Much like I have told this story in the past, my first black experience was motivated by a cheating husband. When I found out he was cheating, I went crying to my best friend only to find that her best advice was "the best medicine for a cheating husband is to cheat back".. and not only did she have that piece of advise but she had someone in mind for me to cheat back with.. I was then surprised when she told me she was involved with a black guy and the guy she wanted me to meet was her boyfriends best friend. At first, I wasn't interested, not for any prejudice reasons, I just thought at the time that having an affair with anyone would just make things even more complicated and I was still in denial that maybe there was a chance that things would get better.. But when the lies and cheating continued to escalate out of control, I finally called her and told her I was ready to meet their black friend. So she set it up where we would all meet at her place and all go out for dinner and then return for a couple more drinks and getting to know each other better.. To make a long story short, I was very impressed with him from the very beginning so with that, it was easy for me to be very comfortable with him.. Soooo many first for me that night, not only was it the first time I've ever been out with a black guy but this was also a time where I had sex with anyone on a first date..
So now you ask "How did BBC change your life..",???? Well, that first experience was the most amazing sex I ever had in my entire life and it sure didn't take this little white girl long to figure out what I've been missing all this time. Everything my friend told me about black men was so true to her every word and then some.. It was a life-changing experience for me and after continuing my affair with this beautiful black man, it didn't take long until I finally leveled with hubby, first me telling him I know about his affair and then telling him about mine.. and soon after, filed for divorce.
All of this started some 20 years ago and I'm still very happy. My black boyfriend and I have lived together for a number of years now and I know for certain that I'm very happy with him and I absolutely have no regrets for the path I have chosen. I'm not saying that this path is for everyone but for me, it was one of the best decisions I have ever made..