How do I get to the final step?

[omlpp0]

Hey,

my girlfriend (22) and me (25) are a couple for about 1.5 years.
Most times in our sex life, im the dominant part and tell her what to do, although i'm watching interracial and cuckold porn only when she's not arround.
She knows that i get arroused when i imagine her having sex with another man.

Yesterday i surprised her with a chastity cage on my dick and gave her the keys. Actually she was really interested in it and teased me for about 1.5 hours. Then she unlocked it and we had sex.
I told her this cage could prevent me from cheating (especially, because from monday - friday im living in another town due to work) and that if she keeps me chaste, i wouldnt even be able to masturbate and thus needed to concentrate on other things.
She really liked the idea and said "we should keep you chaste whenever im not arround then ..." (but i guess more as a joke, because im not in a cage right now).

When I was in the cage i used a nice black dildo to satisfy her, i often start an interracial porn on my tv while we have sex and tell her how sexy she's looking on this bbc (while she's riding the dildo).

So the question is:
She knows about both my fantasies - being kept in chastity while she has sex with a real black man.
But she says mine is enough and that she doesnt need more.

What can I do about it? What is the next step?

Thank you for your help.

 

[MacNfries]

What can I do about it? What is the next step?

Well, if she's declined your offer, maybe turn it into one of reciprocation ... find out what HER deepest sexual fantasy is, and then help her fulfill it. Then it becomes one of reciprocation ... she won't feel guilty for granting yours then. Who knows, maybe she'll enjoy it and your relationship take a new direction.

 

[omlpp0]

Her biggest fantasy is to get dominated by a man. I play dominant, but i feel more submissive. :/

 

[MacNfries]

Her biggest fantasy is to get dominated by a man. I play dominant, but i feel more submissive. :/

well, there you go ... the groups are called BDSMs and there are many of them around. You might even get both wishes accomplished at the same time. Lots of forums and chatrooms on this topic. If you join a few forum conversations, you might be able to locate a few in your area. Then, you correspond with the group for a "one night of" BDSM and tell them what you'd like to accomplish. You may even find individual males who would be glad to entertain her for a night. The one thing about BDSMs is that people actually dress the parts of the doms & submissives ... and you can get that on the internet ... really interesting stuff. Just use your search engines to locate forums & clubs.
Good lu8ck ...
Mac