How do I get shy wife to be more dominant and humiliating? Dildo stage

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I had an incredible night the other day.

I explained a fantasy of being tied up and watching my wife play with herself. She tied me up naked to a chair, and slowly put on her new lingerie in front of me on the bed. She looked incredible in stockings and heels, and enjoyed seeing me watch helplessly.

She then played with a small black dildo and I watched her in ecstacy as she used it . She joked I would not be needed. She later untied me, and during dirty talk she admitted she could handle even bigger than me! I later made her cum using the dildo.

Any ideas on how we could ramp up the humiliation aspect in this situation, maybe get her to taunt me and grow her dominant side? I have ordered a bigger dildo (slightly bigger than me), and have suggested I could help her get dressed for her play next time. I am quite surprised how she keen is on all this.

She's only had a few sexual partners and is more submissive. I myself tend to be more dominant, but I hope to bring up the idea of cuckolding as things develop. Thankyou for any ideas.
 
I had an incredible night the other day.

I explained a fantasy of being tied up and watching my wife play with herself. She tied me up naked to a chair, and slowly put on her new lingerie in front of me on the bed. She looked incredible in stockings and heels, and enjoyed seeing me watch helplessly.

She then played with a small black dildo and I watched her in ecstacy as she used it . She joked I would not be needed. She later untied me, and during dirty talk she admitted she could handle even bigger than me! I later made her cum using the dildo.

Any ideas on how we could ramp up the humiliation aspect in this situation, maybe get her to taunt me and grow her dominant side? I have ordered a bigger dildo (slightly bigger than me), and have suggested I could help her get dressed for her play next time. I am quite surprised how she keen is on all this.

She's only had a few sexual partners and is more submissive. I myself tend to be more dominant, but I hope to bring up the idea of cuckolding as things develop. Thankyou for any ideas.
That story is fantastic. If the goal is to eventually progress to sharing, I think you're well on the way.

I think you might be able to escalate to chastity from here if you think you'll be into that. if she's already tying you up and playing with herself, and telling you you're not needed, the next logical thing would be to lock up. "If I can't please you, I shouldn't be able to please myself" might be a good Segway....
 
I had an incredible night the other day.

I explained a fantasy of being tied up and watching my wife play with herself. She tied me up naked to a chair, and slowly put on her new lingerie in front of me on the bed. She looked incredible in stockings and heels, and enjoyed seeing me watch helplessly.

She then played with a small black dildo and I watched her in ecstacy as she used it . She joked I would not be needed. She later untied me, and during dirty talk she admitted she could handle even bigger than me! I later made her cum using the dildo.

Any ideas on how we could ramp up the humiliation aspect in this situation, maybe get her to taunt me and grow her dominant side? I have ordered a bigger dildo (slightly bigger than me), and have suggested I could help her get dressed for her play next time. I am quite surprised how she keen is on all this.

She's only had a few sexual partners and is more submissive. I myself tend to be more dominant, but I hope to bring up the idea of cuckolding as things develop. Thankyou for any ideas.
buy some fake BBC tattoos and place them where they can just barley be seen. then bring her out to a casino or where you do not have to drive and let the rest take care of itself.
 
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