How Should I Proceed?

stampa27

stampa27

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Hi all,

So a few months back I told my wife I wanted to see her with a black guy. She didn't really seem interested at the time but then I think she was afraid of what I might say if she admitted to liking the idea.

Fast forward to the other day. My wife was at work and had two black clients. She had a low cut top on and when she came home she said the two guys were staring at her cleavage when she would lean over and smile at each other.

She came home super horny and she seemed eager to tell me. That night I brought it up again and she blushed. We started dirty talking, something we never do, and I told her how much it turned me on to think of her getting fucked by two well hung black guys. She was a little hesitant at first but once she felt reassured I wouln't get pissed she told me it turned her on that these guys were staring at her.

We ended up having the hottest sex we've had in years. She told me how much she wanted to fuck them while she was sucking my dick. It was a really awesome experience.

We haven't really talked about it since and my question is, where do I go from here? She obviously really likes the idea but I'm just not sure what to do next.

Any input would be much appreciated.
 
pienman said:
well, i think you should start introducing a black dildo and baby step towards the REAL thing
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That would be a good first step....when you two are out point out any white females you see with blacks and tell her how good they look and how natural and right it is....always praise blacks around her. She sounds like she is getting past inhibitions she may have had from when she was raised and beginning to realize what she wants and needs.
 
Same advice as before...Dress her up and take her out... she will love the attention! I started by pointing out when guys were checking her out (they were usually black) . And by telling her it turned me on and didn't make me jealous. Slowly over time we would add watching IR porn and and going out to nightclubs a lot so it would be obvious (even to her) that she was getting checked out. I also found it helpful to go to strip clubs before the nightclub to "desensitize" her to nudity and sexiness. When we arrived at the nightclub she would already be charged up and responded well to the advances she received. Then after a few months and after she was on board I would contact a few fellas and let them know what club we would be hitting! This is still our program to this day. We love to hit the town together and enjoy the experiences we have. She loves the attention and it makes her feel hot! Plus I get the added benefit of seeing her in action and participating in the rotation... we take turns passing her around and she gets as much cock as she likes.
 
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I think I can relate. I'm always nervous that my husband won't react the way he thinks he will. Granted, he has seen me with another guy once and encourages me to find an ongoing thing. He's proven it's a turn on I just second guess it too much...

Also... Selfish as it may seem, my biggest concern is if he's "setting me up" so he can go out and find another woman on the side. You know, "I let you do it." type thing..

I used to be a faithful wife, never looked twice at another man... but he's certainly done a good job about turning me around on that. He brings it up a lot and at first I sort of brushed him off.. would get quiet.. but somewhere along the line it started to really turn me on and I would get lost in the fantasy. Now, I find myself sizing men up all the time. I am constantly thinking about it and I get so nervous around handsome black men. My husband reassures me he doesn't want a thing to do with other women.. just enjoys watching me submit to another man.. and he says he is inadequate, and knows I crave more after we fuck.

I love him and the way he feels, but yes there is always a hunger for more. Maybe in the future I'd be more open to the idea of swinging, partner swapping if he's into it.. I am not knocking it entirely. But I know I am not ready for that now..
 
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OnTheTown2 said:
Same advice as before...Dress her up and take her out... she will love the attention! I started by pointing out when guys were checking her out (they were usually black) . And by telling her it turned me on and didn't make me jealous.
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I think pointing out when another man is checking her out has a huge impact. I've had two ******* and definitely have some self doubt and insecurities. The first time my husband did this, he pointed out that our waiter on our date night was being "overly friendly" with me... I would have ordinarily missed it but being clued in opened my eyes and I began to notice the hints... it became an ongoing game throughout dinner for me to be a little more suggestive to him each time he came around. Although I'm shy I do loosen up with a few drinks and after flirting back and forth with him that night, it definitely gave me a rush and made me feel a bit more confident. I wasn't quite ready to do anything at that point but my husband and I really enjoyed talking later on about what I would have liked to do to our waiter..
 
Shy said:
I think pointing out when another man is checking her out has a huge impact. I've had two ******* and definitely have some self doubt and insecurities. The first time my husband did this, he pointed out that our waiter on our date night was being "overly friendly" with me... I would have ordinarily missed it but being clued in opened my eyes and I began to notice the hints... it became an ongoing game throughout dinner for me to be a little more suggestive to him each time he came around. Although I'm shy I do loosen up with a few drinks and after flirting back and forth with him that night, it definitely gave me a rush and made me feel a bit more confident. I wasn't quite ready to do anything at that point but my husband and I really enjoyed talking later on about what I would have liked to do to our waiter..
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She is aware of the attention she gets and i love reminding her how sexy she is and i can see her it boosts he confidence i tell her i know how lucky i am to have her and love seeing her checking out black guys and not hiding it anymore..
 
introduce her to the hypnotic sounds of gangsta rap. It may really help her to loosen up and it will help her with her inhibitions
 
stampa27 said:
Hi all,

So a few months back I told my wife I wanted to see her with a black guy. She didn't really seem interested at the time but then I think she was afraid of what I might say if she admitted to liking the idea.

Fast forward to the other day. My wife was at work and had two black clients. She had a low cut top on and when she came home she said the two guys were staring at her cleavage when she would lean over and smile at each other.

She came home super horny and she seemed eager to tell me. That night I brought it up again and she blushed. We started dirty talking, something we never do, and I told her how much it turned me on to think of her getting fucked by two well hung black guys. She was a little hesitant at first but once she felt reassured I wouln't get pissed she told me it turned her on that these guys were staring at her.

We ended up having the hottest sex we've had in years. She told me how much she wanted to fuck them while she was sucking my dick. It was a really awesome experience.

We haven't really talked about it since and my question is, where do I go from here? She obviously really likes the idea but I'm just not sure what to do next.

Any input would be much appreciated.
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Don't have any tips on how to proceed, just wanted to say how sexy your post is and how sexy your wife's reaction and possible interest are. My history with an ex girlfriend is very different so can't offer much help, just saying thanks for the post
 
Don't get a sexy idea and fun role play confused with her wanting it. I think anyone likes to be noticed by someone and we consider it flattering. Plus discussing this when both of you are worked up and playing it on when having sex and then bringing it into real life can be very different. Maybe role play it a little more and talk about it when the excitement comes down before committing to anything for real. Both take some time and think if you real want to see the other one having sex with someone else or if it is just a sexy idea. Then if it is something you still want to go with do it.
 
stampa27 said:
Hi all,

So a few months back I told my wife I wanted to see her with a black guy. She didn't really seem interested at the time but then I think she was afraid of what I might say if she admitted to liking the idea.

Fast forward to the other day. My wife was at work and had two black clients. She had a low cut top on and when she came home she said the two guys were staring at her cleavage when she would lean over and smile at each other.

She came home super horny and she seemed eager to tell me. That night I brought it up again and she blushed. We started dirty talking, something we never do, and I told her how much it turned me on to think of her getting fucked by two well hung black guys. She was a little hesitant at first but once she felt reassured I wouln't get pissed she told me it turned her on that these guys were staring at her.

We ended up having the hottest sex we've had in years. She told me how much she wanted to fuck them while she was sucking my dick. It was a really awesome experience.

We haven't really talked about it since and my question is, where do I go from here? She obviously really likes the idea but I'm just not sure what to do next.

Any input would be much appreciated.
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Your wife sounds like she's not against the idea of going with black guys, I think she's interested at least. Getting a black dildo and doing role play in the bedroom should be the next step. Very soon she will get wet at the very thought of it!
 
Ann4BBC said:
Your wife sounds like she's not against the idea of going with black guys, I think she's interested at least. Getting a black dildo and doing role play in the bedroom should be the next step. Very soon she will get wet at the very thought of it!
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Hi Sweet really in need of your opinion, advice sweet.
Ok, we have done ir porn long time since we met, she knows my deep fetish of this lifestyle, she masturbates with only big or huge black dildoes, size of my fist, she ok with black guys, she says idea of sleeping with black men is exciting yet we havent done it she says she is too shy, decent for it...what next....please help ann women are mysterious....:) thanks...
 
husbandchris said:
Hi Sweet really in need of your opinion, advice sweet.
Ok, we have done ir porn long time since we met, she knows my deep fetish of this lifestyle, she masturbates with only big or huge black dildoes, size of my fist, she ok with black guys, she says idea of sleeping with black men is exciting yet we havent done it she says she is too shy, decent for it...what next....please help ann women are mysterious....:) thanks...
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"...she is too shy, decent..." if that's not the perfect introduction for a black man to become her lover...
 
husbandchris said:
Hi Sweet really in need of your opinion, advice sweet.
Ok, we have done ir porn long time since we met, she knows my deep fetish of this lifestyle, she masturbates with only big or huge black dildoes, size of my fist, she ok with black guys, she says idea of sleeping with black men is exciting yet we havent done it she says she is too shy, decent for it...what next....please help ann women are mysterious....:) thanks...
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Thanx for asking, yes women can be mysterious LOL
She sounds very much like I was to be honest. Before I met hubby I'd only been with a couple of guys (white) and for much of my married life was quite shy and vanilla in many things.
We started, like you, with black dildoes, and hubby was very good at talking a good fantasy role play when we were in bed. "Imagine your at school, your new strict headmaster is black- Mr Johnson- and he's punishing you for being the school slut' etc. He turned my 'headmaster' fantasies, into a BBC related fantasy.
In the end just the mention of black cock got me wet. I knew I wanted to try, hubby had convinced me this wasn't a one off fantasy, that he wouldn't get jealous. So I said I'd try 1, possibly 2 guys. Mainly to please him really. But when I'd been with my first guy and the world didn't come crashing down, I went with another and carried on.
Having sex with another guy is just that, sex, everything else in your life goes on just the same.
If you have a big birthday or anniversary coming up, perhaps suggest she does it as a special gift for you? Won't cost her anything! X
 
Ann4BBC said:
Thanx for asking, yes women can be mysterious LOL
She sounds very much like I was to be honest. Before I met hubby I'd only been with a couple of guys (white) and for much of my married life was quite shy and vanilla in many things.
We started, like you, with black dildoes, and hubby was very good at talking a good fantasy role play when we were in bed. "Imagine your at school, your new strict headmaster is black- Mr Johnson- and he's punishing you for being the school slut' etc. He turned my 'headmaster' fantasies, into a BBC related fantasy.
In the end just the mention of black cock got me wet. I knew I wanted to try, hubby had convinced me this wasn't a one off fantasy, that he wouldn't get jealous. So I said I'd try 1, possibly 2 guys. Mainly to please him really. But when I'd been with my first guy and the world didn't come crashing down, I went with another and carried on.
Having sex with another guy is just that, sex, everything else in your life goes on just the same.
If you have a big birthday or anniversary coming up, perhaps suggest she does it as a special gift for you? Won't cost her anything! X
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thank you for your little bit of history Ann...it's a fantastic turn on
 
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