Was in denial for a long time with my first wife she had to admit to having affairs with a hispanic and a mid eastern guy who were co workers, she was a few months pregnant and wasnt sure if I was the *******. I t turned out I was the ******* but tried to put it out of my mind for saving the marriage when she started talking about a black guy at work in her new job all those feelings anf thoughts came back. Eventually she wound up having sex with him.