino and stayed for two nights. On the second night she was getting hit on by a tall black man at the slots. When I approached she waved me off, then texted me that she was busy. Nothing happened but I pretty sure she was feeling the situation out to see where it might lead. And now here for probably the last three months or so she's been asking to go back to the casino to get away for some "adult fun without the *******".
 
Im pretty sure you are much farther along than most other couples. Yes, she looks like bbc material, as does my wife.. in my opinion, based off what youve told, i think she is already doing it, and trying to bring ‘you’ on board with it. I wish i was in your shoes.!!!
 
As someone on a very similar path, I know that if things were to progress further, they would need to happen organically on her own terms (i.e. not me setting something up).
We're on the same path. It's a big step to take it to reality. Everything else seems to be working ie, she likes her IR porn, uses only a black toy, sometimes wears a removable QoS tat. We talk about it and she knows what she wants out of this situation.
 
Oh I figure it is a big step, but I feel like she was ready to take that step that night at the casino before I ever knew she had an actual interest. For me it's all about her pleasure. I just want her to have the best possible sexual experience she can and seeing it first hand is extremely hot to me as well.
Whether or not it ever happens is totally up to her, but part of me feels like she's wanting me make the move that makes it happen.
She teases me about it all the time and then leaves me hanging while pondering the thought. Last night she asked me again about going to the casino getting out of town just the two of us for a weekend. She even went so far as the say she would start saving up for the trip so we could really enjoys ourselves. She's a tease for sure, she even has names for her two favorite toys and will just tell me who she wants to play with as if referring to them as another person. Im just trying to figure out my next move. It doesn't help that she's told me about her previous lovers and some of them were way bigger than me and she's doesn't shy away from telling me that either. Its funny because this always come up in the moment after we've both got off and take a breather for the next round, but it's always when we've had sex or having sex that these discussions come up.
 
About 9 years ago my wife and I had been dating for about a year. We had been drinking one night when she asked me about some of my kinks and in turn I asked her the same. To my surprise she dropped a bomb on me that she would love to fuck a man with a huge cock in a mfm threesome. I had never thought of it. After a short time it intruiged me which in turn resulted in 8 years of subtle hints to see how serious she was about it.
It started with some IR porn and then escalated to using a big dildo, then a realistic big dildo and then finally a big curved black dildo. Now she has quite the collection. Her two favorites and most requested are a 10 inch Carmel colored one and the curved black one that is slightly smaller but still dwarfs me. We play with them often and it was apparent from the first time how much more she gets off on those then she does with me.
Well Sunday night something else happen't. We took a shower together and she started talking about people who are sexual freaks. I just gave her the I'm listening look and she started talking about Cuckoldry. I asked her what that was and she went into an elaborate description and even mentioned watching a movie about it. I asked what movie that was and she couldn't tell me and instead just said she couldn't remember. So I asked her for details at which point she got down and started licking my cock while telling me about it.
It wasn't very long and she had me so hard and then looked up at me and said I think you like hearing about this. I played along and one thing led to another and we had an incredible night of sex. Playing with her toys and taking turns with me and her dildos. Then she took the large Carmel colored dildo and stuck it to the wall and started fucking it doggystyle while sucking my cock and continuing with the dirty talk telling me how great that big cock felt. I asked her if she was enjoying herself and all she could say was you have no idea. So I asked what I could do to make this even better and she said the only thing that could be better would be a real cock like that. I asked her if she was being for real and she just giggled and kept sucking me off. More like edging she clearly didn't want me to get off.
The next morning we we're getting ready for work and she asked me if I had fun last night. I told her of course and then returned the question and she smiled ear to ear and said what do you think? I told her I think you loved it and she just grinned. So my question is what do I do now? Keep playing with the toys or should I set her up on a date next time we go out of town. I think with a few shots of tequila she would be game for anything with the right guy, but what if Im wrong and it pisses her off. This is my wife in the pic. Joselyn her best friend of the last two years is all about black guys and she tells her all time how her boyfriend thinks my wife is made for black cock. Joselyn and her have gone out a few time and since they've been hanging out my wife notices and even points out black men more than ever. So I'm wondering if shes ready and wanting this now? I just don't want to be wrong.
Just encourage her by saying how hot it is that her friend is all about black cock, she will take the hint and black guys will do the rest.
 
About 9 years ago my wife and I had been dating for about a year. We had been drinking one night when she asked me about some of my kinks and in turn I asked her the same. To my surprise she dropped a bomb on me that she would love to fuck a man with a huge cock in a mfm threesome. I had never thought of it. After a short time it intruiged me which in turn resulted in 8 years of subtle hints to see how serious she was about it.
It started with some IR porn and then escalated to using a big dildo, then a realistic big dildo and then finally a big curved black dildo. Now she has quite the collection. Her two favorites and most requested are a 10 inch Carmel colored one and the curved black one that is slightly smaller but still dwarfs me. We play with them often and it was apparent from the first time how much more she gets off on those then she does with me.
Well Sunday night something else happen't. We took a shower together and she started talking about people who are sexual freaks. I just gave her the I'm listening look and she started talking about Cuckoldry. I asked her what that was and she went into an elaborate description and even mentioned watching a movie about it. I asked what movie that was and she couldn't tell me and instead just said she couldn't remember. So I asked her for details at which point she got down and started licking my cock while telling me about it.
It wasn't very long and she had me so hard and then looked up at me and said I think you like hearing about this. I played along and one thing led to another and we had an incredible night of sex. Playing with her toys and taking turns with me and her dildos. Then she took the large Carmel colored dildo and stuck it to the wall and started fucking it doggystyle while sucking my cock and continuing with the dirty talk telling me how great that big cock felt. I asked her if she was enjoying herself and all she could say was you have no idea. So I asked what I could do to make this even better and she said the only thing that could be better would be a real cock like that. I asked her if she was being for real and she just giggled and kept sucking me off. More like edging she clearly didn't want me to get off.
The next morning we we're getting ready for work and she asked me if I had fun last night. I told her of course and then returned the question and she smiled ear to ear and said what do you think? I told her I think you loved it and she just grinned. So my question is what do I do now? Keep playing with the toys or should I set her up on a date next time we go out of town. I think with a few shots of tequila she would be game for anything with the right guy, but what if Im wrong and it pisses her off. This is my wife in the pic. Joselyn her best friend of the last two years is all about black guys and she tells her all time how her boyfriend thinks my wife is made for black cock. Joselyn and her have gone out a few time and since they've been hanging out my wife notices and even points out black men more than ever. So I'm wondering if shes ready and wanting this now? I just don't want to be wrong.

Honestly it sounds like she's already been blacked lol.

Now she's just trying to see what you think about it cause she doesn't want to destroy the relationship.

I could be wrong but that's the vibe I got reading your story.
 
I think you’re golden! I would tell her that you think it is so hot when she talks about how much she wants to fuck a big bull while you watch. But what turns you on the most about it is that maybe someday if she really wants to, it may happen For real.
 
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