If my wife was to leave me I would hope that I could find another woman who could please me and me her. That being said, I would have a hard time finding someone. I would most likely be more open to hookups and meeting men of all colors. I have been with black men and white men. I enjoy both. If a really big cocked white man or black man where to get together with me, and enjoy topping me. I would maintain that relationship, and enjoy being his bottom exclusively.