How Has the Lifestyle Impacted Marriage Stability?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by PleaseFillMyWife, Sep 19, 2016.

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For wives in the lifestyle only: Which lifestyle do you prefer

  1. Cuckolding hubby with many partners

    9 vote(s)
    52.9%
  2. Cuckolding hubby with one main lover

    7 vote(s)
    41.2%
  3. Leaving hubby to be with one lover

    1 vote(s)
    5.9%
  4. Leaving the lifestyle to be with hubby

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  1. PleaseFillMyWife

    PleaseFillMyWife Member Real Person

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    Serious question for cuckolds/couples:

    1. How long have you and your wife been living the Lifestyle?
    2. How has it affected your relationship? Improved? Strained? Can't even compare?
    3. Do you feel that it is a stable lifestyle that you can maintain happily together indefinitely?
    4. Anyone been into the lifestyle for a while and then got out of it successfully if it was damaging your marriage?

    5. Bonus: If you feel that your relationship is stable and enhanced by the Lifestyle, what advice to you have for others to replicate your success?
     
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  2. Mywifelovesthis

    Mywifelovesthis Active Member Gold Member

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    Couple
    1. Almost 5 years now
    2. Our relationship has been the same. Great as always.

    3.Yes as long as we are honest with eachother. And for us we still have great sex together. We just don't rely on the bulls. ( But they are great to.)

    4) Haven't left the lifestyle.

    5. For us just being open to each other wants and needs. We communicate to one another. We taken the lifestyle to a point were we are happy. We are happy with our choices even if people don't like it
     
    #2 Mywifelovesthis, Sep 20, 2016
    Last edited: Sep 20, 2016
  3. Bellaazz

    Bellaazz Well-Known Member Gold Member

    Gender:
    Male
    Country:
    US
    These are my wife's responses:
    1. 2 years
    2. Most definitely improved
    3. Maybe. Hopefully. If my being with another man ever "strains" our relationship I will stop
    4. Not there yet but see #3 above
     
  4. Marriedwife4bbc

    Marriedwife4bbc Well-Known Member

    Gender:
    Female
    Country:
    Canada
    We have only been at the interacial cuckolding for a little over a year and it has improved our relationship drastically. We feel we can maintain this type of lifestyle until our late fifties or longer!
    My hubby and I are soul mates and have always had a great relationship, we always thought things could not get better until this. My advice to other couples would to be honest, and communication is a big key. We also have threesomes with other females but my husband just lately told me he actually prefers to watch me with bbc sometimes. Great for me . But always keep in mind that it's a two way street, what he does for me, I am willing to do for him!
    We only practice cuckolding outside our family home though!
     
  5. beenblackened

    beenblackened Moderator Real Person Gold Member

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    Couple
    Country:
    US
    1. Over 16 years
    2. Improved immensely
    3. We have so far.
    4. no
    5. Communicate and be open
     
  6. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

    Gender:
    Female
    Country:
    UK
    Me and hubby been in the lifestyle since 2013.
    We had a loving marriage anyway, but the lifestyle has added extra spice to our marriage. It's certainly improved our sex life which had gone stale.
    I think we will be able to maintain being in the lifestyle indefinitely, we both like playing and our special meets.
    Not got out of it yet.
    Advice would be, be honest and totally open to each other about what you want and what you like.
     
  7. SuperMario

    SuperMario Member

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    great advice. usefully for new couples to this lifestyle. thanks
     
  8. funcouple52661

    funcouple52661 Active Member Real Person

    Gender:
    Couple
    Country:
    US
    1. About 7 years
    2. Our relationship is the same, it has always been very strong.
    3. Yes, we are very secure.
    5.Communicate all the time.
     
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  9. PleaseFillMyWife

    PleaseFillMyWife Member Real Person

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    Thanks, everyone, for your responses! This has been reassuring and I am grateful.
     
  10. manumanu

    manumanu Member

    Gender:
    Male
    Country:
    China
    hi we are mixed couple and would like to get into it.... my wife is asian phantasies about a bbc... for me bbc is superior too... just look at the size... just worried that our relationship will get bad...
     
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  11. Bellaazz

    Bellaazz Well-Known Member Gold Member

    Gender:
    Male
    Country:
    US
    It won't go bad if you and she won't let it. Constant communication and she must know how much you love her
     
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